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14/f
i'm a freshman and the guy i like is a junior and rides my highschool bus...he is so cute...i want to get to know him but i don't know how to without looking like a total dork...he don't even know i exist...what should i do?
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go to the schools football games. and show up to the highschool afterwards when the bus drops them off. or try and see him out/ at parties. start saying hi or even just smiling. thats what i did, and now ive been with my football player for 2 years
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okay i went out with this dude for 3 months.
the first month he cheated on me then broke up with me and then asked me back out we went out for 3 more months and when he broke up the reason why we did changed everyday. and my new best friend went out with him. before i did. and he lied to her and told her he was going to wait until she was aloud to date. and then he ran off with me. and then he cheated on me with her. and shes not the kinda person that would do that. but i guess "love" makes you do crazy things i forgave her we both did out share he ran off with me , he cheated on me with her and now. hes comming back to her asking her on dates and shes no going for it cause hes a lier and a cheater everything he said to her when they went out and while cheating on me was a lie and i found out last night okay it went like this. He asked her on the dates, i told her to stay yes to them and then i found out he promises my friend emily on a date! and then...... i go to his myspace ( i have his password) and emilys friend from colorado he was saying how he was thinking about her during soccer conditioning and that he loved her and all this. im like WTF? so me and my friend have our own littel jonh tucker issue. but its only 2 of us. Shes the bait and im the one who knows everything. like i have all the connections i have ALOTTT of friends that know him. and like shes the quite type not very popular and i guess im the popular type and people tell me everything. so do you think its time for him to get his like seriouly? emily and her friend both live in colorado! and its me and clara here. and hes the type that comes back to girls after a while its time for him to be SHUTTTTT DOWN.hes acting soooo deprite and immature and hes playing games with me and my friend clara and he doesnt deserve us at all
he bacially have 4 clara,me,emily,and emilys friend!!!!!!!!!!
do you think this is right!!!!!!/??? (link)
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im sorry hun buti dont think he really cares for you that way. hes cocky and tahts not too attractive
good luck though
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Sorry this is long. This guy Mike and I have been going out for 3 months and I feel like it might be time to end it. He won't go any farther with me since he really respects me, but I've told him to and had my guy friends talk to him about it. (We've been to first and some of 2nd .. but never under the shirt) It's making me feel like there's something wrong with me. Yesterday he said "I love you" to me which he's only said online before. He's starting to be the more romantic person in our relationship and I'm the one that wants something physical lol. There's also the problem of how often I see him. He's at his dads a lot during the week & has to go down the shore with his mom during the weekends sometimes. I really do like him, don't get me wrong & I feel horrible because I want to end it with him. I know that if I do end it, I'll want to get back with him. What should I do? - Thanks (link)
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talk to him about it if u think you really want to start doing physical things. be like i think its time we start moving on to doing things because i really like u and i feel right doing them with u. hes probably just nervous. hope i helpedd
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My boyfriend and I have been going through a "rough patch", and we both want our relationship to work but both are confused as to how to make it survive. I really like him and I'm so happy when im with him, I just dont know the best way to deal with the worst that might happen for example; If we split up. Any suggestions? And how can i let/show him that this relationship means the world to me? (link)
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just let him know that you are fully happy when your with him. basically just always keep the energy that u have for him
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13/f my best friend's boyfriend and I are also best friends. we're the kind of best freinds that are always fighting and teasing each other. now he is completely inlove with my best friend and i dont think i like him and even if i did i wud never do anything cuz he's my best friend's boyfriend. all our friends (including his girlfriend) think we like each other. how can i convince them there rong? (link)
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just dont be extra close to eachhother like u are. talk to him about it too. tell ur best friend what you just said, you dont want anything like that with him
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Okay, what are some subtle ways to flirt with guys without being overly obvious?? and guys, what makes a girl stand out or atractive? what makes you like a girl? ANYthing i should know! THANKS A LOT!! (link)
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basically easy flirting ways is just try and make them laugh! be sweet, dont try and be a tough girl or anything, guys usually hate that. be sweet to them , but not shy. carry on a good conversation with them. if you want to stand out to boys then always wear a smile and just be happy
hope i helped xoxo
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well there's this guy and i really like him, i have since november. the problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. they have been together since october. and my friend just moved back to my school ( i used to be friends with her at my old school and now shes back) and she knows that i like him, and she flirts with him and i think she likes him and hes a flirty guy and he does with a lot of girls including me, but i dont like it when she tells me that he flirts with her and stuff.. and if she were my friend and knew i liked him why would she say that? and .. i really like him and for the guys out there.. what are some ways to distract him from his girlfriend.. get his attention..bc im sick of waiting for them to break up, bc it doesnt look like its going to happen anytime soon even though my other friends say they will because they have been together for so long. please help.. i rate high (link)
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ive delt with that. shes not a friend if first of all, she flirts with him and secondly, she tells you! she obviously flirts back and seems a little bit cocky.. i think if you want to distract him definetly dresscute, thats a must and flirt.. i mean its a given but you have to. ask him is plans for the weekend or talk about hoe excited you are for summer or spring break and give him your number to keep in touch during summer or to hangout during break. smile at him alot and occasionaly ask him about how his gf and kind of laugh or smile when saying it. give off sexy vibes as well
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Hey well im 13/f and i really really like this guy. His name is matt but I honestly dont think he knows I exsist besides when he glances at me in the hallway. I want to know how to get him to notice me but hes pretty popular and hes friends with a lot of popular girls. But dont get me wrong hes not shallow hes a great person. How can I compare to the other girls. I'm not bad looking, not trying to be conceted but its not like ive never been told I'm pretty. I try so hard to get him to notice be but I'm terribly shy when it comes to guys I like. I know most of you will say try and talk to him but i cant im just one of those people who doesnt approach people. It just doesnt happen with me. Is there any other way to maybe get him to notice me?
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hi!! ive been in that situation plenty of time. dont dress slutty! ha im not saying you do but its a turn off most of the time. just wear some clothes that kind of compliment your curves&your body!.. dress up&wear like nice clothes with heals or sumthin and pretty makeup that will make you a little tan. when you see him make sure your with people and make him notice you by liek smiling or laughin, basically having a goodtime and enjoyving yourself
and most of all act confident! and when he glances just smile
goodluck
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therez this boy chris and ive had a crush on him since sptember , hes a junior and im a freshman.. hes in my study and he is so nice, he sits at the table with me and so does his friend aaron and this sophmore sophia. shes really pretty but people say shes a slut and they always makes comments to her like,hey soph you dropped your pen!.. and he always tells me" why dont you come party with me" but i always say i dont knoww and he never gives me his number or anything.. he slaps my ass sometimez and shit but im not sure.. im hangi out with sophia tonight maybe i should talk to her bout it.. (link)
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definetly tell her you have soem feelinsg for him ( im sorry im late answering) maybe she`ll know and could help u with it
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so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..
friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..
i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feelings (he ignored my call, like it rang and he pressed ignore, so i know he had his fone, so i know he got he voicemail) and to call me. its 2 days later and he hasn't called. but he'll call me sunday before school and apologize and have an excuse .. he always does .. and i always believe him ..
everyone says dump him .. but i cant. i love him .. i just dont know what to do without messing it up and gettin him pissed off .. HELP?! (link)
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well first off how old are you? this seems like sumthing i went through in liek 7th 8th grade....wellhear is excuse first but honestly i think you should let him go, if he didnt want to hang once tahts dumb. but if he says he wanted to he should of tried to!
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AHHHH!!! HELP Okay well, theres this guy... we'll call him jimmy and first we were friends and then we wnet out, the first day he was GREAT.We held hands and hugged it was the best day ever, then for the next two weeks he compltely dissed me, now we are really good friends, and my best friend thinks i still like him, i keep telling her now but then she said "why don't you like him?" and the truth is. . i cant think of any reasons why i don't expect that he's a little bit dramatic at times and thats all. My heads telling me no no no but my heart is telling me yes yes yes. I know he doesn't like me but it justs breaks my heart when i see him fliritng with anotehr girl. When me and him are haning out it's all good, but then when a nother girl comes into the pictures he totaly ditvhes me as my friend tells me i don't notice it but she syas she sees the pain in my eyes. I don't want to like him anymore. I got over him once but that's because i dint see him flirting and he started to again, so now i dont know waht to do anymore, i DONT want him back he's going to break my heart. I don't want to like him, i can't stop thinking about him, it's dirivng me NUTS< HELP AHHHHHHHHHHH!!! (link)
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your basically crazy about him huh? thats okay whatever thats just how some girls get with boys.
im guessing your in jr high, middle school? thats how all boys act then, they just dont know what to do or how to have a relationship, they arent matured yet basically. if you really do like him as much as you saytell him.. just do it it cant hurt.. if he has feeling too then just be like well dont hurt me and tell him how much you think and care for him and especially wish he wouldnt hurt you like that. if he doesnt like you then just say well good because i think we could have really good conversations about stuff and be really good friends ( and trust me in middle school good friends alwaysss turn into bf gf) haha goodluck
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i am a 14/f and i am the oldest from my sisters. well my parents are Over protective like the other day i went outside to take a walk with my sister and my mom made my dad come after uis. but anyways i have a boyfriend (Which i am not supposed to have) he is 15 and i like him a lot. but i need to get a way so that i can get out of the house and spend sometime with him with my parents bein able to trust me.. they always think i am up to something bad and they think my boyfriend is only a friend of mine. he lives about a 15 minute drive away from me and i want meet up with him how can? and if i get my friend to go to the mall i dont want her to be left behind because he will be with me and if he brings a friend my friend wont like him because she only likes italians... so yea i really some help. please. (link)
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hello
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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
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fighting is healthy for a relationship, its not bad. but when you fight, talk about it.. try and leave all of the yelling and screaming out and also dont inslut, just talk about the problem thurrowly.. hope i helped
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what can you do that makes a guy like you or want to go out with you ?? (link)
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be a good friend at first and act interested towards him and his life, basically just listen and try and hangout with him
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okay, so this guy I was talking about before, well it was our grad like 2 nights ago and he asked me to dance......blah blah blah. After the dance we went to the park, a group of us and of course Truth or dare, i think it's a dumb game and since we were both there we had to kiss. well he kissed me on the cheek. And during this week a girl at school(big boobs) flirts with him and they were playing truth or dare and he had to reach down her bra and get a coin and also he had to kiss her. he has a horrible past. he tried pot and also at this birthday party he had to feel her up. The same girl. Now I'm confused because I've given him like a billion chances and he's blown all of them. I don't know if I should give him one last chance(which was actually the last time he screwed up) or forget about him? I'm like still in love but confused and just trying to get over him. But he says he can change and our last day of school is on Wednesday and I don't think he can. What should I do? (link)
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get his number and screen name or something or give him your number and if he actually calls, hes interested
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i am so sick of everyboy, im a sophmore and im friends with basically everyone in every grade. now guys are talkin about how cute or how awsome my body is and i hate it, now girls are callin me a whore cuz guys like me or whatever what do i do (link)
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well do u dress like a whore? maybe talk to the guys that say it and tell them your not gettin a good rep because of their actions and they cant do it anymore and tell the girls stop bein so jealous because u havent gotten with them haha goodluckk babe
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Ok well when I started going out with my boyfriend (about 2 months ago), my mom told me that she didn't want me kissing him, but only hugging him and holding hands. She said that she didn't think that I was old enough to be in the type of relationship in which you kissed in. Well, I felt I was ready, and so when my boyfriend asked me on IM if he could kiss me the next day, I said it would be okay. Well, he kissed me (it was like a one second kiss on the lips), and I have kissed him about 7 or 8 times since then everyday at the end of school. I don't know what to tell my mom, because she will probably eventually find out about it. If I tell her, however, I'm afraid that she won't let me go to the movies, dances, etc. with him, because she won't trust us together. It just doesn't feel right not telling her. So what should I do?
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if she finds out then make sure you tell her its just pecks and your not going to makeout with him yet and make sure she knows your feelings for him are big and hes very nice, maybe have him over and introduc them
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i have this problem...and i have no idea what to do i've tried talking to a friend but that didnt help it just made it worse. well over the past week my and my b/f broke up . we have been going out for 4 months, but he never really seemed to care. so i've talked to my best friend about it ..but then out of no were he tells me he loves me. hes really nice and cute ..but i just dont know what to do . i think i may be in love with him... but the problem is...i really want to tell people i like him but im afrid that the'll make fun of me cuz most ppl think hes gay and i sware hes not. he so nice to me and i dont want to hurt him ...he always makes me feel better all the time...hes my bestfriend..but yet..i still seem to not get over my old b/f..i really need help!!! (link)
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dont be ashamed, all that matter is how YOU feel, who cares about everyone else.. and if he says he loves you and your positive you love him back and mean it, go for it babe.. if you still have feelings for your ex see what he has to say! but if he doesnt give an effort to help u guys again, you can so do better.. goodluck xo
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how do you get over a broken heart? (link)
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hey hun, you just need to pick the bad things about the person who broke your heart and see the good in other guys and how much better they might be , or girls if your a guy!.. hope i helped
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what are some ways to show your significant other that you really care about them thats not sexual or extreme? (link)
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um your flirt? or you could tell them the little thing you like about them =) goodluck
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