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hey people.this is melia.um im really good at advice.especially givving funni advice!=D um i have reallyy good advice on STYLE and BOYS/FRIENDS.ask me nething.♥Melia
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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?
well explain to him that you still have feelings for him,tell him to call you/send letters something to keep in touch with you while your gone.dont say go on a break cuz thats just about the same as breaking up.if hes true to you he wont cheat while your gone!=D
i'm 19 years old and a female and was sexually abused when i was very yound by a babysitter. i am not worried about this and dont feel it affects me that much and i am quite open with this fact and the people who are close to me know about it all. The problem is that when a guy wants to get close with me i just seem to panic and just feel well out of my comfort zone. especially if its a boyfriend and its sexual. i have had sex in the past and the guys know about it and are very conciderate of it. But yet i still dont know when its affecting me like this. or even if it is that is the reason why. just finding it very difficult to get close to a bloke. i have loads of guy mates which i mess around with alot but i dunno its just so confusing. could you please enlighten me on this if its possible.
its pretty normal to freak out when people get close to you after a thing like that happening.
i would maybe just try not to think about the past and focus for the present!=D
Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.
1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O
2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?
Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)
♥♥♥
hm.maybe yur a lezbian?just a thought.
♥ melia
Okay Me and My boyfriend have been going out for about 2 -3 months wait well i don't know really. So my ? is that lately I have been noticing that I've been getting jeleous because i know a couple of girls that said if you weren't going out with him i would like him and then a girl told me that she liked him. I feel lucky to be his girl but I also feel like he would one day get tired of me and dump me and then go out with another girl. Is there any way i could forget about it or am I just being stuck up and Jeleous????
well i no i get jelous sumtimezz too..i mean hoo dusnt but no yur not being stuck-up..i think yu mite jest be a lil parinyod....thats not really bad but maybe just take all the jelousy off your mind..one time i got a threat from a chick hoo liked my old b/f it was really weird..lol but ya grlz mite flirt with your boyfriendd n stuff but he likes you n thats y yur goin out n if he dont then hes a major jackass...hope that helped!
♥Amelia
will u go out wit me
haha umm i dont no hoo this is and i have a boyfriend sorry!♥MiLLiE
i have a girl, even though we dont sleep with each other yet. she doesnt call me. i do all the calling, all the time. when i told her am not comfortable about her not calling, she yet odesnt call. shoudl i keep taking her seriously?
DUMP HER ASS!!haha no but seriously...
♥MiLLiE
hmm well i need some advice haha.
ok well i like this guy and we have gone out 11 times... and like we talk on the fone alot and it seems like he likes me too but idk becuase wen hes with ppl he makes fun of me and stupid stuff, and wen we make plans he ditches me i dont know what to do :[
holy crap 11 TIMES!!!!!WHOA GIRL!well he obviously likes you alot and you cant give up old relationships..thay last forever!most times guyz tease the girls they like the most!
hope that helpss!!♥MiLLiE