Can anyone tell me? just keep them laughing.
I l-o-v-e guys that can make me laugh. =]
DO's:
I know that this sounds mean, but whenever guys say something funny (like in a make-fun of way) about someone, it always cracks me up.
You can even make fun of the teacher. Don't let your teacher hear you though. Hah, that would NOT be good.
If the teacher calls on you to answer a question, give a funny answer.
If they aren't in to 'fashion', then make fun of the girls who are. (Like how they are obsessed with lipgloss. Or how they put so much make up on that they look like they have a mask on or like a clown does.)
DONT's:
Never tell jokes, most of them are lame.
Never make up stories that aren't true just to get us to laugh, we'll find out the truth and we WON'T be laughing then.
Never make fun of our best friends in a serious kind of way. That just pisses us off.
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Okay. Well there is this boy, and i like him and i'm not sure if he likes me. we sit infront of each other and we like to talk and stuff. And we were talkin one day and he made me laugh and the girl next to him said "Just go ahead and ask her out already!!" and he boy just sorta giggled,smiled, and turned real red. then like 5 minutes later she said it again and all he did was smile and turn real red...We like to push each others desks. and the boy sittin next to me (not the one i like) saw him push my desk. and he's like "ohh foostie!" and the boy i like blushed...and smiled at me... Does he like me!? Because one time the girl sittin next to the boy i like wrote him a note. talkin bout if he liked me. and i read a lil and she asked if he liked me and i didn't get to read the answer, then later down in the note i saw that she asked " what a friend?" so i had my doubts...so i dont know if he does... does he?
It sounds like he does.
Some guys are just shy like that. He won't ask you out unless he's absolutely sure that you like him. Try giving him hints that you like him and see what he does. You can try getting one of your close friends who knows him a little to ask him if he likes you or would ever go out with you. Make sure that they don't come running over to you as soon as they get the answer because then it would be obvious that you told them to ask him that. Also, make sure that the person who you get to ask is not someone who would yell it out because that would be embarrassing for you and him. If you aren't very shy then you can simply ask him in person or write him a note and ask him out.
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TOTAL MIXED SIGNALS!
my crush and I, we IM:ed earlier today..
and he went "you're so perfect for me, we like the same movies, songs, everything" and i was soooo happy because of that, but i had to go offline, so i said bye, but then i realized id rather talk to him than do anything else.. so i went online again, and he blocked me! my friend said he was still online, but he "went offline" as soon as i logged in.. WHYY? i cant ask him about this, so do i just NOT talk to him until he talks to me? or what?
Aw, he's so sweet.
He blocked you because he got nervous and felt embarrassed about what he had said to you earlier.
Let him know that you feel the same way about him. You NEED to talk to him, so do not wait for him to talk to you. That might give him the impression that you think he's some freak for randomly saying that stuff to you.
Wait till he unblocks you and just act like you didn't know about it. IM him and say, "Hey. You know what you said to me earlier?" and wait for him to say something. Then say, "Well, I feel the same way about you." Just wait for his response and see how it works out, which from what he said to you, I think it will work out great.
Good luck!
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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.
i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.
i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?
any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.
thanx in advance :)
Nothing is wrong with you.
I haven't had a boyfriend and I'm your age also. My friends want me to have a boyfriend more than I want one myself!
There's someone in your school who likes you.
My friends kept saying to me, "There's got to be someone who likes you! I KNOW THERE IS!" And I always said the same thing. "No, there isn't."
But, yesterday I found out that three guys liked me! Trust me on this, there's at least one person at your school who likes you. You just have to flirt and make better friends with them to find out!
Maybe they're intimidated by you. Some guys are shy, so they're too scared to ask you out.
Ask your guy friends if there is something wrong with you. I tried that and they said, "Well, if you smiled more. Guys like that." So, they'll at least tell you one tip or something!
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my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?
thanks in advance
Things you should NOT do/say:
-Gossip (It makes them wonder whether you talk about them behind their backs also. Sometimes it might make them start thinking you are a jerk.)
-Make fun of people (Its okay if he does it and if you say something just as a joke and its actually funny.)
-Don't complain about everything (It gets on their nerves and it's very annoying to them.)
-Talk about clothes, hair, make up, etc. (They really do not care about that stuff.)
-Aa million pointless questions. (He probably doesn't want to answer a lot of questions that are just plain stupid.)
-The weather. (I seriously doubt that he cares about it.)
Things to talk about:
-Ask him if he wants to go see a movie or something this weekend.
-Talk about what you did over the weekend.
-Give each other your phone number unless you both already have each others.
-Maybe have a party together with all of your friends over the weekend. It would be fun AND it would give you stuff to do because you have to plan.
-Talk about school. Like your teachers and rather you like them or not.
-Talk about funny things that happened in your classes, last week, etc.
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This boy & I are best friends, but recently when he IM's me/calls me we don't have much to talk about. So, for 3 days I didn't get on AIM/answer my phone..sort of avoiding him, so we'd have stuff to talk about when I got on AIM/he called me.
Well yesterday I signed on AIM, and he usually instanly talks to me, but he didn't. So I waited a bit, then put up an away msg. I was kind of hurt, I won't lie, that he wasn't lonely without me hah. Well later on that night my away msg said something like, "F you I'm still riding the bus, just because you're riding it & I'm trying to avoid you doesn't mean I shouldn't ride it." So, after reading that he IMs me, like, "Who are you ignoring?" And I was like "You." and signed off, and he called but I didn't answer. We're not going out, I just get extremely jealous of these other two girls he talks to on Aim, and whenever he's not talking to me, I feel like something's wrong with me, like I'm ugly or something.
His aim profile now says..
Recently, there have been times I wonder if you even want to be my friend. I try, yet no matter what I do it seems that it just angers you more. I guess what they say is true, that not everyone can like you for who you are.i'll be honest, it makes me sad.
That's about me, so idk what to do to be honest. Do I apologize? Or, just anything would help.
Wow, you are so lucky. He seems like a really great friend.
Do you like him? That might be the problem. Or are you just afraid of losing your best friend?
He might have not been talking to you on IM either because he thought you wanted space since you hadn't been calling him back or because he didn't notice that you signed on.
It sounds like he doesn't understand what he did or why you didn't call or anything. If I were you, I would call him and say, "Hey [name]. I'm sorry about the other day. I just got angry because I thought you were talking to everyone BUT me. I'm just afraid of losing my best friend to some other person. The reason why I haven't been calling you back is because we haven't had anything to talk about the times before that you called, so I thought that maybe if we didn't talk for a few days, we might actually find something to talk about on the phone or on IM. You really are the greatest friend anyone could ask for and I'm sorry."
Trust me, he'll forgive you. From what you said, it sounds like he really loves having you as a friend.
If you start getting jealous next time, just take your mind off of it and sign off and listen to music for a little bit. That's what I do all the time and it helps a lot.
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13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?!
Do you have his e-mail address? e-mail him. he can't ignore an e-mail. He'll read it, but he might not respond, but at least he'll know how you feel. Just tell him this in the e-mail:
(the guys name), I don't like (the guy who he thinks you like). I promise I don't. Why would I be going out with you if I did?? I'm sorry for making it seem like I liked him. I wish you would have told me what I was doing because I would have realized it and stopped. I'm really sorry..you don't know how sorry I am. Please forgive me. I'll do anything...I really will. I haven't smiled once for even a second since we broke up. You are the only one who can cheer me up when I'm sad and you are the sweetest boyfriend anyone could ever ask for..I mean it. I don't know what I'm going to do without you...I miss you so much. (His name)I love you.
Or leave him a message on his cell phone saying that.
You could also just write him a letter and find a way that you can give it to him.
Yes, it's natural to flirt like that. I do it all the time and I don't even realize until someone asks me if I like the guy.
Most likely he regrets it. He probably still likes you but is confused and being stubborn like most guys.
Try to find something fun to do. Go see a comedy at the theater like talladega nights. I'm really hard to make laugh but I actually started laughing during that movie. It's hilarious. Avoid listening to the radio..it's evil. They play way to many sad love songs. Go shopping with some friends...that always cheers me up for some reason.
Good luck!
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do?
Okay. You have a few options.
Option A:
If you're friends with any of his friends see if you can get them to find out if he likes you or not. If he says that he doesn't know or if he says no then tell them to say something good about you or something like that.
Option B:
Start talking to him a little bit more and maybe you guys can become friends. Then once you two are better friends you can start flirting with him. He'll end up liking you at some point during your friendship.
Option C:
Get one of your friends to ask him out for you. If he says no, then have a back up story.
Here's an example:
on your way out of the school to leave say,
"Hey Joe. You know how (your friends name)asked you if you would go out with me? Well, I didn't want her to because I don't like you as anything other than a friend. We were mad at each other for something that I did to her and she was just trying to get back at me. So, yeahhh. Well, I gotta go. I'll see you tomorrow."
and walk off.
whatever you do, do not be as stupid as I was. I was bffs with the guy I liked. we would stare at each other a lot, flirt every time we talked, talked to each other more than anyone, walked together, sat together, etc. I made the mistake of not making a move before him and we kind of fell apart. Now he's being homeschooled and we haven't talked in 3 months.
So, what I'm trying to say is that rather any of those options..a b or c help, you need to make a move. It won't be that bad. Trust me. I've been turned down before and it really wasn't so bad. I just laughed it off, moved on, and now I like another guy.
Good luck!
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Im 13, female. and i like this guy. but people at school really dont like him...and i have a small reputation and im afraid that if i go out with him, ill shatter it. see...he asked me out tonight and i said yes. and then after i thought about it...i didntkno if i am mature enough...WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO????
Screw your reputation.
Screw the people who hate him.
Go out with him.
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ok so i really like this girl. but there is a problem, she is my friends ex. everytime im with her it feels right. we kiss and hold hands. but somedays she acts all weird, like we dont have a "thing". does it sound like she is using me to you?
No, she is not using you.
She just gets nervous sometimes. That's what it sounds like to me.
If you still aren't sure, just ask her about it or you can get one of your friends who have seen you two hold hands ask her why she acts weird about it.
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Me and my b/f have been together for 3 weeks. out of those 3 weeks we have only spoken and seen eachother for 1 week. no were not avoiding eachother. before we got together he signed up to do this lincoln challenge thing. so he will be gone for 6 months.I have liked him since I was in 8th grade which was like 2 yrs ago and he has liked me for 3 yrs. He will be home on labor day for a break. should I break up with him when he gets back?
No. It would break your heart and his.
Just write to him at least three times a week and make sure he writes back.
Call him every night before you go to bed.
I'm sure he will miss you. Don't worry!
Good luck!
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Last night my boyfriend got mad at me and said he was mad because he doesn't think I care about him. I love him with all of my heart and he loves me too. I just don't know how to show it. Please help.
Write a poem about how much you love him and then give the poem to him along with a card saying how sorry you are.
Take him to go see a movie and kiss him. (Well..if it's a romantic movie)
Write down all of the songs that remind you of you and him or just of him and make a CD of them all and give the CD to him.
Take him out to dinner and kiss him when you drop him off.
Call him every day or every other day and say, "Hey. I just was thinking about you. How are you?" and blah blah blah. Then before you hang up say, "I love you! Bye."
Hope I helped!
Good luck!
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my boyfriend is a cousin ov mine.we have been together for one year and are mad about each other.just lately we have been arguing alot and he has started to get paranoid about us been seen together. im really scared of losing him. does he love me or not?
Okay, you retards below me. Did she ask if her child would be mentally challenged? No. If you have such a big problem with it, then why the hell did you answer this question? Actually what you said wasn't even an answer! I have this girl in my neighborhood and her parents are cousins and most guys say that shes very pretty and I know that she is not at all mentally challenged so people below me, stop freaking out about that.
Yes, he loves you. I think he's just nervous of what people will think of you two. He thinks people will say what the idiots who didn't answer your question below me said. Which, unless we have that messed up people in the world who walk up to random people and freak out about you guys being cousins, then he should stop worrying about it. Sit down and have a talk with him. Ask him why he keeps starting all these arguments and ask him why he cares if people see you both together.
Sorry if the idiots were rude to you.
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Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.
-- Danielle (on kellys username)
Most likely all you will accomplish by doing that is getting him to break up with you.
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