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Q: what do you think of meeting people off the internet...

im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..

bad or good idea?

HELP ASAP
BAD BAD BAD idea....never meet someone in person that you've met off of the internet...that is so dangerous....you don't know if he's like some 40 year old guy just looking for sex or something like that!
Hope I helped
XOXO

Q: I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first.
OK sweetie, you are so right to want to let the guy make the first move, I've gone through a lot of relationships where I've made the first move and they've ended in distaster, but this time i let my b\f make the first move and we've been toegther for almost 6 months and i love him a lot.
So I hope I helped you.
XOXOXOXOXO
Tiffany

Q: I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?
Sweetie you really just have to be yourself, you're still young, enjoy it while you can, as you grow up and get into high school the girls will start going after the nice guys and not the bad ones, i know, i was a girl like that just last year and I'm a freshman in high school.

Hope i helped.

XOXO
Tiffany

Q: ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ?????
You're not too young, maybe you're just not mature enough to date yet. I know that sounds mean,but sometimes it's true.
xoxo

Q: I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:

-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me

Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!!
Guys seems to always show their flirtation by picking on us girls. He does like you. Try flirting back. It usually helps. See his reaction.

Q: How do you tell a guy you like him, if your not sure if he likes you back?
Ok you just need to come right out and say it, or maybe have a friend tell him. That's how I told my now current b\f that I liked him, and we've been together for almost 4 months.
Hope I helped!
XOXO

Q: Ok so theres this guy that i dated last year and we went throught like so much together. I mean he was my first real relationship, so he ment a lot to me. I mean he still means a lot to me. He and i are friends and everything, but we're not as close as i wish we could be. And I still wonder if he likes me like he did. I think about the fun times that we had together all the time. SO what do you think I should? I mean do you think i should ask him what he thinks about me or should i just leave it??

Signed,
The confused girl
well confused girl, I really think that you should ask him about it. I had the same problem. It's kinda difficult to really say but I'm sure that if you talked to him he'd listen and he'd tell you how he really feels about you.

Hope I helped!

Q: hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX
Okay you have nothing to worry about....Age is nothing....I have an ex and he was 16 and I was 12. There is nothing wrong with it.

Q: Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.

who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.

who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?
Well there aren't many guys in the world that are like that. The list is a bit too long, and bit too precise. You just have to wait for that special guy. If you're patient believe me, he will find you.

Q: Sep. 11th, wil be my bf's and my one year anneversary and i want to make it really special, but i have no ideas about what to do. Im going to be 16 before that time, but i dont know if i will have my license yet or not, anyways, i dont want to have sex, and nothing sexual, but i do want to make it romantic and something will that will we will remember forever, we live in saint louis, MO please i realy need some sweet ideas, thanks in advance, i rate high!!
Okay a really sweet thing to do would be to go out for dinner and then just watch movies or something.

Q: 14/f Ok i have really liked his one guy for about 3 years and we have dated a couple times but we never really lasted. But i just currently broke up with my ex boyfriend. But i was talking 2 them both last nite on the computer and i still have feelings for them both. My ex boyfriend he dumped me because there was just 2 much going on in his life like his ex gf was up and he didn't know what would happen. But now that shes leaving sunday. He wants 2 go back out w/ me. I dont wanna get played like that but i also have feelings for him. And my "dating guy" hes cute and all but i think all hes interested in is getting laid. He says he loves me but... im really confused please help! i rate high for good answers
I think that you should just try and forget about both guys. I know it won't be easy, but set your sights on a guy that you could see your self with for a while. Hope I helped.

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