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finding or doing the best thing for me
ok my parents r desperately waiting for me to get a girlfriend and always push me to do so. at this momment i just want to be single yet on the other hand i would like someone by my side and would like to be going out. im not sure what to do or how to do it. what should i do?
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i think if you know a girl you like you should get to know her then if you think she likes you, you should ask her out!
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Hi, first of all don't let anyone push you into this. How do you personally feel about this idea? Are you willing to give this a try? If your willing to give it a go or feel ready then go for it. But think it out first. If you feel unsure then don't do it. Never do anything that your not sure on. Have a think about it and see how you feel soon. Daniel.
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well for starters no one can push you into anything you don't want to do yea parents can be cruel sometimes but I think the reason you can't get a girlfriend is because your parents are pushing you to hard so you are acting standoffish I know you said you want a gurl but I think you are just really confused and you don't know what you feel so a lil advice is to tell your parents to stay out of your love life it's your life not there's and tell them that them pushing you to get a girlfriend is not helping you one bit it is just making matters worse
<3 Heather
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wow, usually parents do the total opposite!! i wish my parents were okay with dating...you'll love that when you do find a gf! until then, just tell them that you want to wait until you find a girl whose right for you and you dont want to rush it. dont go out with someone just to have a gf. in the long run you'll be glad you waited!
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Simply tell them that while you want a girlfriend
sometime, you just haven't met anyone you care enough about to date right now.
There is really no need to rush out and find one.
She will show up eventually! :)
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Wow, this is unusual. It's often the parents who don't want their teenager to date, and the kid who wants to. Anyway, don't rush anything until you know you want to. If you get in to anything just because someone else wants you, people get hurt. Whether its your parents pressuring you to get a girlfriend or your mates pressuring you smoke or do drugs, or a girl pressuring you to have sex with her, the answer always has to be no. Take life at your own pace. Do things only when you know you'r ready and want to. No-one else can make that decision for you. And not only will you get yourself hurt, but you'll probably end up hurting someone else if you date them just because your parents want you to.
If you're happy being single, that's fantastic. You have something which a lot of people don't, and that is that ability to be happy without a girlfriend or boyfriend. And you'll know when you're ready for that to happen.
God bless, Keep smiling!
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Don`t start dating until your ready. With school starting soon(?) there will be more opportunities meeting new people & girls. If you already like someone then start showing you do. When you meet girls, be really flirty. It may take time, but eventually you`ll meet someone. =] ♥
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