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Hey people I think Im pretty alright at given advice. so if anyone wants to ask a question i'll try and get back wit you as soon as possible. advice
what should i get my guy 4 valentines it has 2 be great i cheated and we broke up on my b day were real good friends its been 3 days well anyways dont talk shit 2 me because i just found out & suspected he cheated 2 and yes in our 1st relationship he did atleast i admitted it i have 2 prove him i care and and stop drugs which i am ok so i need 2 know a good thing 2 show i care a nd love him ;) not that expensive cuz i doubt helel get me anything he didnt get me a bday gift but its cuz hes always broke so yeah 50 busx and
Ok rent a movie, get a bag of popcorn, and a blanket and just watch a movie with him. Believe it or not girls guys do actually like to cuddle sometimes. And as far as the gift goes no gift is gonna mean as much to him as a night alone with someone he cares dearly for and who feels the same way about him. I no when a girl gets me a gift it kinda makes me feel bad cause in my mind it's sopposed to be the guy who gives all the gifts i dont no call me a traditionalist.
i'll make this short and simple.
16f never been kissed (i know pathetic loser)
likes boy
wants to make first move
but scared of being rejected
what if i mess up? what if he moves his head away? i have braces will it be harder to kiss? should i eat chocolate before hand so i taste good?
please help a sista out. i'll give you 5's.
Well I personally think a girl making the first move shows alot of courage. Ok as for your advice being scared of rejection is the one thing you shouldn't be afraid of. If you go through your entire life trying to impress every person you meet your going to waste all the fun times of your life. So to start with the guy your trying to kiss you should prob no. This usually makes you look less like a whore. Next after your given the prob signals and everything your gonna wanna lean in for a kiss but not all the way make him come towards you to. As for the braces they only really make it harder if he has piercings in his mouth or he has braces. As for the chocolate it personally think a piece of gum is more interesting cause then it'll keep your breath fresh and ya'll can play with it to. Once yall get to know each other a lil better of course.
ok how would u like a girl 2 prove she loves u what would she have 2 say and do im desperate im not good at this communication thing i fucked up so yes
Ok well guys aren't really that complicated. To start with depending on the age and the amount of time the two of you have been going out/have known each other, The easiest way is just to tell him. Don't feel bad if the two of you have only been goin out for a month if he doesnt believe you it's that love doesn't happen quickly or atleast we don't like to believe it does. If you haven't been goin out for long, or even if you have, just do the same things you would want him to do. For example make sure you make time for him, but be carefull some guys don't like to have all there time planned for them so occasionally give him some space. Also when your with your friends treat him the exact same way as if you were alone together. Guys like to feel loved all the time not just when it's convenent for you. If you do talk to anouther guy tell him about it, and if he's there hold his hand and make sure he knows he's the one for you no one else.
Alrighty. So my junior year of college I developed a most excellent friendship with this guy, a senior, who we'll call Joe. Joe and I got really close and I asked him to my prom, and we were both on a band trip for a month that summer, so eventually we got together. Joe went to college 2 hours from home and we managed to make the long distance thing work for a while. As much as I loved Joe, he wasn't the greatest boyfriend... he rarely called/IMed/e-mailed, and I sent letters all the time, never to receive any back. I visited him a few times and he came home once or twice.
I thought we were doing ok til I went to visit March my senior year and he was really distant, and then in the beginning of April (this would be 2005) he dumped me over the phone, kinda out of the blue. I found a few things online and assumed he cheated on me, blah blah, we had a fight, and made up, and I know now he didn't cheat on me, and we still get along, which is good because we have a tight-knit group of friends who still hang out together on breaks.
So the problem with this is, I'm still having problems getting over him. We went out for pretty much a year and a half, and I know that I deserve better treatment and more attention than what I got... but it's difficult to hang out with him without thinking back to our relationship, and I often get super jealous of other girls I suspect he's interested in. I don't want to believe he's over me, but I know that I'm fooling myself, and I feel like a really pathetic person. I know there's no easy way to solve this, but any advice on how to "get over" him as more than just a friend would be appreciated.
Sorry but if you really loved him, and only you'll no that for sure no one can tell you that you did or you didn't, then that funny way he laughs to you and the little twinkle in his eye after looking directly into yours is always going to be there. The best thing you can do is keep him as a close friend. A good friendship is always the best foundation to a good relationship. Maybe after you two try the dating game out a bit and college settles down for him you two will give the relationship you two once held so dear anouther shot at success.
okay... so me and my boyfriend were dating for two years we had a GREAT relationship we were best friends, and loved eachother very very much!but the last month or two of our relationship he was starting to feel like "distant" from me and so of course i asked him about it and he always said nothing or i dont kno.. and i didnt want to annoy him about it so i let it go, but then he told me that he thinks he needs a break not just for him but for me too! and that last 3 days and i cried the whole time and he told me taht it was too hard and it wasnt worth it and that he loved me so much.. and so everything was better. then we go out of town for a week and i felt once again "distant" from himyet AGAIN! and the next day that we got home i talked to him about it and i didnt kno that that was going to be the end.. but he just said that alot of things are going on rite now and he wanted a break.. just a break!! and then i saw messages on the famous myspace from him and some girl and they started before we even broke up... and i got upset.. and then i just assumed that they mite like eachother...and i got over it.. whatever! but then i found out that he had been lieing to me.. he took her to the movies before and to parties and stuff..and i kno that we werent going out but we were still GREAT friends and we still told eachother that we loved eachother.. and regretfully we ahd sex, so of course this hurt me... and when i confronted him he said that he didnt kno what to say and tahts why he lied about everything... and trust me this is not the guy that i kno... he has NEVER lied to me. but then this so called break turned into a thing where he wanted to live his life.. and he still loves me but he is a senior and he has never been with another girl.. (i was his first EVERYTHING) and stuff.. and that of course jsut hurt me so bad... and now we are friends but he goes over to that girls house, and he tells me and even she told me taht they dont like eachother like that.. but they hang out by themselvs all the time! and i hate it.. and i kno that i shouldnt.. but i do. and he tells me that he loves me.. and he even cries whenever we talk about us.. bc he says taht he scared bc he mite be messing up the greatest thing that he has ever had.. and when i ask then why are you doing it.. he says he has to find out... =/ and i dont kno what to do.. we still hang out and stuff.. but it hurts me.. and i dont want to care but i do.. and i just want to be with him again... and i kno that is selfsih of me.. but i just cant help it.. we were soo happy....=( so can someone please give me some kind of advice.. i dont really kno what im asking for exactly.. just help!
Alright well this seems really familiar. Ok well me and my girlfriend went through the exact same thing. Let me help you by telling you my mistakes. Just because he starts talking to other girls don't bring other guys around just to make him jealous because it will work and thats not always a good thing or a bad thing just depends on the guy. Don't ever no matter how bad it gets say mean or hurtfull things to them or behind there back because right before you sleep at night it will always be there reminding you that you are prob. the reason your not back together, even if its not true. But the biggest thing of all is time, do your thing experiment go out on a date or two with a guy friend just remember don't rub it in. If the guy really wants to be with you, which is what it ultimately comes down to, then he'll see how much your hurting and hopefully, for the sack of your relationship together, come back like the butterfly you set free only to have it return.
i really like this guy. i am in 8th grade and he is in 7th. i guess you could say that i love him. i have been crazy about him for about 9 months now. he has a girlfriend who is in 9th grade. he flirts with me a whole lot and i catch him looking at me during the one class that we have together. he also messes with one of my friends while i am around her but not in a flirting way. my friends say that he is just going out with this girl to make me jealous. he does stuff like lean on my arm when i am sitting down and he is standing up talking to one of his friends that i sit by. he also shows up in my classes just to talk with his friends. he is like a "dream guy" and i know that lots of girls like him but how can i get him to notice me? we talk pretty much every day but he keeps his girlfriend. i do not want to break him and his girlfriend up or anything like that because i am not going to act like that even though i love him. how can i be the one that he notices? thanks! i'll rate!
Guys at that young of an age usually are attracted, or atleast I was, to the witty social girls who act like they just want to be friends. We all no a guy could not like you one minute, but if he thinks he can't have you then all the sudden he's all over you trying to have you. This isn't always good though cause usually these relationships don't last very long...but come on your only in what 8th grade so nows the time to make mistakes and have your fun so...have-at-it.
well, me and this guy have been talking a lot lately. we're getting to know each other really well, and we're going on a date sometime in the near future (less than 2 days away). he wants ME to choose where we should go and what we should do. the problem is, i have NO idea! i'm out of ideas! what should we do? what have you and your past girlfriends done for fun dates? help ASAP! thank you! -Confused
the best dates are prob a scary movie in the theaters. this way the two of you can cuddle and it will just be that much more special. hope i could help
Since ur a guy, I gotta question 4 ya! Haha. I was just wondering, wut are some good present/gifts that u can get for or give 2 ur boyfriend 4 an anniversary or birthday type deal? My boyfriend is around ur age and we have been going out 4 about 9 and a half months. Sorry, this question may be lame or w/e, but I figured I'd give it a shot and ask since I'm clueless when it comes 2 wut a guy would want. Thanks!
well i dn what your bf is into but most likely he doesnt want you to get him anything... its a man thing dont try to understand it. but if your insistant then i would go with a braclet or maybe a friendship charm. after all you cant go wrong wit jewerly and giving him a frindship charm will just show him that your even more serious about this relationship. HOpe i could help
okay im going out with this kid nick and weve been together since june. one of my best friends matt is nicks best friend and i go over & hang out with matt & nick alot and one day matt was like you know nick hasnt stopped liking you since the last time u went out. but the last time we went out was in like 7th grade haha but i kinda always wanted to go back out with him too so we started to go out. now i didnt know this but his parents are really strict and he cant be on the phone past 9 and he cant do anything cuz he has work so we can only hang out on the weekends now. and matt told me that his parents beat him and so i feel really bad. but theres this other kid jason that i really like alot. and he goes to my school. im not sure if he likes me back but i i heard that he does and weve been talking alot this summer but im not sure. and i think he knows that i liked him before i started going out with nick. any way heres the point. i really would rather go out with jason but im not sure if he likes me and the only way i can find out is if i dump nick. and it sounds easy but then i think about it and i kinda still like nick and i dont know if i wanna take the chance of jason not liking me but i feel bad going out with one person but wanting another person more.. it just feels like im keeping something from nick and i dont like it. and plus i never see nick and he never calls anymore so i dont know what to do. sry to make it so long but this has been bothering me for a while. dani,14,F
First off your hearts always you best guide f your brain. Then if you have these feelings for jason your relaionship with nick is never going to be the same. If you do decide to date jason you should definitely ask nick if he thinks its ok, After all they are friends and he is your bf. Also your right the only way you are gonna no if jason likes you is prob to dump nick. After all a guys not usally gonna hit on a taken girl. Hope i could help.
Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions?
Ok for my gf 16th birthday i got her pink roses (reds just to worn out) and took her to a movie then out to eat. Im not sayin you have to get her a dozen roses all she is really gonna want is you to spend time with her. HOpe i could help
ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..
If your not ready then you really dont need help you have already told yourself you dont want to do this just yet and that maybe in the future you do. Just tell him He'll understand, and if he doesnt then he was just in it for the sex anyways so your better off without him. HOpe i could help
hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?
~diamond~ 17
Ok well lets start wit a quote ok a relationship can't be a sucessfull relationship without fighting." Meaning small fights just get some built up anger out and should not be taken to seriously. If however they are larger fights then the two of you should try sitting down and talking, not fighting avoid fighting. As i've stated before talking doesnt solve everything but it solves alot of things. HOpe i could help
im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~
Going out with an older guy would be great for you becouse as you said he would be more mature. But (theres always a but) Just make sure you dont let this older guy persaude you into anything your not ready for like drinking, sex, drugs,ect... And as for your friends and what they think. If there true friends they understand that the reason your doin this is to further benifit yourself. And if they dont think that then either one of two things is present, A. they were never really your friends
B. There just jealous cause an older guy would want to go out wit them.
HOpe i could help
do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks
~*a*M*y~
In my opinion an online relationship is usally just that an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Yea there great you no becouse you can ask them questions and exspect an honest answer, becouse they dont no you as well. As for depending your life on it i would say no. The two of you just dont have the chemistry you and a friend would have that you see everyday. HoPe I cOuLd HeLp
what do you do if you like this one boy and he is your friends ex-boyfriend and you really wanna go with him but your not sure if he likes you b/c everytime you ask him if he likes you or anything he always says he dosnt feel confortable anwsering that right now?
OK well to start wit i have this same prob. right now in my life. this gurl wants to no if i like her and she wont quit askin me even after i said i didnt feel comfortable. ok first off if he is one of your friends ex-boyfriend then you should def. ask your friend if she thinks its ok. if she does then you should just work with this guy to make him feel alil more comfortable with you. Dont preasure him or you may end up wit an answer he doesnt mean or one you dont want. hope i could help.
okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me?
I think he's doin the same thing you are he is tryin to hide what he feels instead of letting you no. The reason prob is becouse you two said you were done wit each other and now he things that you have moved on, hints why he's askin about the bf. IN my opinion i think he prob still has alot of feelings for you and is just to damn prideful to show them. hope i could help
Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think?
IF you have feelings for this new person you should tell your ex and say that maybe someday we can still get together but until then i just want to be friends. also dont give up on this new person becouse that might be the one person whom you were ment to spend the rest of your life with. hope i could help.
ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again?
as much as i hate to say this he may just be losing the vibe he got from you while you were in college. If you want some advice I would go call him or go meet with him or something cause if he's that special to you then you two definitely need to talk. Talking may not solve everything but it definitely will solve alot. just be sure to ask him why he's getting so distant and tell him that its kinda hurting you to have to go however long you go without talkin to him. If he still loves you then he will understand that you two need to talk more. hope i could help
are glasses a throw off to girls?
it all depends i guess on a couple things if your good looking then no prob not if your kinda ugly you may want to consider contacts. also if you choose to get glasses go wit a small lens and kinda of a frame that blends wit you. hope i could help
what r the symptons of being pregnant?
Um im a guy but my sis was pregnant twice not to long ago so i'll try to help. ok first off obviously a missed period is a big hint as to something maybe wrong, if you miss it by like 3 or 4 days you may want to take a pregnanty test. also if your really far along like a couple months you may start to eat alot, throw up alot, and just stuff like that. excessive weight gain is a big hint as to something maybe wrong to. hope i could help.