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me and my girlfriend have been goin out for about 5 days now and shes so nervous to go on a date i guess...and i dont see why...and i call her and call her and she makes up exuses of not talkin to me...i dont get it...and she asked her friend to come with her...and her friend says that shes just nervous because she likes me alot...is it true (link)
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WELL i THiNK iT`S BECAUSE SHE D0ESN`T WANT THiNGS T0 M0VE T0O FAST. THE 0NLY REAS0N i MAKE MY FRiENDS G0 WiT ME iS T0 KEEP ME FR0M D0iN THiNGS i`D PROBABLY D0 iF SHE WASN`T THERE. SHE M0ST LiKELY D0ES LIKE Y0U A LOT T0O BUT SHE`S PR0BABLY JUST SCARED WHAT MiTE HAPPEN . .
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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m
~Evilenterprisesinc (link)
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I dunno..i think y0u should wait!! sHe m0st likely w0uld be sleeping *on acc0unt of school* and plus-it'd be kinda freaky if he kn0ws you waited half the night just s0 y0u could call and say that! but it is sweet d0n't get me wr0nq but i think if you wait it`ll be m0re enjoyable =)
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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
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There are different strokes for different f0lks!! y0u never can tell because all guys are different..
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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate. (link)
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I wouldn't go Out with him...yOu`ll fall m0re and m0re in love and develop irriplaceabLe feelinqs..then, when you have t0 leave all of it will be sacrificed. See, if he wa q0inq with y0u it'd be a different st0ry...good luck =)
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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?! (link)
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y0u don`t have to stOp liking someone to start likinq someone else..yOu can still have feelinqsz f0r the guy in your schOol..even if he doesn't feel the same way ab0ut you..a lot of girls like guys that don`t like them...wh0 knows? after a while...the wait miqht be w0rth it..meanwhiLe the lower grade quy can have a chance with you..even th0ugh he miqht be a little immature. I only date guysz in lower gradesz if they failed *they aRe stupid...but old en0ugh n mature* If he really fits your standards though, go f0r it!!! =) rate me!
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but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong? (link)
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Hmm..beinq with her b0yfriend kinda isz a minus for you on the friendship scale. But if he's your friend she can't do anything about it. Well... I think you should ask her,but with more detail and stuff. Like- "I know you know about me hanging out with your boyfriend that night..but i can promise you nothing happened...if you dont believe me I understand, and you have a right to be kinda mad that I was with him..I just hope you know the facts!" ...you'll never know FOR SURE unless she's the truthful type of person..hope i helpd
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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do? (link)
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i`m in that same position!! wow! Like..the guy that got me pregnate is very very popular and a cutie that everyone likes...he's on the football team...he has a nice body..and now that he's with me a LOT of girls hate me for that!!! It;s really simple you see, don't let it bother you. Let them say what they have to say and try not to let it hurt you. Even if everytime you try to be in upperklassmen places girls stare at you like -"eck thats HER!" but if he wnats to *or has to in my case* be with you then that's not your fault now is it!?
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Right now there is this guy that i have known for five years that I've had a tangled history with, we are now 15 and 14. He first notices me a little over two years ago and acted like he hated me, but it definately got my attention. That summer he admitted to liking me and we dated for a month. He then suddenly broke it off. We grew majorily apart, mainly from angry and I was very hurt. He was still interested in me when we started school the next year, but never said anything, so I moved on to other guys. We remained really good friends, growing closer again day by day. We almost went out again the beginning of this school year, but he said something just didn't feel right. We continued to talk very seriously (something unlikely from a guy) but it hasn't developed. Now he is dating a girl from his church, and insists he couldn't be with me because i don't share the same beliefs and values. He knows this hurts me because it isn't true, and still continues to flirt and about getting serious. I've tried to forget about it but I can't, what should I do? (link)
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It`s gonna be hard to just let it go. Especially if your feelings are true fOr him. I think,from experience, yOu shOuld tell him if he really feels that way then why dOes he still seem tO flirt and pay so much attentiOn tO yOu. It is hard to forget. He'll flirt and flirt but never seem to qet tO the pOint where yOu and him are the oNly Onesz. Either yOu confrOnt him..or keep it aLL tO yOurself.
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Ok there is this guy Eddie Im like madly in love with him, but people in my family just wont except him because he is punk and wears eyeliner and black nail polish. they all of a sudden think he is all santanic. I dont know what to do...
Also he lives like a 30 mins away from me would this be a long distance realationship and would it work (link)
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yOur parentsz shOuld think abOut what makesz YOU happy and nOt just them. Yesz,iT`sz gonna be weiird fOr them tO adjust tO the culture and thiinqsz he believesz in but i`m sure they have pretty weird thiinqsz abOut themselvesz too! yOu shOuld have a talk wiith them and explain hOw yOu feel in this situatiOn and hOw they "shOuldn`t judqe a bOok by iT`sz cOver" i knOw that sOunds Old and qay but it`sz true..30 minutesz isn`t that lonq and ii really do believe yOu have a chance Of haviinq a qOod relatiOnship wiith him!! qOod luck!
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i'm a female and I'm in love with this guy who is 2 years older then me and he used to like me and we used to go till he found out i was 2 years younger then him! i really like him and i have fellings for him ! i wish he would go bak out with me but i think he is enbarsed because i am 2 years younger! what do you think..... (link)
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i ThiNk iF he`sz ThaT iMmaTure tO nOt qO OuT wiTh YoU BEcauSe oF yOur aqE aNd yOu likE eAcH oTher..thEn iT dOesn`t MaTTeR hOw yOunqer yOu aRe YOU aRe the mOre maTure persOn!! tAlk tO him abOut this anD asK him hOw hE feeLsz anD iF yOur aqe is reaLLy THAT biq a FaCtor in a reLatiOnshiP! qOod Luck!
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i like a few boys and i broke up with my bf just to look . do u think its wrong
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iT isz sO nOt wrOnq!! yOu`re aCtually dOinq the maTure thinq! aT leasT yOu didn`t qO lOokinq behind yOur bOyfriend`sz BaCk. yOu didn`t dO anythinq wrOnq!!
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I am a 22 female and i have been living with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We both work ALOT and have stressfull jobs. He is always bringing his work problems home and it is affecting our relationship in many ways, like how we talk (or dont talk) to eachother, putting us both on edge at all times. Dont get me wrong i love him and we did have an awesome relationship till the past few months. he makes me feel unwanted or unattractive now. i try to initiate a sexual relation in MANY MANY different ways and i'm just "denied access" to every part of him. i even try to talk to him about it but he just goes on the defence and doesnt want to talk. getting him to give me a peck on the cheek is like pulling teeth, yet alone actually having sex,which is like once every other month and i'm getting frustrated sexually so bad that our relationship is suffering and i dont know what to do anymore. I dont know how many more nights i can be denied access and roll over frustrated. It's not like we work different schedules we go to work at the same time and get home at the same time and even shower together....but nothing comes of it no pun intended.i just dont know what to do anymore........what advice can u offer me ? (link)
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damN qirl..well lady.. i think yOu shOuld suspecT sOmethinq is wrOng with him. i ThinK yOu shOuld ask him what his prOblem is and why he is aCtinq like that. MaYbe he`z tired Or nOt in the mOod..i can teLL he dOesn`t want it as badLy as YoU..maybe teasiNq him wOuld even heLp..sOmething that wOuld put him in the mOod..dOn`t beq it'll make yOu seem desperate!
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I'm in love with a girl called sarah , but she fancies a boy called J. Last night she got really drunk and snogged me....IT FELT SO GOOD!
I love every part of her what do I do? (link)
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wdF is snoqqed? uMm well yEr a lez...sO yOu should tell this qirl...(hOpefully she's lez tOo cuz if she's nOt she'll b freaked OuT) WeLL iF yOu lOve her that MucH ..It shOuldn`t be that hard tO teLL her hOw yOu reaLLy feel
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you! (link)
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yOur best frien sOundz like a little biaTch *sorry* i HaTe when this situaTiOn happenS! yOu either LoSe a qrEat friendship oR tHe quy yOu LiKe..i ThiNk iT waS mOre than jUst wrOnq fOr her tO dO thaT tO yOu. yOu shOuld talk tO yOur friend and cOnfrOnt her abOut yOur feelinqsz..iT`ll be hard but wOrth it. JusT say- "yOu knOw i liked him-why wOuld yOu qO Out with him?" dOn`t sOund tOo harsh jusT let her knOw yOu reaLLy are hurt.-Tiffany p.s. nO yOur nOt crazy-i`d bE piSsEd!
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im 15/f n Derez dis guy i met at da movies once (18) (he works dere) n he was all flirtin wit me wen i was buyin popcorn n wen i went to da movies again a couple weeks later he saw me n said ooh so ur gonna act like u dun no meeh so i said hi n den he said maybe i can take u to the movies sumtime but ionno if he was jus kiddin or w/e cuz he neva even asked for my number or nething well tommrow i mite be goin 2 da movies w/ sum friends n i mite see him i kinda am intrested but hes 18 n im not even aloud 2 have a bf my age soo if my mom eva found out she would trip n id be dead .. hmm ionno tho hes kute n id deff wanna go (link)
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lOl this happened tO mE!! jUst keep in mind he may B dOinq this tO all qirLsz waLkinq the hallz of the theatre..i dOn`t think yOur mOm wOuld be that bad wOuld she? mY mOm was supriSed..iF yOu dO qO OuT wiTh hiM and yOur mOm dOesn`t apprOve lOoK at the bright thinqsz like-"hEy..he gOtz a jOb!" lOl..mY mOm fell fOr it. i think yOu sHould definiTeLy talk tO this bOy thOugh and maybe qet yOur friendz tO tOo!! =) i hOOOOOOOOpPpE i heLped qirl! gOod luck!-Tiffany
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss (link)
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i ThinK yOu are just a LiL nervOus tO have that first One On One cOnvO wiT him *lOl* ObviOusLy!i ThiNk yOu SHOULD say sOmethinq tO hiM...jUst b a casuaL taLker =) He`sz prObably as nervOus tO talk tO yOu as yOu aRe tO hiM..yOu shOuld deff. sit bY hiM aNd ask him iF he wants to hanq OuT thaTsz deff. a siqn yOu wanna qeT tO kNo him n mayBe later On qO OuT! maYbe yOu sHoUld keep takinq yOur friend`sz bus.keep smilinq tOo! it`LL make him tO want tO talk tO yOu real badlY!! weLL i hOpe i helPed at least a LiL! qOod Luck-Tiffany
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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship! (link)
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Aww i`M in this pOsitiOn..jeez i can reLate tO everyOne! lOl..weLL i think yOu shOuld qive him spaCe..that`sz what they respect (bOysz) leT hiM think abOut what he wantsz and maYbe talk to him persOnally abOut how yOu feel. dOn`t let him just tell yOu a lie just tO make yOu feel qOod! qet the trUth...let him knOw yOu really care abOut him and yOu want tO knOw hOw he feelsz...ThE bOy i like is qettinq annOyed w/ mE dOinq the same thinq...like i sed...jusT sPace and tiMe and teLLinq yOur feelinqsz..everythinq shOuld turn ouT ok!
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Ok, I am 44 yrs. old and my husband is 47, we have been married about 6 months, and are professonal decent people. My problem is my husband is not interested in making love to me, when we first married, we had a decent sex life,. then no more for the past several months. If I bring it up he gets mad. Says hes just tired,or could be his antidepressants he takes, etc.. But he has time to be internet addicted, and reads a lot, anything to keep from being with me. I had caught him on the net several times talking to men, over a year ago, but he had a excuse for that, he was "just messing" with the gay guys for a laugh. Now I wonder. Ive tried talking to him but about this, but he dosent want to discuss it. So what do I do? I love my husband dearly but what do I do, Lonely (link)
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siNce he qeTs mad Over the subject yOu shOuldn`t pressure him into talkinq abOut it. I dOn`t think he`s qay..and i cerTainLy hOpe he isn`t qay but if yOu susPect that then i think yOu shOuld check intO it withOut him knOwinq. He seems paranOid abOut the discussiOn sO i think yOu shOuld let him take his time answerinq..he`sz qOinq tO qet mad either way-yOu miqht as well jusT tell him hOw yOu feel..
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Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"
Thanks in advance...
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weLL iF yOu beLieve yOur friend is Over him, TheN allOw yOurself tO mayBe qet with him. If yOu aren`t sure then yOu shOuld cheCk with yOur friend. Tell her yOur feelinqsz fOr him,buT alsO watch hEr reacTion. dOn`t only tell HER yOu like him...make a mOve on him. TeLL the bOy that yOu have feelinqsz fOr him..sEe hOw thinqsz qO frOm there! qOod luck! -Tiffany!
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well i want to talk to her bt its not like that.. he broke up with her bt she claims dat she was meaning to get rid of him anyway dat she wasnt really into him... bt ih ave this feeling that if i tell her tha ti like him t will change EVERYTHING and id ont want that to happen no guy is worth a break up of a friendship and i like him bt its not like OMG I LIKE HIM I HAVE TO GO OUT WITH HIM i have my moments like i liked him for 1 class period today then all of a sudden wen i got home i was like... wtf why and then my feelings come back to me its very weird! idk wut to do cuz she means everything to me and i dont wanna risk another friendship! gosh its such a mess (link)
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weLL tHis is a cOmplicaTed situatiOn..But think-sHe says she`sz cOmpletely over him. if yOu want tO be cOmpletely sUre she dOesn`t LikE hiM..tHen qive it a whiLe..see hOw she aCtsz arOund him. yOu seem like yOu knOw her really well sO yOu shOuld know if she still has that cOnnecTiOn. iF yOu still dOn`t believe the risk is wOrth the friendshiP..dOn`t try it. MaKe sure everythinq is OkaY..i`vE beeN iN thiS siTuaTiOn..Kinda..excePt i wuz the qirL wiTh tHe ex...i tOld my friend "oH iT`sz oKay yOu can have him!" iT`sz oKay fOr the tiMe..buT jusT seeiNq them tOgether and thinkinq Of MY old memories with hiM iS whaT hUrtsz..i ThinK yOu aRe a smaRt qirl and yOu can teLL whaT tO dO! yOu aLwaySz have b4!! aNd i LoVe ya fOr that! qOod Luck =)
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