Okay. So all my friends make out with their guys, but I havent really done that yet, cause I don't know how to use my tongue. Tips? Do I touch his, how?
Here's a few sites for you to go to.
http://www.thekiss.com/
http://www.virtualkiss.com
http://links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
hope I helped!!!
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my boyfriend always says really nice things to me and then i dont know what to say back because i cant think of anything.he asked me yesterday why i never said anything sweet to him,i told i dunno because i can never find something really sweet to say to. i really luv him and i wanna make him happy
Well, you could always write a poem if that's your kind of thing. There's many ways to say I love you. Maybe you just need to find your niche. I always had a hard time saying sweet things to guys as well. I could just never think of things on the spot. I started writing a few poems and giving guys cards. For me it wasn't that I didn't have anything sweet to say, I just needed some time to think about it. Maybe it's that way for you. Don't worry about sounding corny or stupid. Just try to think of different ways of saying how much you care. You don't always have to think of sweet things to say. You could always DO sweet things for him. Or even the simplest, "Wow you look really nice today," will be ok.
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ok, the other day i was speaking to my cousins mate online (him and my cousin are 13 im 14) and my cousin's mate (alex) he gave me some boys email address and said that he was in his class at school so i added him and he came online and said who is this blah blah blah...
anyway we got to talking and i said who i was nd that nd he said i think i know you send me a pic of you so we swapped pics etc. and i thought he was cute, but then i thought and i remembered he's like a year younger than me but i keep lookin at his pic and i just keep thinking "he is sooo cute" and it was right after he had seen my picture he was acting really nice.
But, he's a year younger than me, i dont really "know" him and im never guna meet him (he lives like half an hour away) but i think he's like really nice but all we'll ever do is talk on msn!!!
so, do i just keep on talking to him blah blah blah...or should i not talk 2 him as much bcoz i think that he more i talk 2 him, the more i might like him :S...i really dont know!!!
thanks for ANY answers
xxxx
Well if you are never going to meet him, I don't see the problem with talking to him. Besides if you hypothetically ever met him, he might not be who you thought. You could possibly like him more by talking to him, but if you have a problem with not meeting him, then I suggest that you try to stay just friends for now. Keep talking on msn and such, but tell him that you like him, but the chances of ever meeting are slim to none and you would just like to stay friends for now. That way he knows where he stands and there's no miscomunications about your friendship. Of course that's just what I would do if I were you, but it's up to you to decide what you really want to do. I hope I helped you in some small way at least! Good luck!
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my boyfriend and i had sex and afterwords there was blood from me on his boxers and im no where near my period. what happened?
He could have popped your cherry, but you can also bleed if you were too rough. If the bleeding does not stop in a few days I would go see a doctor just to be safe. Until then do not stress too much about it, because stress can also bring on your period and then you would really freak. Its happend to me before.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now and are competely in love. last year around this time he got into a lot of trouble involving drugs and was arrested. ovbiously my mom was not too happy about me being around him but she gave him another chance to make everything okay. everything was going well until a month ago when he relapsed. his mom called mine and told her what happened, so i was forbidden to talk to him or see him. ovbiously, i didnt listen and was continuing to communicate with him. last week when i stayed home sick, he stopped by and brought me soup and all that kind of stuff, and everything was the best its ever been with me and him. we're closer now than ever before. the other day my mom caught me talking to him and everything blew up. we got in a huge fight about how i lied to her and she couldnt trust me anymore and even called him to tell him never to call me and respect her wishes. i was so upset last night that i couldnt sleep and snuck out and ran 2 miles to his house at 1 o'clock in the morning (his mom loves me so it wasnt really an issue) i just needed to see/talk to him and his mom. my problem is this: i cannot stop talking to him. I am so in love and not talking to him would kill me. I dont want to disrespect my mom anymore though either... my boyfriend is going to rehab and a lot of other programs and really for the first time getting his act together. i dont know how to explain to my mom that i need him in my life, hes my best friend and the only person who completely understands who i really am. we need eachother. but my mom just says im too young, and need to let it go. she doesnt get that i wont, and if i want it bad enough, ill just wait for it. should i talk to her more and is there anything i can tell her to make her understand..... ahhhhh
Well honestly I would talk to your mom more about it....depending on your age, there is not much you can do without disrespecting your moms wishes. Keep trying to talk to her about it and maybe she will come around. If you really loved him you might have to let him go for at least a little while. Maybe he will stop doing drugs, just so he can be with you. Also you might be able to set down with your mom, boyfriend, and his mom and have like a group "meeting" or something. Let me know how it works out for you.
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17/M
This is gonna sound really wierd, but my girlfriend of four years, has arranged for one of our mutual friends, a cute girl our age, to have a threesome this thursday...i dont know what i want to do... i mean, this IS kinda every guys fantasy, but i dont know if its RIGHT...you know? should i go ahead with it? i know my girlfriends not bi, and that shes probably doing it for me, but she seems so enthusiastic about it, and so does the other girl...and even if i go ahead with it, if the other girl is doing stuff to me, is it okay to show that i like it? would that make my girlfriend jealous? im just looking to try and enjoy this (i do WANT to do it) and not offend anybody i can...i love my girlfriend with all my heart, and shes the light of my life, i dont want to hurt her...ANYTHING you have to say will be helpfull...thanks...by the way im looking for girls opinions too...
I think that maybe you need to talk to your girlfriend. Ask her what she's comfortable with. Set down some rules, you know? Both of you should voice your concerns to eachother and let eachother know what's comfortable for the both of you. She probably is doing this because she loves you, but she also is enthusiastic about it because she wants to experiment with you. That's a good thing. It doesn't mean that a girl has to be bi to do that sort of thing. Me and my fiance are doing the same thing. We laid out some rules of what we felt would be right and what would be wrong during a threesome. He looks for a girl for us and I look for a guy. We do this because we love eachother and are comfortable enough to want to try this. If your girlfriend is comfortable with a threesome then she loves you very much and yes it is ok to show that you enjoy it. That's the whole point! Good luck and let me know what happens!
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ok. so i have ALWAYS (since pre-skool) have been known as a tomb-boy.....(im a girl), but a year ago i started to like this boy. but i would NEVER tell ANYONE....this year hes in my class. AND on top of that, his locker is RIGHT next to mine!!! omg. now, he talks to me. and i like wrestling and so does he. and lately, when he sits near me in a class, he talks to me more. so now im starting to think he likes me. but i really dont know. SHOULD I ASK HIM OUT? OR TELL MY FRIENDS I LIKE HIM?! I RELLY NEED AN ANSWER!!!
ps. i DO NOT want my friends to ask him out for me AND HES BEST FRIENDS WITH MY BEST FRIEND! (whose a boy)
Wow! It's kind of hard to decipher what guys think sometimes. He could very possibly like you, but it could be that he only likes you as a friend. You'll never know unless you tell him you like him and ask him if he likes you back. I wouldn't tell your friends until you're sure, because all friends do is complicate relationships sometimes. Good luck!
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So here's the thing, the guy i've been in love with for 4 years lives 2 hours away from me but we have such a strong relationship and everything, he's my ex but we decided to see other people because of the distance thing. we fight constantly and sometime don't talk for weeks but i guess in my opinion that makes us stronger. he's kind of with a girl and i am so sick of him being with her than calling me and telling me he loves me when hes saying the same lines to someone else when it should just be one person. he complaing and complains about her and she treats him like shit, i'm not saying this out of jealousy or anything like. anyway, he keeps going back to her and then back to me. non stop back and forth, back and forth. i feel like complete shit, im not sure what to do. i think he might be doing this because he's not "with" me (the distance thing) and hes using her until he can get to me, i get my license in july and he graduates this year, i just need some advice. please help.
Well I say you should drive down there when he graduates and talk to him. Tell him it's either you or her and it can't be both. Tell him you're fed up with this ping pong game and that you're not playing it anymore. If it doesn't work out between you two then you could always be friends with him.
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14/f
Everyone tells me this kid likes me, but when it comes to seeing if people like me or not, I can never ever tell!
Here are some signs --
*He calls me twice a day.
*He talks about how he misses what we had.
*He always says we should hang out
*Hes called me pretty 3 times, in the past like.. maybe week tops?
*He asked if I'd ever makeout with him... lol?
*He always tries to help me with things.
*He drops like everything, just to talk to me on the phone type thing..
& alot of other stuff.. I just can't seem to think of it right now. =/ but, trust me theres alot more.. thats just super recent. & some of the other things, I don't know how to put it.
Anyways, what do you think? Does he just want to be my friend? or more...
By the way.. I won't rate you low, if you think he doesn't like me or something.. I want you to be completely honest.
OH..& sorry if we're not allowed to say we rate at all? I thought it was just as long as we don't say we rate high...
kthanks in advance.
Well it sounds a lot like he likes you. Especially since he talks about how he misses what ya'll had, calls you pretty, asks if you would make out with him, and because he drops everything just to spend time with you. Just ask him if he likes you. If you like him then tell him that also. If not then he's jsut a really good friend. It doesn't ever hurt to try!
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13/f
ok theres this guy that i like hes in my grade and i wanna tell him that i like him but .... hes not like the most attractive guy ya know and no body knows i like him.. and a lot of people think that he likes me and if they fine out i like him then i think ill get made fun of or something... idk and he always guessing who i like .... and i dont know what to do! please help! thanks!!
Well if you really liked him then you wouldn't care what he looked like or what other people thought about him. Popularity in school isn't everything. Although at your age it can seem like that. Just tell him that you like him. Don't be afraid of what other people say about you two. There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and going for it, just expect people to talk about you, because they always will talk about someone even if it's not you. If you really truly like him and he likes you back, then just give it a try! I think you'll be pleasantly surprised!
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