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I can try my best to give you my advice, ask me what is on your mind and i can give you my opinion.
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So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random girl I couldnt tell you her name to save my life asked HOW LONG we've been going out..! Then today DJ didffrent annoying kid asked if we were.. Well I dont see why Adams not going "Gross kid! No I am not going out with this Hella Fat cow!" But all 3 times he hasnt said anything.. i've had to correct them. The Steven goes around telling Adam that he's all I ever talk about which soo isn't true!
Adam said something to me I forget, about "us."kinda and I was like ahh not now Adam later.. just joking around and he was like yayyy now i have something to look forward to and It was funny and I laughed and stuff and I guess I have a laugh AND a giggle. Ive heard this from my Best Budd in the whole world Becky. Well I dont control it. because I dont know I even had a **gigle...
Well, Beckys made a huge deal out've reading and me and Adam flirting. I say its not.. even tho it kinda is.. I mean Im not the number one girl Adam could have! He's funny, Smells delish!!! no joke, and i donno everything about hims awsome. He has more options besides ME. I stayed back, im the Godzilla of the grade.. because im fat and im just al around not pretty. But people tell me other wise.. but ughh tuff subject.
Then today Adam at lunch was playing footsies.. and i was laughing and stuff when JJ tried making fun of him and started with my other foot COMPLETELY AKWARD btw when Adam stepped on his foot with FULL FORCE like as hard as possible!! Well all I can say is JJ wont do that again =) But the weird things is afterwards, Adam didn't stop. He continued holding me knee.. and playing with my foot. And in reading, he rubs knee\leg and we talked about how waffles are better then pancakes, lipgloss is better then lipstick (haha funny funny!) and if i looked better with or without glasses and he said eitherway..=) And I dont know what it's called but he keeps stepping on my hel when im walking and it kills SOOO much lol and Friday he hurt me and he was like Oh my god im sooo sorry and hasnt done it since.
Well, I didnt want to admit i liked him because he couldve been flirting with me on a bet or date, Ive seen those movie! or to just fuck with me. And I dont wanna make a big deal outa this if he doesnt. I dont wanna look like an idiot.
Well I kinda wrote this is my profile.
So Maybe I Do Talk To Much.
Expecially
About Him.
I might as well go to the tallest mountain..
And Scream It To The World.
"I Can't Lie."
After me and becky Had a talk about how I suck at lieing...
What do I Do???
Becky thinks he likes me too.
Well first of all dont think you are in a movie like never been kiss and shes the one. COME ON those are moives. when i was in high school i had ton of people ask me if i am going out with my guy friend and i said no and he hardly said anything but he said no sometimes. (but my friend is bi)the reason why he is not saying no, is because he probley is to shy to say it and/or doesnt want to say no because he wants to be a yes. I myself ask guys out because i liked them. sometimes guys these days dont have balls LOL. listen dont put your self down on how you look because i myself dont have a perfect body but i get a lot of guys liking me. he likes you but he is shy. he is frilting with you. now what you should do is ask him "Adam do you like anybody?" see what he says. or " do you like me?"
Is adam a shy guy? cool guy? class clown? is he popuarl? let me know...ok
There is a picture that the guy I like friend drew for him. (It's a re-enmactment of the Last Supper as him as Jesus) and there is a girl next to him. The thing really bothering me is that I dont know who this girl is. It might me be but I have glasses or his sister which makes sense. Then there is a girl who he's friends with that she could also be.
here's the pic:
I need advice!
Well dont think it is you because you might be wrong and it will crush you. ask him who are the people in the picture. belive me every time my crush says or do somthing i always think she ment me but then it truns out i was wrong.
AHHH!!
please helpp.
okayy this is going to be kinda longg but sum1 please please please help mee
i like this guy and ive liked him for a while
he told me when we 1st became friends he didnt go out with freshman
and i respected that
so i waited until the end of the year
and nothing happened
but he kept flirting with me constantly..i mean like unclip my bra in the middle of class, kick my chair, always whipser stuff to me ( we have close last names so we sat close to each other)
and we would hang out everyday and when we hung out he would lay on me ( ex. my boobs)
and we would watch scary movies and cuddle
and he would call me everynight (school nights) and we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours until like 2 in the morning
but anywayy..thats the info you sorta need to know
just recently i told him i liked him and i asked how he felt back..he totally changed the subject and i asked him again and he signed off (i did this online) but the 2nd time he calls me later and asks me to sneak out with him...i didnt go.
so finally i bugged him so much and i got an answer..
he told me he liked me but prolly nuthings gunna happen between us and i was crushed and im told him i was confused cuz he "likes me alot" but "probably nothings going to happen becuase he cant predict the future"
and i cried for about a week
i really think i love this guy
and you know i wasnt letting him hold me back i hooked up with this other guy and he found out
he was CRUSHED. he was so mad he brought a bat the next time he knew i was with him
and then he told me he didnt want to ask me out becuase he "didnt want to ruin our friendshp"
and my couin whos 30 ( i talked to her about this)
told me thats a bunch of sh*#%
and she said to see is he relle likes me..dont im him..call him ..hang out with him and if he realizes it then hell do something
so it was abotu 2 weeks and i get a random im "hi i miss you =["
so she told me that he just likes to be liked and now that im showing him i dont care hes realizing like oh sh*% maybe shes moving on
but grrr i like him soo much
and i dont know what to do
pleasee shud i im him?
does he like me?
im soo sorry this is so long by the way
but please,,, HELPP!!
thanksss in advance !!
You should call him or meet him or IM him, but you have to tell him about how he is playing with your emotions, this guy needs to respect your feelings and his playing hard to get or very confused on what he wants. Tell him this: I like you and I always did, you being very close to me and jealous when I was with that other guy. You are not respecting how I feel and I want to know do you like me more than a friend?"
I been threw this and I hate when the other person is playing games (and that’s what he is doing) it is not fair for you and you are dieing to know. I hope this works out.
ok so i just had sex with this guy. he didn't use a condom, bad i know!! he pulled out and everything but now my best friend has me worried about pre-cum. is there anyway to tell if he came in me at all?
OR buy a pregnancy pill.
i agree with MATT
i liked this guy for a long time and now i kinda over him. my friend likes him now and im all defensive. i cant talk to her cause i have a boyfriend. but idk if i like my boyfriend, but i just started going out w/ him today so i cant break up with him yet.. i went out with him cause we're friends and hes nice and hes like in love with me. i just dont feel the chemistry. this is my first boyfriend. im a wreck. i cant eat, think straight, etc.
xclueless
okay so your saying your new boy friend is making you cant eat? or is it the guy you like?
well i say dont go out with this new guy. belive me i know. i thougt i like this guy name aaron because he was nice and sweet. i went out with him but when i got to know him more i got annoyed by him. so i broke up with him. my point is dont go out with someone because they like you and you dont like them back. try to think in their shoes. i mean he problemly thinks your a wonderful person and he'll do anything for you, but then if he see you not liking him back it'll crush him. you got to tell your friend that you have some feelings about the guy you like and you are not sure if you like your boyfriend. so dont go out with someone cause of self pitty go out with them when you know you like them back too.
i hope i help, but i got a little confused on which guy that makes you feel like you cant eat.
So there's these two girls.
The first [Alex], is definately bi. At a friend's sweet sixteen, she tried to seduce me. We only went to second base though, not a huge deal.
So today, she asked me to come with her while she got changed after play practice. So I'm like, kay, whatevs, cuz we're good friends. And she keeps tryign to get me to look at her boobs. I'm not perverted like that, that I'd stare at someone's boobs. Anyway, so I finally looked, and then she gets this dawning look and starts rambling about her period. Any idea what that was about??
Two, [Becky] was single this weekend, and I realized I have a crush on her. then she got back with her scumbag bf, and thats over, but what the hell do I do now???
I'm superconfused.[more info, ask]
like how was alex trying to make u stare at her breast? are you sure it wasnt your imagation. and so what if she talks about her period, my friends do that.
and Becky is having some relationship prombles, she is going off and on with her boyfriend that means their relationship needs to be shorted out, if you like her tell her.
so far its hard to answer this because i need more info about this question.
I like this boy at school. I realy love hime so much. But, he doesnt like me.When I try to talk to him and tell him how I realy feel about him, I get nurvouse. What should I do?
Ask him if he likes Someone, if he replies’s no try to say, I’m interested to someone, and then tell him who it is like describe the personality of him and see if he gets the hint. Look him in the eyes or try if he not looking and flirt a little by touching his hand or leg.
Or
If he says yes he likes someone ask who it is. But still tell him (of the opinions I gave you.)
I hope I help, anymore question just send it to my inbox.
Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
-and it all started last month around the beginning of March.
-and we've met before but never really talked much because we dont go to the same school but he lives in the same town as me.
-we work at the same place, and thats basically how we started talking.
-so over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time everyday; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
- everything was going good and i got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. just had bad luck with past relationships because of the way he was treated.
- only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because i had drivers ed 3 times a week, basketball 2 times a week and work on the weekends.
-->this was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out but i nevr had the time to.
So everything was going pretty good.
APRIL:
-So he then invites me like..last minute to some semiformal thing on a tuesday and the semi is on that saturday.
--im not able to go because my parents dont know him and i wasnt getting great grades at the time.
--> so saturday comes and hes like..really reallyyy sad i cant go.
--> a couple weeks go by, and everythings still going good.
--> then all of a sudden one day, he just starts acting wierd. and this carries on for 3 days.
- so i had to work one of the days and he was like "oh maybe ill stop by"
--> so he stops by and we didnt talk but just smiled at each other. he stayed for maybe an hour.
- so after work, i check my messages and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
--> so days go by and then its vacation.
since i go to a catholic school in a different state but i live in the same state as him and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacation is different.
- i ended up giong to florida for vacation for a week.
we texted the whole time i was down there and things seemed to be fine.
-until the last 2 days i was down there, he didnt respond to my txt messages.
so i was worried something was wrong.
-i get back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly haha) and then i just look on his myspace, since i dont have one (not allowed) and it says "in a relationship"
--> so im like...ohh great what the hell happened now? then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it wont hold the charge.
so i asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and hes all like "What? i thought u werent allowed on myspace? i thought it was blocked? and im like...noo....its not blocked. i jsut cant have a myspace"
so then hes like...about that...i thought u were jsut leading me on the whole time and we havent even hung out yet so i was getting tired of it.
so iim like...okay, i told you before vacation that after i got back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with. and hes like..well i dont remmeber that and you didnt seem like you were interested in me that much because you never made plans to hang out.
--> i definetly remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didnt work because of drivers ed.
and now he just wont talk to me or anything, and i dont know what to do.
what would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
steph
If i was you i'll realize this guy is not into me. i mean if he really likes you he'll wait for you when ever you got the time. dont waest your time on this guy, cause he seem like he is asshole. I'm sorry that you have to go thourght that. you need someone that wont care how busy you are and will have to wait no matter what.you did try to make time but you got important things to do and he should've respect that. so i would forget about him and move on. and if he realize how dum he was then he might crawl back to you. but still try not to trust every thing he says or do cause i was played before and it hurts. hope that helps.
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girl: i just really want someone to makeout with or a BOYFRIEND! i need advice, cuz ur like my brother :] :[
him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
girl: wut
Him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
girl: i dnt get it??
him: nvm g2g
him: signed off
what does this mean??? my friend saidhe wants to makeout with me, but im not sure
duckyville72
Him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
Well he wants to be know, and he wants you to be too. is he your real brother or friend?
if he is ur friend maybe he was hintting to you "hey lets makeout and get popular together"
no clue but thats what i think.
He's been like a brother to me for about 2 years now. I've liked him as long as i have known him. I would have already said something but he has already told some of my friends who tried with him that he thought of them as sisters and nothing else. But now I have people coming to me telling me that he does like me. But I don't know if I want to take the chance of being rejected like some of my friends were. What do you think I should do?
I'm in your same shoes too,well okay shes been showing me signs also and i need to ask her if she likes me.
the right thing to do is comfront him with a teasing way, flirt alittle see if he flirts back.
he is your friend and he will understand he will not make fun at you.
say to him i have something important to tell you.
clam yourself no worries he is your friend.
i hope i helped.
Me & my baby want a song. We're young & in love so a love song would be nice =] any song suggestions???
love song by 311 i luv the lryics and you both will love it too. i think?
My best guy friend asked me out a week ago, and I liked him a little, so I said yes. Well... now he's getting annoying, and sometimes I have feelings for him, sometimes I don't. I kinda like someone else, but I know I have no chance with him, but I still don't want to go out with my boyfriend when I don't really like him. Help me, PLEASE.
okay, i been thou this and my friend. see with my friend she thought she had feelings with our guy friend, but it was feelings of friendship. she only went out with him for 3 days! she realized he wasnt the one she wanted so she moved on but we are all friends still. dont go out with a guy cause of self pity okay. with me i had a crush on a guy in high school and when he had a girlfriend i got over him. till next year he liked me and we went out. he was annoying! he was like a puppy and couldnt stand up for him self when i yelled at him. so that didnt work out. so think twice before its too late. hope i help ;)
16/m Ok, so I have grown extremely close to a girl, and we are best friends now. Lets call her Betty for this. However, this girl happens to be one of my best friend's(who we will call Bob) girlfriend. Now, they have been dationg for close to 3 years...since before I met either of them.
Betty is everything I would look for in a girlfriend...she is pretty, smart, funny, and we just get along so well. I don't want to have feelings for her, but i can't help it. I would never want to move on these feelings because Bob is a close friend of mine. People have also told me that they think she likes me too.
About 2 months ago I got into a huge fight with Bob, because he was mad at me because Betty was flirting with me, even though I was not flirting back.
Betty flirts with me all the time, and always tells me how Bob is being a jerk to her. Now they are boken up but still kinda together, and she always talks to me about how he is an @$$hole.
Basically I just need to know what I can do. I have feelings for her that I do not want to have, but I can't help it. Bob is too good of a friend to lose over a girl, and I never want to lose any friend over a girl. Is there like anything i can do to get these feelings out of my head?
I'm in your shoes too, see i'm good pals with my friend and we both like the same girl too. but instead of going to her you should try to talk to Bob. i did that to my friend, i told him that i liked the same girl he likes and i think she might like me back. i dont want to have a girl come between us so please understand. he then told me thank you for telling him that. Thats a true friend. now bob and you need to talk first, then if he gets the okay of you to talk to betty then talk. if not then try to talk to her.
getting over someone is hard so what i do is keep my self bussy with work, school and hoobies. so good luck!
okay well i have this crush on this kid in my class- at least i think i do. i dunno if i really like him sometimes i really feel like i like him but other times i feel like we are just friends. but i think i might just be pushing this thought that i like him out of my mind
because i am scared because i do not know what to do if i like him or how to let him know (i dont want to let him know). last time i had a crush was when i was 7 in first grade i am now 14 so i am new to this and i dont ever really get this feeling.What should i do? should i just give up?
PS he is like 5'6 and really like really skinny and i am in good shape but not really skinny i am 5'10
Ask him to be your friend. get to know him. the more you know him you might find out that you do like him. and show who you really are, he might like you too if you bring out your true self.
15
Female
today i just found out that a guy i liked last year liked me back and he asked me out. i said yes, because i felt i wanted a boyfreind and i thought i liked him alot. of course 20 minutes later my concience caught up with me and i started doubting my liking for him and now im scared i dont like him at all. he's a really good guy and im scared im going to lose him if i tell him about it. last year my boyfriend and i broke up and it took me a long time to get over it and i just don't want to get hurt again... i dont know if i should tell him or just go on a date with him and see if i really like him. im not sure. also i havnt told my family yet because they always make fun of me for having a boyfreind.
what should i do!?
wow you sound like me when i was 16. i remember i was in your shoes. i broke his heart and still feel bad.Im 20 now. but my friend told me he called her up i ask for his number and i told him i was sorry for what i did. he said it was alright its the past.
you feel pity you dont like him.(or maybe) do not go out with him cause your sorry for him that is not love. and i always felt like my famliy will make fun of me when i had a bf. but my mom found out and she said "dont feel shy that you have a bf okay, we wont make fun of you. you are growing up and thats good that you are finding someone you like and experisents new things" i'm the youngest and every time my sister made fun that i had a crush i get mad. but now i should realize that was the past this is now.
if they still make fun tell them you dont like it and its very inmantuer of them.
whats wrong with me? honestly im a fun person positive, i have so many friends and lot of them guys too...but why cant someone just seem to find me attractive enough to date me or want something more!!????
Well put yourself out there, show your true side flirt alittle let people know your the hot **** out there. just dont make a fool of your self. :D
okay well no we aren't married but u see the thing is our lives a fine it's just we keep onm messing it up with each other but we just can't stay away even if we are just trying to be freinds or sumthing. I really wantto be with him but i just don't know how....and he justwants to be friends i think i really don't know how he feels and he won'ttell me so i am just so lost
Well okay i read your last qeastion wrong sorry.its hard to read what u wrote, but he maybe wants some space, you were together right? tell him you want more than friendship, if he said no, sorry for that. but is he showing you he likes you? ask him about that too. he needs to stop toying with you he needs to step up and tell you how he feels. guys dont really do that but push him to say something. it hurts you and he cant bring it up cause it might make feel him uncomfretable, be clam and ask let him know that you are his helping hand. hope that helps.
okay well this guy i met last year has seemed to be in my life ever since.....i liked him a lot last year and a BIG part of this year.....(school year wise) and well ever since i liked him my life had ben fallin apart and he had changed me drastically. well i decided to try to get over him. i did for a while and then he started talking to me a couple weeks ago and i can't help but still like him. i know it isn't good for me to like him becasue of the effect he has on me. i just don't know what to do becasue i tried to let go but it isn't working anymore.
Keep your mind fouce life isnt always about boys boys boys. if he is affcting your school or people around you, u are hurting yourself and others even your goals, if he luvs you he should respect you and what you want. wants you get your life together then the both of you will have a great life. he needs to sort out him self too. cause love last forever but you need a job and brains so you can live under a roof (right) so whats more important...your life. and his too (if your married.) he thinks of himself you do the same. and what i mean by married is that married couples support each other so they can live in happy. your not married right? so he cant be just your whole world. first you! then him. if you r a famliy then famliy and you, get my point. hope that helps.
theres this guy that i used to be really close with but now he's kind of at that stage where he doesn't eat, he doesn't talk to anyone, he's always fighting with his best friend and he always works and studies to hard. i don't know what do say to him, he won't listen to me or to anyone else. he thinks that what he's doing is fine and doesn't care. what should i do?
ps. i don't want to say anything to him because he gets angry easily and he's not to pretty when he's mad
I'm dealing with someone like that but its different. he doesnt get anger he just lies. this guy needs help he sounds broken hearted and needs help. ask all his friends to go in one room and comfront him. yell at him show him that you care and everyone elus. if he dosent listen then he'll lose his friends the only people who care for him no matter what. he needs to know he is not alone. good luck. ;)
and he likes me too, well, used to. That's part of the problem. I'm not too sure what's going through his mind anymore. We've been hanging out alot and we talk everyday and this has been going on for the past 2 months and at the beginning of those 2 months he told me he liked me and I liked him back. Well, we've kissed and everything, and I'm just confused. I don't get why he hasn't asked me out by now.
He also always talks about these girls and ex-girlfriends and stuff to me. Like he tells me how his one girlfriend used to cook for him and how he thought that was cool and how his other old one used to be a real good dancer [ I don't know if he's trying to hint to me I should pick up on these things or what or if he's just making converastion about his past ]. But then he'll tell me about how he went to the mall and two girls gave him their number and everything. And I know this is a common thing to make the person you like jealous, but he's going a little overboard, now. He knows I like him, so rubbing 3940 girls in my face isn't making me too happy, but I can't say nothing because we're not girlfriend or boyfriend or anything. He's single, he has the right to flirt and do things with whomever he pleases.
It just feels like we're dating already, though. I mean we talk EVERY DAY and hang out as much as we can, so I'm practically the only girl he sees anyways and we have such fun when we're together and I love kissing him and everything. It's great.
But that's where I get confused, like I said earlier. I don't know if he's lost feelings for me [ but then why would he still be kissing me and everything? ] or what because I figured he would've asked me out by now.
Well anyways.
Last night I was thinknig about it and I got a little moody cause it's been upsetting me for the past week now and I was on the phone with him and he asked what was wrong, and I told him nothing. He asked continously and I gave him the same answer continously and we both got aggrivated with eachother. So today I texted him back apologizing for being so moody and hoping he'd forget about it, move on, but he didn't. He started asking all over again what was the matter and what was on my mind last night and I told him once more,"really, it's nothing I don't want to talk about it." Cause I don't have the courage to confront guys about things, I'm a wuss.
Well he hung up on me and texted me back saying,"I thought we were friends and could tell eachother anything. I know you hate secrets being kept from you just as much as I do. You call me when you wanna tell me, but if you don't tell me, don't call me at all."
I don't know what to do!
I want to just say it, but I get all nervous and I'm just so worried about how the outcome's gonna be. Him say he doesn't like me anymore and we're just friends and I'm all sad, or him say all that and then it's too awkward to be friends. Or then he ask me out out of pity or something. But now I feel even MORE pressured to say something because he basically just gave me an ultimatium. I don't even know if everything I've just written makes sense, but if it does, someone give me your opinion, please?
Okay I'm a wuss too and when i dont come out and say it i look in the futuer of what if i never said anything of whats on my mind about this person. And i get a bad picture of the futuer, that person i like will be with someone elus or never my friend any more. so what i do is i twist my finger around to stop the dam wussy crap and do it! (i dont really do that) but my point is this is what you do "okay i'm calling you cause you want to know what was wrong with me that night. I'm getting mix signals from you, we have a great time hanging out and i love your company. but what is going on do you like me or what? please tell me." you dont have to go word by word of what i wrote but its best to tell him in YOUR own way. you got to let him whats on your mind if not he'll not be there with you any more.
Im going though this myself but its a little different ;)