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I really would like to look very pretty tomorrow. There is this guy That I might be hanging out with sometime this week and I really want to hit it off with him. What should I wear and how should I do my haair and makeup and that other stuff...
I want to flirt but not be to flirty and obvious
what are some things I could say
also this could help for the next fiew days also when I will be seeing him also
just be yourself.. if he's ever gonna like you, he's gonna like the COMFORTABLE & REAL you. the you that is you everyday of your life. if he likes the you that dresses up and acts like a totally different person then he really doesnt like YOU. so just be yourself, and whatever you do, act like you own the place. guys like girls with confidence. and give him attention just to show him your interested but then at the flirtiest times, pull back a little bit just to keep him interested in you. and that will keep HIM wanting to talk to YOU. just make sure you dont ONLY wanna talk to him, cuz thats just boring for him cuz then he KNOWS you want him and all boys want challenges. hope i helped hunnie.. good luck tomoro.
Is it possible to fall in love at 17? I have been with my boyfriend for only 4 months, but there is such an intense energy between us. We talk all the time and are together at every moment possible. we are similar in our core beliefs, but disagree on many topics. Disagreeing has sparked tons of interesting conversations between us. everytime i think about him or someone says his name i smile and get a warm, fuzzy, happy feeling. we trust and respect one another and have good sexual chemistry (we have not however, had sex and will not for quite some time)
I am almost positive that i love him, but ever since i was young people have always told me that you can't fall in love in high school. I want to get some outside oppinions and find out if the things i am feeling are what is generally classified as love.
thanks loves!
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of course you can fall in love at 17. im only 16 and many of my friends have been in love. but who really cares what other people say... only YOU know whether or not you're in love. its a feeling that only you can feel. so just listen to your heart [corny but true] and it really doesnt matter if people say you cant fall in love yet. hunnie, if you have that feeling, your in love.
ok well,im 15, there is this guy that i have a crush on, but he has a girlfriend. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. I know that i didnt like it when other girls liked my bf. So do you think it is wrong that i like someone elses boyfriend? This has been bugging me for a long time.
well, theres n0thin you can do hunnie. if you like somebody, you like somebody.. just keep it on the down low until their little fling is over then tell him how you feel. just make sure you dont interfere by telling him WHiLE hes still with his gf, becuz that might just scare him :-/ so no, your not doing anything wr0ng darlin. xOx
well me and my boyfriend broke up 4 or 5 days ago, and I talked to him today and I mentioned that I am talking to a x bf of mine,and he didnt sound very happy, I asked him if he was ok he said yea....but he didnt sound like he wanted me to date another guy, when he broke up with me he told me from his heart that I was the hardest girl to break up with cause he really cared for me, and he barely has emotional feelings for girls but he was CRYING on the phone when he told me that he just wanted to be close friends.... can ya please give me some advice on if he still cares for me...
dont worry babe. he DEFiNiTELY still has feelings for you and cares about you a lot, he just doesnt want a relationship with you right now, for whatever his reason is. it may take him a while to actually stop liking you. as of now, i`m sure he still likes you, and no matter what, he will always care about you. of course he`s gonna be jealous of another guy because he still has to get used to not being able to hhold you and call you his own. hope i helped
im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow?
definetely not too slow. i have a friend and shes 14, and shes been going out with her bf for 2 months and they`ve only pecked eachother a couple times. theres nothing rong with it. it just means that the guy respects you and he doesnt want to push you to do any thing that you`re uncomfortable with. Ox
I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.
~*~Britt~*~
just act confident. confidence is what guys fall for the most. if there is a hot guy, walk up to him sometime and be a little flirty... and act like you could have im if you want. Ox
ok so i want to break up with my boyfriend and i dont know how to do it. I want ot break up bcuz we dont talk that much and its just awkward. I am a girl and 14 yrs old...plz some one help, i wanna do it tomorrow
thanks sooooo much
tell him the truth. just pull him away from everyone, (be sure not to use the "we need to talk".. its waaay over used)just pull him away by using "wait, can you come here a sec?" and tell him and tell him you look at him as more of a friend... Hope i helped
ok, my friend, lets call her jane is going out with this guy, lets call him joe. i like joe, joe likes me. jane found out but she didnt have a problem with it. i was home sick from school today and even before today, everyone was telling me that joe was going to dump jane for me. if he really does ask me out and all, should i say yes or what because i am so confused and caught in the middle and i feel really bad cuz i think that i'm the cause of them breaking up. help! n thx ahead of time
i think you should talk to joe and tell him how you feel, ii`m not rele sure how you feel... do you want to go out with him?? or no?? well if you think you shouldnt, then you should tell him not to dump her for you bcuz you dont think its rite, and shes your friend.. but if you want to go out with joe, then talk to jane and ask her for permission, and tell her you feel bad, but the relationship feels rite... hope i helped.. Ox
Alright i was talking to the guy that I have kind of been more than friends with and his girlfriend called him while i was on the phone with him... when we were doing stuff together he didnt have a girlfriend... but ne wayz he came over to the other line and i asked him who is was and he said it was his girlfriend.. i asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said no. he told his girlfriend he was busy and then he told me that he was talking to me ne wayz. well anywayz i really like him but i dont want his girlfriend to get hurt should i back off until they break up or what... plus doesnt he seem like he likes me???/ im confused please help......
i think you need to talk to him and just tell him that if he likes you, he needs to break up w// his gf cuz you`re not gonna play games w// him... --yes-- it seems like he likes you but back off until you talk to him bcuz you dont wwant ppl saying things about you. Ox
hay i am 14 and single and i am a female. oneday i was walking in the hallways and this guy tapped by shoulders and was just like "hi" and i said hi and i just went along with my business. a few days later i was walking in the hallways and he said hi to me but i never replied because i never knew who he was talkin to. 2 mins later i passed back that same way with my friend and he was there with this guy i knew. and the guy who was he was with knows me and he was like hi sarah and i was like hi and then the guy was like "now i know your namme" and i smiled and walked to my business. the same day at my lunch the guy was behind me and he was like hi sarah and i said hi and dat was that. the next day i was going to my locker and he was going somewhere and he was like hi sarah and i said hi and i asked him why do u always say hi to me and he was like i think you are pretty and i smiled and then he said you are too young for me the sanme time his friend came along and asked who i was? and i didnt hear what the guy told him.and then i was like ok bye i got to go. then after i left he was still talkin with his frend and i heard them talkin and i think his friend was asking about me ... i didnt hear and his friend watched back and began smiling with me and i smiled back and then i went away to by business.does he like me ? does he want to go out with me?
he could just be a weirdo who likes to talk to ppl... but if he's cute and you think u mite like him, then talk to him more since he's obviously trying to talk to you. hope i helped a little? :) -Ox
Im a gurl n im 14 n like this boy but he is a yr older then me n i dotn kno how to get to kno him..i mean we talk..n i am friends with his friends but we just started talking not too long ago n i told him that i wanted to get to kno him n i askd him wat he thought n he told me "i think we should b friends for rite now n who knows wat then"..n he askd me b4 y i dont talk to him in person rilly n i dont wanna tell him that im shy bc then he will prolly jus think im a waste of time..but all my friends tell me that he stares at me..but i am shy to talk to him..how can i handle this even tho im shy??
take a chance, it sounds like he likes you, and it can only go good from here. just walk up to him, you have nothing to loose and just start talking.hope i helped Ox
hay i am a female who is 14 and single. i know this guy who is in my last period class but i always see him in the hallways. i never really say hi to him but if he sees me he will say hi and if too much people are not around he will ask for a hug and i will say yes. people says he has a girlfriend but i think he is playing her because he is always up on different girls. he is a really sweey guy. he is a guy that is a little "pimp". he loves to touch girls booty. oneday i was sitting by myself and he came and sat beside me and hug me and started rubbig my back and we were talking. and he was like i have a secret to tell you and i was like ok and he kissed me. i was shocked. but i didn't do anything. after he did that i had to leave because my teacher called me. but he told me to come but. 20 minutes later i was sitting by myself and he joined me and his friends did too. i was the only girl on the bench. he was hugging me and rubbing my belly and legs. he said to me i love you.... like 20 times to me but i didnt answer his question because i did not know what to say and i finally was like i love you as a friend. he told me i am pretty and thinks i have big boobs for my size and he will always say sweet things to me. sometimes he will feel me up(boobs,tits) also he will ask for a hug and he will start rubbing my back and booty. and everytime he sees me he wil grab me and one day we were walking to class and he began rubbing me up. we would always hug each other everyday sometimes once or twice. but i am not the only girl he hugs he hus other girls but when he hugs them he will just give them a decent hug but when he hugs me he would start feeling me up. i like it . i love him but i want to know if he likes me or is he just being a friend?
he sounds like he might just wanna hook up.. go for it... make sure your prepared for at least one person to call you a slut (if he as a girlfriend that is) but i dont think you should rely on him, because he seems like the kinna guy who doesnt want to get serious and could easily break your heart.
Alright, I broke up with my ex that I had been with for 7 months, I really loved him but We both changed and we barely saw eachother and yeah I broke up with him. And i'm seeing this new guy that is amazing and wonderful and everything my old boyfriend wasen't....it's been 3 months but...when I heard that he made out with one of my friends I completely freaked out, I just dont understand why I'm feeling this way. Please Help -Adrianna 14 f.
you have every reason to be angry or stressed or w/e... he made a huge mistake to do that. dont act totally mad because you still want him as yer friend rite? just dont act the same way you used to towards him.. make it obvious that yer not happy with him & wait for him to apologize if you want to still be friends.
My ex boyfriend and I had been together for about two years, and now that we've broken up, he doesn't want to see me at all. (-there wasn't a fight, it was more of a 'this isn't working out, I don't feel that way about you' type of deal.) He's returned my things through a friend of ours, who gave them to me.
Well, I'm still kind of upset about the whole thing, and we were going to talk a little after we'd had some time apart. I still have some things of his, and was wondering if I should A. give then to our mutual friend, B. drop them off at his house/in person, or C. wait a week or two and then give them to him myself.
All of our friends are shared, so it seems that there will come a time when we'll be forced to see each other. I wouldn't cause a scene or push him to feel bad about our breakup if I did see him, but he seems to want to avoid me at all costs right now. When he'd broken up with me, we didn't talk at all, and it seems this still has to happen (not to get back together, but to clear my mind and his a little between us.)
What should I do? Should I wait it out?
if you never tlak to him, and you guys suddenly end up seeing eachother becuz of mutual friends, things will be veeeery acward. in the next few days you shud rite him a note or something and in it just say " ****, please understand that even tho we arent going out ne more, i think we should be able to talk occasionally.. what do you think?" and have a friend give it to him.. if he thinks the smae way.. then all problems solved, but if not, then back off, maybe rite back and say "well im sorry u feel that way... i'll have sum1 bring yer stuff to you sumtime soon..."
ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do??
it sounds like you havent talked to him about it at all. what you need to do is next time he says i'll call you back, say "are you actually going to call me back this time?" :).. do it6 in a nice way... and he will probly tell you why he hasnt been going by his word lately
Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?
many people have different aged relationships. dont worry about it. but if you dont think you could get over the fact of what people think, you dont have to go out w/ him. ""going out with sum1" is just a title, if you already talk to him and hang out w/ him a lot, then what is going out w/ him going to do?
ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do?
do whatever you can to get him back. if you think you are really in love w/ him... give it all you got, DO NOT try to get over him if you think u could be with him for a long time. Try to visit him as often as you can to remind him how good for him you are.