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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?
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if you feel its right then do it
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ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~ (link)
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well communication is really really important. mayb you and him should hang out somewhere, that requires you 2 to talk a lot, like go to a park or go on a walk, and talk. hope it works out for ya!!
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i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate! (link)
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well i would go to the party either way, who cares about the people you dont like. and it seems like you really wanna go b/c you made a post about this, so that means you like him, so id say yes
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Ok well when I started going out with my boyfriend (about 2 months ago), my mom told me that she didn't want me kissing him, but only hugging him and holding hands. She said that she didn't think that I was old enough to be in the type of relationship in which you kissed in. Well, I felt I was ready, and so when my boyfriend asked me on IM if he could kiss me the next day, I said it would be okay. Well, he kissed me (it was like a one second kiss on the lips), and I have kissed him about 7 or 8 times since then everyday at the end of school. I don't know what to tell my mom, because she will probably eventually find out about it. If I tell her, however, I'm afraid that she won't let me go to the movies, dances, etc. with him, because she won't trust us together. It just doesn't feel right not telling her. So what should I do?
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13 isn't to young to just kiss, and usually parents dont know what their kids do with their boyfriends/girlfriends. kids dont normally tell their parents that stuff
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hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice. (link)
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wow noooo ur WAY to young! wait like 8 years because 13 is soo young, ur not even in highschool yet.
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okay so i like this guy... and i think he likes me... we were on the phone last night and he asked if i liked him- to which i answered yea- well idk if he lieks me the same or not.. like we hung out a lot today adn he gave me a ot of hugs, but im not sure though, i think i like him a lot though... but it seems like every relationship i get myself into i always end up breakin it off w/in like a week or so... can anybody tell me how to make a relationship last longer... adn if you think theres any hope for me and that guy?? thanks!! (link)
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well i think theres hope if he asked if you liked him and if hes flirting with you. also you have to know that you have to let the relationship go longer than a couple weeks. love doesn't come that easy. give it time, im sure ur guy would deserve a chance!
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okay, well i like this guy but he doesnt like me i dont even think he likes me as a friend i dont know why i mean i talk to him on the bus and all but thats it. and i overheard him say he doesnt like me but i have liked this guy for a really long time. im 14 and have never had a boyfriend or even danced with a guy i know its pathetic...so could someone please help me because im at the end of 8th grade and i really want a boyfriend or just someone to like me back and i seem really pathetic..i know but idk what to do please help me...
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if i were you i would talk to him more on the bus. and when you see him in school talk to him. get to kno him first. then once you know eachother he might change his ming and talk to you! hope u find love !!
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okay i really think this kid is hott but i dont even know him...i see him in the halls alot but i smile and he smiles back but i want him to notice me what do i do???? should i wear something differnt put heavy makeup on? i know it seems really stubid because of a guy but i dont even know him!!! (link)
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obviously he is interested in what you already do, so i wouldn't wear something different or put more make up on. just keep smiling and mayb ask your friends who he is and who he is friends with. who knows mayb hes friends with one of your friends !
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OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT! (link)
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if i were you i would just kind of keep what your doing. mayb he isn't ready to be dating you, or dating anyone. but it sounds like he likes you. you gotta make him want you tho, n play hard to get !! hope i helped, good luck with him!
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well i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and my mum said im 2 good for her but ive known her for ages and i feel we r falling aoart (link)
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im not really sure what your question is, but if you feel like you still want to be with your girlfriend then you have to keep your guy's relationship together. talk to her and tell her how you feel, do the same with your mom so she understands that you really like your girlfriend
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yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?
PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think. (link)
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well thats normal. if he really likes u then he'll respect you and wait for you to b ready. but make sure he knows your not ready, and when you are also make sure he knows
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So, theres this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me and this other chick but I dont know if Im really his type.We have gone out sevral times and it has been GREAT but it seems everytime it ends he goes back to his emo ex!!! and I alwaz get hurt what should I do to get his attentions and make him love me NOT HER!!!??!!
Sighed,
~Helpless~ (link)
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well obviously he still has feelings for his ex. mayb while you 2 are broken up, you should try to move on from him or atleast wait to go out with him till he is over her
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Hello, Im havin some guy problems see i started datin this guy named jason* and we lasted for about 3 months but we never talked to much around each other, and i moved so we broke up but then i came back and i still had a lot of feeling for him and we talk a lot now.i wanna get back together with him and he knows i still like him but doesn't do anything. i don't think he wants to date again because he knows before it was kinda werid when we were together but now we now one another better and aren't bashful around eachother. but i dunno what to do cause i really LOVE him but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it i mean he flirts and stuff but thats it. like he wants to to come over and do stuff but he doesn't seem to wanna date and hes not the type of guy to do that...so i dont know how i can get him back or if i should move on?
Sign confused girl from tennesse* (link)
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maybe you should just move on, unless he is the shy type, because normally it seems like guys ask girls out if they both like eachother. so if he isn't shy, then maybe he has moved on
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Well my boyfriend of six months just broke up with me and we both are totally in love with each other and always have been but this isn't the first time we've broken up. Though the reason we have broken up is because we have both been really hurt in the past and are really scraed to let any one get close to use even though we are really already close to each other. I know I want to go back out with him but how do I tell him that I want to go back out with him but can't break up again because of him being scared to let me get close. I mean this time it really tore me up I haven't got any sleep and been crying all week. Plus the thing is we are already both superclose to each other. I rate high please help!! (link)
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you 2 gotta communicate. but mayb you should consider why you 2 broke up in the past before. see what he has to say about it, mayb you 2 would be better off moving on? :(
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Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)
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you can get all of them free, but if you do that then you have a greater chance of getting a virus, but a lot of them have ones you can buy. i suggest WinMx, it kinda sucks but no viruses!
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Whats wrong with me? I always fantasize to be with a certain guy that i kno. Or sometimes ill cry becasue I know i cant have him. He is poor and spanish pluss hes ghetto and he stayed back twice for getting into a lot of fights. That not my type at all. but theirs so,ething about him. Hes funny and makes me laugh all the time. Out going and hes hot. Tons of guys are funny outgoing and hot but i dont know what it is about him. I dont know about him though i would never go out with him. i guess its just a little crush. I cant see him my mom doesnt want me to go to my grandmothers house and he lives across from her. I never reall ytalk to him he doesnt have aim and i dont know his number. what is it about him?
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you probably just like that he is a badass.
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I recently started going out with this guy, I am 16 and he is 18. We make-out tons and tons, and its great and it feels great. But then that makes me wonder if he is only in it for the physical aspect, I asked him if thats all it was, he said no and that he likes being around me and he likes hanging out with me. Whell things dont feel right at all, I feel like im just his toy or whatever and he doenst tell me how he feels about things. Its often hard to express myself as well because I dont know how he would react. Its just weird, I just want to make things better (link)
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well i guess it depends on how long you guys have dated. try to get more on a personal level. get to know eachother, and talk on the phone a bunch. im sure itll work out!
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K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f (link)
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ok well obviously if he is asking to kiss you and hold his hand, he is flirting with you. just kinda play hard to get. and be urself
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This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love. (link)
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ya got it ! you gotta be honest
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so they guy i like asked me to prom i got my dress and everything but im so nervous is there anyone that has some good advice about everything? like how to act around him and stuff because im really shy i'll rate 5's!! (link)
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you shouldn't be nervous. obviously if he asked you then he sees something in you, just act yourself, and have a good time. im sure once the night goes on you'll become more comfortable! have fun !! :)
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