ok, I am a 14 girl and there is a 14 year-old guy tht i have liked for some while now and he has known I liked him for a few weeks. My friend was talking to him on AIM and she told me he said he was debating weather or not to dump his girlfriend. She asked why and he said because he likes another girl, but my friend couldn't find out who because he said the girl was one of her friends (maybe me?). This may seem a bit mean... but i totally want them to break up. My other friend sayd that if it got to him that I was starting to get over him, then he would think that he better dump his girfriend quick before I'm totally over him. but then i also heard that if I did tht then he might just stop liking me... so my question is, should I let it get back to him tht im gettin over him, or should I just leave it?
SherriLovesYooh answered Thursday April 13 2006, 8:08 pm: Never start a relationship with a lie. If he did ever find out he might be a little mad. If you`re really into lying you COULD also tell him/ or have your friend tell him.. that you want to get over him because you have no chance with him since he has a girlfriend. I highly suggest not lying to him though. If he really does like you he`ll break up with her on his own. Give it time
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tinkerbelle92 answered Thursday April 13 2006, 6:54 pm: It is much better for him to just know that you like him. Don't lie to him....especially if you might end up in a relationship with him. Why take the chance of him not liking you anymore? You have a much better chance for him to like you if you don't tell him that you dont like him. Plus, you don't want to be lying to a guy that you like this much, do you? If he finds out that you don't like him anymore, its true, he probably won't like you anymore... he will probably feel like he needs to move on to someone else... or stay with his girlfriend. Just let things happen. Don't try to take control of the situation. "If you tell the truth, you don't ever have to remember anything."
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