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Q: 16/f
well there is this guy that i kinda am starting to like. but he was like ohh yeah i cant go out with a girl that cant dance! and i was like yeah blah blah but you see i cant dance for shit! haha like ive never really danced with a boy before..like grinding and stuff. so im worried if a guy asks me to a dance or something and they want to dance i will be so embarassed about it because i wont know what to do! and people will laugh and be like haha she does not know what she is doing! ahhh and this guy doesnt know it either otherwise he will tell his friends and everyone else and they will be like oh my god you dont know how to dance? AHAHA.
yeah.i dont know what to do..
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just laugh it off...dont even worry about it. make it fun by asking friends around you to help you, then you will kinda make it the life of the party. thats what i did, it worked out pretty well. guys will see your fun sense of humor instead of your unability to dance!
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Q: k well my ex boyfriend who was my first boyfriend, and first true love and first kiss. we went out for 4 1/2 months... him and my best friend might go ou and for all i know they probably already are.... well i dont aprrove at all! and even though we brok up 5 months ago i still like him, because if it wasnt for his friend telling me that he would treat me better i would have never dumped him, and my ex.. lets call him... james, james even told me about 1 month ago that if i never dumped him we would still be together, and for him to say that he has to have some kind of feelings for me, and also asked him last week 1-10 how much he likes me and he sais 6.5 and to me, thats pretty high! and now i find out my best friend, the person i though who was soposed to have my back, support me, and be there for me, is gonna go out with my ex... but the difficult thing is, i kinda did it to her, see, her ex richard and her, we will call my best friend rachel. rachel and richard went out for only 3 weeks, they didnt share near as much as me and james did.. k well richard asked me ut durring the summer and i never told him yes, and i never told him no.. he just assumed we were going out, but i never liked him... and my friend rachel knows that.... and i have told her over and over that i still like james... and she doesnt give a rip.. shes gonna go out with him, and to me it just sems like she isnt hearing me when i tell her she is risking our friendship for a boy who will eventualy break her heart and when he does whos gonna be there for her? not me, because i warned her... i just want to know.. and i making tooo big of deal about this, and what shoud i do?
if it helps im 15/f.... and i told my friend rachel i would do anything to be with him... and yet she still goes and does this to me... i mean he was there through think and thin, he was there when i needed him, when my grandpa got cancer, when my uncle died... hes been there.. and even after the breakup he has been the best of friend and he listens when i tell him stuff.. hes amazng!!!
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you're definately not making a big deal out of it! but i have to say that even though it was partly your friend rachels fault for going out with him, would james go out with her if he still has feelings for you? i know he's ur first love and it hurts to let go, ive been there trust be, but maybe you should just let what happens happen and try to let go. if things are meant to be they'll work out. besides, you should be mad at james too for going out with your best friend.
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Q: ok my parents r desperately waiting for me to get a girlfriend and always push me to do so. at this momment i just want to be single yet on the other hand i would like someone by my side and would like to be going out. im not sure what to do or how to do it. what should i do?
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wow, usually parents do the total opposite!! i wish my parents were okay with dating...you'll love that when you do find a gf! until then, just tell them that you want to wait until you find a girl whose right for you and you dont want to rush it. dont go out with someone just to have a gf. in the long run you'll be glad you waited!
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Q: My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck.
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im having the same situation right now, except opposite (im the girl, i broke up with my bf cause i wanted to be best friends like we used to be) and yes, my bf has tried to get back together with me. the break up has been hard for me too, but i think i made the right choice because i need to see what else is out there. he broke up with you so he must have a lot of good reasons for it too, so you should accept it and let things be. if he realizes he made a mistake he'll probably talk to you about it, but if not you should try to move on and eventually find someone even better.
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Q: i'm a guy in hi school and need advice on what may seem to be an easy but hard question. i want to know how i can be a lovin person again. yeah i said again cause i used to be, with my friends family n everyone. but i dont think i am anymore, and people are tellin me that ive been changing. my parents good friends and gf have been telling me things too. i dont know what it was but what are some attitudes or ways of thinkin that i culd set up to help me cause just doing a few things here n there wont help too much for the long run. any ideas why i stopped im not a mean person or anything, and i do try. does this happen to alot of ppl and am i just over reacting?
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well it could be that ur not happy about something in your life...something been bugging you lately? or it could be something as simple as lack of sleep or a lot of stress, try to relax and do things that you enjoy. i hope i helped, good luck!
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Q: let me start out with i have a boyfriend...heres the story...my boyfrined an me have been brokenup an togther alot of times..an know we are back togteher but scence this is a new school year there are new boys...an there is this one boy anthony that i like an he likes me ..well i didnt find out that he liked me until i started to date my ex that is my boyfirned aagain....please help me should i dump my boyfrined an go out with anthony?????..HELP ME !!! i do like my boyfrined alot but i do like anthony!!!
-tasha
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"advice is something you ask for when you already know the answer" i think this quote fits the situation. if you're having doubts about your boyfriend now, from what you said i think you'd be happier giving anthony a shot. you shouldnt lead ur boyfriend on if you like someone else more.
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Q: hi my name is jess im 13 and in kindergarden i had this boyfriend i know a little young but he was my first true love and right after that school year endeed he moved to the town next to me now im in 7th grade and i havent seen him in 8 yrs. Now i cheerlead for his football team and i still havent gotten a chance to see him cause no game have started yet but we all have the same practices like times and days and places but but different areas of the building. If i dont see him or talk to him i really might have a breakdown. its been 8 years to long. how can i get a chance to see him or talk to him. What if he doesnt remember me?
plz hurry!!!!!
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if its just a kindergarten crush, this guy could end up being totally different than you remember him, so don't have too high expectations. He probably grew up a lot. If you really want to see him, why don't you just wait for a game to start? Then after they win or lose, you could either congratulate him or say he did a great job anyway. You could be like, 'You look really familar, did you ever go to my school?' and he might remember you. If not, don't be too disappointed, it was a long time ago.
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Q: Okay, well I liked this boy who his parents are family friends and my dad and his dad go way back as kids. Well we were over his house one day and we ate there and all and we had a really good time.{it was back when we were in like 4th grade} Later he told his parents that he liked me for more than a friend and I didn't like him for more than a friend. Well, now we are in 6th grade and he still liked me and I started to like him more. He asked me to the first dance and all and then he asked to sit at my friends and I's table and we let him and he asked me out to all different dances at our school so we were kind of "boyfriend and girlfriend." Then I found out there is this other girl who likes him and she hates me because he doesn't like her. She called me names behind my back and stuff and he always said that she was annoying. Then he just stopped sitting with us at lunch for like three weeks. Then I found out he thought we broke up so he asked the other girl out. Now they have been going out for like three weeks. i still like him but he is taken. Should I wait for him to come around or just forget about it?
~Fellow Advincinator
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why would he think u guys broke up? i might be wrong, but maybe he's just using that as an excuse for why he went to the other girl. that seems kind of a mean thing for him to do, and i think if he really liked u he would at least make sure if it was over before moving to someone else...maybe you should just forget about him... hope i helped!
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Q: I am in middle school, 13 years old, and there are some pretty cute boys there. Some boys only have one class with me and each class is about an hour long. Also I can't talk to them between classes (weird issues won't get into it). How do I attract their attention or flirt with them without getting in trouble? Just so you know I am a shy girl so try to answer with something that I might be willing to do.
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just break the ice by asking a question like what the homework is or something. or if you dont get one of the lessons you're learning and he's really smart, ask if maybe you can call him for help. just make it casual. good luck!!
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Q: ok latley i havent been able to talk to guys oh im a 13 yr old female- i just need some icebreakers see once the ball gets rolling i can talk to them fine even flirt if i wanna i just can never think of anything to say when i approch the guy which is weird cuz normaly i can so if you all could just give me some icebreakers that would be great please and thanyou
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umm just talk about anything! even something even stupid like the weather if you're desperate lol. ask him some questions to seem like you're interested, talk about a movie you saw, a teacher you both have, a test, anything random like that.
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Q: I have liked this guy forever. I dont really talk to him in person, but I do on AIM all the time, and we fight constantly. The wierd thing is tho, at school, he stares at me all the time. We just got back from a retreat type thing, and there he always sat pretty close to me, like right in front of me. Yesterday, he IMd me saying "Ive changed, im sorry for being mean to you". But then a lil while after that he asked me if i had done this assignment so he could get the answers. Do u think this guy likes me, or just wants to use me for school related stuff?
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well the guy might like you, but he doesn't seem like a good bf. if he was mean before, theres a good chance he's gonna be mean again. make sure that he doesn't take advantage of you! maybe you should just stay friends awhile and see what happens. Good luck!!
***MysteryGirl
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Q: Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?
Please Help
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yea, that's totally normal. you guys have brought up ur relationship to a new level, ur probably excited. Hope i helped!
~~MysteryGirl
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Q: Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated.
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well i know someone who has like the exact same prob....you should probably tell him how you feel, so even if he doesnt like you you can know for sure and move on...or you could just wait until he and his girlfriend break up to make your move.
Good Luck!!
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Q: ok.....i like this guy. lets call him bob. and i've liked bob for a couple months now. and we've become good friends. and i had a friend ask how he felt about me, and he said that he just liked me as a friend. but...lately, there had been some stuff goin' on.....rumors if you will, about him likin' me. and i mean A LOT of rumors. i heard it in a lot of different places. someone even told me that bob had been tellin' people on his bus that him and i were goin' out. and then i got this news about him likin' me as just a friend. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE! I'M SO CONFUSED! please help!
sry for the length and thx in advance (:
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confused,
Maybe you should confront "bob" about these rumors. you totally have a reason to, because you just want to know what he thinks about you. if he says no, he doesn't like u, then you could just say u don't like him anymore either and then you'll be done with it.
Good luck!
*MysteryGirl*
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Q: OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
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you can't blame her for being worried, she probably just doesn't want to lose you. you should definately talk to her so that she knows how much you love her, and that shes the only girl you care about. long distance relationships are really hard to handle, it will really test how much you guys care about each other.
Good luck!!!
MySTeRy GiRL
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Q: Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?
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NO WAY!! you wouldn't just not like someone because they aren't the most good looking person in the world....i mean, u can't expect prince charming to always look like a prince...besides, some of the best guys i know aren't the cutest, but turn out to be the coolest.
I hope this helped!
~*~MysteryGirl~*~
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Q: im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!
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Never think that you don't deserve a guy!! A lot of girls i know would kill for what you have, and you just threw it away! If he wants to be with you, that should definately be enough. It seems to me like you guys really care about each other. You have to tell him how you feel, but im not sure surpirsing him at church is a good idea. He could be pretty angry at you right now..Maybe you should call him up instead.
Good Luck!
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Q: my boyfriend seems like hes my life i cant stop ever thinking about him and i always talkt o him on the phone and on AIM but now my grades are failing and my mom and dad says that if i dont get my grades up my life will be a living hell!!! there really strict on my grades! i dont know what i should do how do i jugle my boyfriend and school? also my friends?!!! also my boyfriend lives right next door thats why i see him so much!! thank you~!
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All you have to do is work out a schedule. Like when you get home, first make sure that you finish all of your homework and studying. Don't rush, either. Then you can spend the rest of your day hanging with your bf and friends.
MySTeRy*GiRL
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Q: my guy friend came over a little while ago. i like him alot. but he is still getting over a past love and wants to go out with her again when her and her new b/f break up. only thing is i know he likes me. should i make a move or wait for his thing for this other girl to blow over?
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If he likes you, why does he want to go out with someone else? Either this guy is extremely confused, or he likes more than one girl at once. This is not good! He should pick one or the other, so he isn't playing with anyone's feelings. If he truly likes you, go for it! If not, maybe you should just let him get this other girl out of his system and see how things go from there.
~*~mYSTERYgIRL~*~
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Q: ok here it is me and my x bf(now) we were together 4 like a few months and we broke up because im moving over the summer but the thing is that i still have feelings 4 him and he told me the same thing i dont know if i should go back out with him even though i know he still likes me and he said so himself...im 14 and live in fla by the way
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Confused,
I think that you guys should keep your relationship going long distance, to see how things go. It seems like you guys really care about each other, so this might work. Still, a long distance relationship is one of the hardest to keep going...you'd have to send a lot of letters, talk on the phone, computer, ect, and possibly visit each other during vacas. Just give it a shot and see how things go..
Goood Luck!
MysteryGirl
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hey, leave me any q's and i'll try to answer them...
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Member Since: December 9, 2004 Answers: 55 Last Update: October 10, 2006 Visitors: 4471
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