ok so everytime i shave my va-jay-jay, i always end up cutting myself and i bleed. and i dont even shave it all off, you can still see the hair on it. then it hjust ends up being all prickly the next day.
is there any way to shave it and get a close shave so it stays smooth for a while?
i dont want to wax either.
so anything other than that.
thanks!
use bladeless hair removal. Veet is my favorite, it is a cream that gentley removes hair. it has never irritated my skin and my skin is really sensative! it gets a super close and lasts about 4 days before anyting starts to grow back.
also, electric razos get a good shave with cutting or irritating your skin, but they never get as close as veet or a razor can.
*tips for shaving* just in case you have to again,
1. don't shave againt the way your hair grows like you would on your legs. shave downwards, like your brushing the hair, and it will remove without cutting or leaving razor burn.
2. don't stretch the skin out when you shave it, it irritates the skin
3. use warm water. it soothes the skin
hope i helped
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i'm not exactly sure how to start this off, let me just say i love my ex best friend. and he knows this...and we are still friends..and what not...he has a girlfriend, but before the whole girlfriend thing, he told me how he lied to me on saying i wasnt his first priority..and apparently put asking his girlfriend out for 3-4 months becuase of me.. just so i wouldnt get hurt and whanot..when he knew i didnt want him to but he told me after he asked her out..anyways i still got mad at him for doing that...but in a way i understood that he cared about my feelings..now the hard part here is..he is always there for me..or was..when we were best friends..he never gave up on me when i had a problem..and always stood by me (ive known him for an year now)..when i messed up in our friendship..and that would be or should have been the end of the friendship..he always took me back and gave me another chance...and lately..i get this vibe that deep down that he has feelings for me, but wont say anything..and i have like 3 or 4 people also thinking deep down he has feelings for me..because he always gives me another chance..yet i known for that for the last 2 years he's been trying to get with his girlfriend..and finally happened..though i know they wont last that long probably since i know the type of girl she is..though im friends with her and what..and yeah...even though this whole thing hurts a lot..im still happy for him..i just don't know what to do..i know there is no way to get him to crack if he really does have feelings..i just dont know. heh...
im really glad you asked me this question because i've been through almost the exact same situation. You say that you've hurt him before, which jeopordized your friendship, even if he loves you he may be afraid of getting hurt. You are the one he loves, but cannot completely trust, and his girlfriend now is his "ideal" girlfriend but he doesnt love her. Right now he is probably trying to make it work with his girlfriend, thinking over time he will love her. and chances are he'll say things like "i love her soo much!" or "shes so perfect!" but at the end of the day, he will know he doesnt care about her the way he cares about you. My advice is to stand by him the way he has stood by you, and i know it might hurt but if you really care about somebody, you'll take the hit.
over time i think he will realize you are the only one for him, if he has given you so many chances i think he does love you. good luck and don't lose hope
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if you could say just one thing to that one guy you've though about for years, who meant alot but you meant nothing to what would it be.just one short sentence
I've always cared about you, and you've always looked past me, but by the time you finally see me for who i am i'll be gone.
or
i've always been there for you, even when you didn't care about me - there's a reason for that
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My boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a month, but I want to get past this situation.
I was at his house the other day, and his sister started talking about his ex girlfriend, who is apparently calling their house and his cell phone all the time and sending him pictures of her on his phone telling him how much she wants him back. And I guess he told her that he's already taken and what not, but yesterday we were together and I saw that he was texting her. It's just really hard to trust him because I don't know him all that entirely well yet, I don't really know what to think. And I don't REALLY want to bring it up and have him think that I'm a jealous freak so early into the relationship. He is a really sweet guy, the nicest boyfriend I've had by far, I just don't want to think all that about him and then have him screw me over.
So what do you think I should do?
First of all, you're completely right in worrying about this. But maybe he isn't ready for a relationship just yet.
Does he ever make fun of her, say he hates her? does he talk about her, is her name really that far from his mouth? Even though he swears he can't stand her, that kind of passion means he still has strong feelings for her. He may know he doesnt want her back, but he can still love her. This may not be what you want to hear, but if he was with her for a while he will need time to get over her
and although this might be the case, i truly doubt she's just texting him for nothing. He has given her hope. He texts her back, probably talks to her on the phone when you're not around, or makes comments to her that make her feel wanted. Because NO girl chases a guy who says "BACK OFF, NEVER TEXT ME, I JUST WANT YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE" if he's ever said that, he proably apologized if she's still trying to contact him.
I am not saying don't trust your new boyfriend, but maybe give him some time. He obviously is falling hard for you, and may not want to take a break, but believe me it's best for the relationship.
good luck
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Ok me and this girl that i have hung out with 3-4 times fell in love then i had to move away now im moving back and we want to spend every waking moment with each other but im afraid things might get okaward how can i prevent this? and if it has already started how do i stop it, im 14 male by the way and she is, 15 female
i always make a joke about the awkwardness. say "whoa awkward silence" and she'll laugh and it'll make her feel more confortable. make a joke and even if it isn't funny, she'll laugh. then after the joke go into more conversation.
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Can anyone thats spanish please translate this to me
Tengo los sentimientos para usted, en los días que hablamos, tengo thought acerca de usted
usted ganga??
the exact translation is "I have the feelings for you, in the days that we speak, I have thought about you"
but im pretty sure "usted ganga" means "you bargain?" and that doesn't make sense to me.
i hope i helped =]
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boy: why are you bored
girl: because your not entertaining me haha
boy: hahahaha
boy: i gotta make sexy time
whats that mean?
"sexy time" is a joke from the movie Borat referring to sex, saying he needs to have sex basically.
he's just kidding don't worry
laugh it off =]
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hey ok so i was readin one of your answers to a questions about what guys like. and like you said they like a girls persoanlity and a cute face. well what do you think they would consider a cute face? because like the guys at my school that are nice and not popular jerks at my school go for the personality and cute face. but liek me i would be cute but i mean i have circles under my eyes. do you hink thats a major downfall? and im have a chubbyish face. i have big cheeks and if i push my chin in i have a beginning of a double chin. i kno your not a guy. but like i dont really know what im asking. haha lol . also the guy that likes me i kno he lieks me but liek when i ask or my friend asks he will keep on making excuses. but i do the same thing. its like both of us cant face the fact that we like eachother because we dont want to. well thats how it is for me.
true i'm not a guy but i feel like i have enough brothers/friends to understand them lol. circles under your eyes is not a problem at all, don't worry at all about that and chubby cheeks are cute! little faults in girls are indearing and guys find it adorable, being perfect is too intiminating for many guys.
the only things that guys have told me they find unattractive about a girls face is too much make-up, acne, and extremely oversized nose, or a gross smile [basically unbrushed teeth]. i don't really agree with most of those considering you should never hold things against people that they cannot help but boys will be boys.
im happy to help you with absolutely anything else you need! just a click away =]
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okay question
do guys actually look at a girls clothes?
what do they like or look at? i know its broad and that every guy is different but im talking about in general.
do they look at eyes?
do they like smart girls, pretty girls, stupid girls, flirty girls.
i hang out with mostly guys at my school and every single one of them says the exact same thing,
they don't care about what brand of clothes you wear, as long as it looks good on you and you feel comfortable. the simple tee shirt and jeans is a favorite because itlooks like you're nt even trying, and you still look beautiful.
another thing girls obsess about is their body, and the truth is guys could care less if you are a little bit chubby or have a stomach on you, the real thing they care about is your face. they look at girls with hot body's as somebody they want to have sex with not have a lasting relationship, guys will fall in love with a great personality and cute face.
personality-wise, every guy says he loves a girl who is very nice. a good sense of humor is important, and caring about what you look like 24/7 is a major turn off... it's annoying. the most important thing is not to act dumb. i used to do this when flirtig because it got me a laugh until i was turned down by my crush because he said its sexy when girls are smart and there were plenty of smarter girls. yea that sucked ahaha
the best quality a girl can have - being spontaneous. being out the kid in him and he'll always want to talk to you, be around you, and be with you.
don't wear too much make up and dressing too sexy only attracts the wrong kind of attention. be cool and have fun, CONFIDENCE IS KEY so love yourself
that's all i hope i helped =]
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alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::(((((
first of all, you need to let your boyfriend know that threats will not keep you around, and you don't react well to them. what he is doing is trying to control you with threats, its wrong and it may be a hint that the relationship can potentially become abusive.
second of all, im guessing you are in middle school/high school, and believe me boys are immature as they come around that time. by this i think he means he will make you jealous by 1. dating one of your friends or another girl 2. talking trash about you. he thinks these things will break your heart and they may upset you, but they certainly shouldn't break your heart: you're stronger than that.
ehhh what he said was wrong and you should tell him calmly that you won't be heartbroken because if he ever did TRY to hurt you then he isn't worth caring about in the first place
good luck =]
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I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)
Thanks!
first of all, you should know this is all completely normal.
after a woman loses her virginity she may go through many differant side effects such as:
- soreness for 1-5 days
- bladder or urethral infection. It is not a sexually transmitted disease, the bacterium is “regular”, intestinal and needs antibiotic treatment. The most common symptoms are burning during urination, frequent urination, dribbling, etc
- bleeding for a few days is common
- excessive discharge which could mean you have a bacterial infection. if your area smells then you most likely do, no worries antibiotics will cure you within days.
fun stuff right? i'm sure your fine but i figured i'd add those in there just in case. hope i helped =]
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might be long, please help.
16/f
In ocotber i started going out with a boy. I had liked him all summer and we got really close but it took him a while to ask me out. Wel went out a little over a month(i know not long) and broke up with me because he liked another girl and didnt think it was right. I was really sad cause we were relaly good together eveyone said so. Well we still stayed friend though it was werid at first i sucked it up because i didnt want to loose him all together. He was talking to me online the other day and somehow got into talking about when we were going out and all the times and that we were good together and was like well do ou ever think that we could be back together and i was like im not sure because as much as i want to because i do miss him and liked being with him he hurt me because of another girl and im afraid of it happening again. My friends tell me that he always talks about how he misses me and wishes he didnt do what he did. So i Dont know what to do i just want HONEST opinons. If he asked me back out shoud i do it or would it just be a bad idea.
so many people will tell you he is no good, don't let him hurt you again, but i disagree. He broke up with you because he was trying to do the right thing, he had feelings for another girl and he did not want to string you along. In the end, he cannot control his feelings but he did do his best to do what he thougth was best
guys are stupid, they make mistakes, everybody deserves a second chance.
it seems like he misses you like crazy, and you miss him. You two obviously have feelings for each other so take a chance. You can't see the rainbow without the storm, remember that.
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Pls help me. What should I do? Im inlove to a young girl,she is 9 years old????Im already 15 now?!! Is it bad? Im thinking im very stupid. I keep avoiding it but it hurts. What should I do pls?? Help help!!!
i am not going to lie, that is very wrong.
you should never try anything sexually with her, it is wrong and will gte you in trouble
but if you really do love her, wait until she is older. real love can wait. she should be at least 15 before you make your move, meaningwhile hang with girls your own age.
if you really love her, let her have her childhood. even if she says she wants to do something, look out for her and refuse to it could mess her up as she gets older. real love can wait, wait until she is 15
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Okay, so I'm 16 (female) and my boyfriend is 22. We've known each other since this last summer and we started talking more once he gave me his screen name.
We've liked each other for about 2 months and hung out a few times. We just started actually dating a week ago.
We make each other really happy. We argue about who likes and misses each other more. We have these deep conversations that end up confusing the hell out of us.
When I told my best friend that I was dating him, she flipped out and said "Ewww, that's disgusting." I guess she doesn't approve over the whole age thing. In my eyes, age is nothing but a number. I just wanted some opinion's.. whether it be good or bad. What do you think of the age gap?
well the reason why your friend may be disgusted is because she sees your boyfriend as a pedafile. I am not saying he is, in fact I believe you two have a deeper connection than sex from what you told me, but for a 22 year old to be dating a teenager makes one wonder if he is attracted to younger girls and that is a problem. I think you have a good thing going, don't let other people bring you down. But please be sure he does not have a thing for younger girls or be naive about intentions he may have.
all in all, be cautious but follow your heart.
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So, I was talking with this guy and I'm 15 and he's 16. We were planning on doing it because, I thought, we were basiclly dating. Today, I found out he had a myspace and apparently he has a girlfriend he never told me about or mentioned. I saw the comments she left him saying how much she loves him and then his replys and they were from today. I know this means he's basiclly an ass and I shouldn't be with him or care for him anymore but I really hurt. Should I just not answer his calls and have nothing to do with him anymore or should I confront him or what should I do? Should I tell his girlfriend that he was planning on having sex with me? (I've never talked to her before) Someone please help me before I lose my mind.
I know you have the urge to "warn" his girlfriend or confront him and get angry, but believe me it will only bring more pain.
if you try to tell his gf then he will make up some story that your some stalker, and there is a whole lot of more trouble. the fact is, your the girl on the side and the smartest thing to do is calmly tell him you wnt be taking his calls nymore and leave it at that
delete him from you phone & memory. He's only trouble and you dnt need that kind of negativity in your life.
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Why do people say its special to kiss in the rain?
What makes it diffrent then kissing when its not raining?
Does it feel diffrent or something?.
Thank you
please answer a.s.a.p
Its romantic.
It doesn't feel any better, in fact it might feel a little gross. But the idea of kissing in the rain is when you are in a vonerable state, outside cold in the pouring rain and he holds you, keeps you warm and makes you feel beautiful when you are drenched and ungroomed. I guess it's kind of like he's being prince charming, or your hero.
hope i helped =]
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im not sure if this is the right category but yea..well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months, and making out just seems kinda boring now..i dont know what else we can do thats not going too far like having sex or blow jobs or anything like that..im not ready for that yet. So someone let me know if there is anything that we can do.
oh this happens to everybody, here are some fun (but not too far) tips
1. getting fingered feels good and isnt invading or going too far
2. guys love hand jobs but they are not really that personal, but if that seems too far for you thats fine
3. try to mix up your kissing like keeping it spontaneous, catch him at random times. or roll your tongue && try a new kissing trick
4. hickies feel amazing. don't just kiss his mouth, kiss his neck and sensually suck on it, it feels really good and guys love it.
5. while kissing kind of put your hands on his inner theigh and move them slowly, he will get so damn excited he won't be bored at all.
have fun =]
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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them
yea we love it, alot!!! its makes you seem truthful and like a good listener, like you really care. But looking them in the eyes constantly can get kind of creepy so heres a tip...
eye contact for four seconds, then while still keeping your attention to her shift your eyes to a hand gesture while your talking, to look around for a quick second, or down because it makes you seem sincere.
good luck =]
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i want to ask this boy to prom. however he has told other people that he does not go to school functions & isn't going to prom (he doesn't know i want to ask him though). should i still ask? i think it would be awfully embarassing if he said no & i would feel awkward around him after. however there is no one else to ask & this is very last minute (prom is may 13th) & i want to do it before this weekend ends. some people say it's wrong to do over the phone & it's better to do in person, others say it it's OK. so first of all do you think i should risk asking him? & also, is it bad to do over the phone because i won't see him this weekend? thanks!
Asking a person to prom over the phone can be good or bad considering the relationship between the two. If you and this boy talk on the phone often just to talk then casually mentioning it would be fine, and saveyou embaressment since it was during a conversation. But if you and this boy do not often talk on the phone or have long conversations over the phone i would suggest in person would be best. This way, you can read his reaction and be able see if it is a yes or no before he answers.
Now when asking, since this boy seems to think the whole concept is lame, act casual and carefree. mention that you don't have a date and prom is coming up and you know he isn't into that kind of thing but it would really mean alot to you, and that he would be going to a big party i mean how bad could it be? If you are not incredibly close with him, then in person will make him more likely to say yes because it will be more personal.
Now when you say "should i ask him" the answer is yes. Because think of this, the worst that happens is that he says no, ok shrug it off and he will too. But when he says yes you will have a prom date and have a wonderful prom night to remember. AND you will have a closer relationship with this boy. But if you don't ask, you simply go to prom alone and slow dance with the wall? You have nothing to lose but everything to gain! have fun prom night!
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ok well how do u flirt with a guy..like i kind of know how but im like not pro on it..so does anyone kno any good tips for flirting and to get a guy to notice you?
thanks
first of all, get his attention at any given chance. Ask for a pen/pencil or if the whole class is laughing look at him and smile/laugh. Guys love attention.
next, when you are talking to him in a small group or one on one find an excuse to touch him. when laughing lean forward and touch his chest and/or if he is wearing a necklace touch it and compliment it. same goes for a shirt, touch it and compliment it. one compliment at a time though, you want to sound sincere. This works because when you touch a guy or get closer they automatically feel closer to you.
establish relationships as friends and such and give them hugs when you say good bye or hello. again, if you touch a guy they automatically feel an instant bond.
and finally, the obvious. laugh at his jokes, act carefree and nice around him, reconize him, touch him, joke around with him such as "lookin' sexay today ahaha" with a smile on your face so he knows your joking. All of the following are considered flirting, and the most effective flirting tools you'll find.
good luck!
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