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15/f .. boyfriend problems
Sorry this is long. This guy Mike and I have been going out for 3 months and I feel like it might be time to end it. He won't go any farther with me since he really respects me, but I've told him to and had my guy friends talk to him about it. (We've been to first and some of 2nd .. but never under the shirt) It's making me feel like there's something wrong with me. Yesterday he said "I love you" to me which he's only said online before. He's starting to be the more romantic person in our relationship and I'm the one that wants something physical lol. There's also the problem of how often I see him. He's at his dads a lot during the week & has to go down the shore with his mom during the weekends sometimes. I really do like him, don't get me wrong & I feel horrible because I want to end it with him. I know that if I do end it, I'll want to get back with him. What should I do? - Thanks
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If you know that you will want to get back together with him, then why end it to begin with? Stay with him and work things out. I know not seeing him may be an issue, but things can still work. School is coming up, so there will be plenty of time to see him then. My best friend has been dating her current boyfriend for almost a year, and she only gets to see him once every two weeks! You need to keep in mind that you've only been dating for three months. Maybe he is shy, or he's not ready to go any further then second base. Talk to him about it and be up front. Maybe he is just afraid that you don't want to. If he isn't ready, don't push him into doing anything he doesn't want to do. But breaking up with someone for the simple reason that they won't be sexual, is just stupid.
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i am kinda in the same situation that you are in my advice to us is dont end something you want.
its like wanting to give a way your first Shirt and not knowing if you will ever get it back again. you get me?
talk to him about it more. wait it out.
it is like that now wit me and my bf i want all the physical and he doesnt as much and i have been with him for a year so yea. i understand where you are coming from but think about him..
he knows there are pervs out there that want to sex a girl and leave her. he just doesnt want to be like that, he loves you and doesnt want to hurt you..
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it can be that he hasnt done it be4 and is nerves about it which can cause him not to want to do it.
♥ Steph
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If you know that you'll just want to be with him again after you end it, don't do it. As for the physical things, hold onto this kid. If he's telling you he loves you and not demanding a lot of fooling around, that's like a one in a million guy. His feelings are probably totally deep and not at all altered by physical actions. And he might just not be ready to go far physically. Let him take his time. Besides, only being together three months and wanting to get more physical is moving a little too fast if you ask me. But that's just my opinion. Hope I helped.
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talk to him about it if u think you really want to start doing physical things. be like i think its time we start moving on to doing things because i really like u and i feel right doing them with u. hes probably just nervous. hope i helpedd
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