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shocking
short story. i dated this guy in 7th grade (i am now a senior)...
well this boy has started calling me up. we have been hanging out a lot and when he is on the phone he tells all his friends he is with hir girl. but when we are around people he acts diff. well tonight we were together. we had sex then went to his house ( acted a lil shady ) well me and him smoke. we meet up with one of his friends. they where taken me home but meet up with this guy and bought some stuff..well he dude started snorten and then his girl did and then my boyfriend made hold the steering wheel while he snorted. now earlyer tonight he told me he doesn't mess with that stuff. then i asked him before he snorted that if he still does it and said sometimes.
after he snorted it he told me he was sorry that he loved me. he started comforting me cuz he cuz knew i was scared and upset.
((even though he said he loved me. we have been sayin that for years. but i am not the one to tell someone to chose this over me. so it would be hard for me to make him pick between me or coke.))
i need to know what i should say to him or if i should stay with him. i'm just confused outta hell. i'm hurt the he did that infront of me. i just don't know what to do...
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Hi, this is for him to decide. Its either you or coke. If he picks coke over you then he obviousley doesn't love you the way you thought he did. Just ask him why he did that. Give him another chance and if he still hasn't listened then this relationship with you doesn't mean that much to you if he is deciding over coke rather than yourself. Daniel.
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Unlike smoking cigarettes coke is illegal. If he gets caught with it and you are around you go to jail too. So making him choose you or the coke is not a bad idea. You know as I do though that he will choose the coke, or at least lie to you about using it. Already has by the sound of it.
I would suggest not dating him or having sex with him. Coke is one of those drugs that will always be more important to him than you are, regardless of what he may tell you.
I also want to mention that being in a car with someone high on coke is just as bad as driving with a drunk driver. Don't ever get in a car with him driving you anywhere. It isn't worth dying over, OK? :)
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You really need to tell him that he wasn`t being responsible the one night when he did coke. Tell him you don`t want to be around him when he does that because it really bothers you. If he said he didn`t do coke before he did it, ask him why he lied. If he loves you enough than he will stop and start showing respect. If things don`t get better then don`t stay with him. ♥
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