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There is this boy that I like and I don't know if he likes me... He used to live across the street from me for like a year, and we used to play outside a lot but, then he moved and we talk on the computer and we talk on our cell phones a lot. And he had a girlfriend, but then my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her. But then when I was talking to him on the computer, he said "so your going out wit 'blah' and then he said wrong IM, so I'm just wondering if he likes me or not?

my point of view.
i would say that he likes you.
i mean your friend tells him you like him.
and then the next day he breaks up with her.
yeah i think he does.
alls you gotta do is next time your on the phone with him ask him. or talk to him online about it what ever you feel more comphertable doing.

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do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

guys jsut dont think highly of a girl because of her wieght. guys dont look for that. ususally they look for adventure. a sense of humor. what there personailty is like. practically anything. but not really wieght.

hope i helped

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hey. okay me and my bf have been going out 4 a pretty long time but we just argue like 24-7. and i like him a lot but sometimes i think he likes my BEST friend! and he tells me he doesnt but me and her hang out almost everyday and all she does is talk about him and stuff. idk what 2 do, should i break up with him?

i dont think you should break up with him id you like him a lott like you say you do.. talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you feel like he doesnt liek you and he lies your best freind

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A few days ago, I invented a fake person online who has been talking to this guy I like. this guy and i have been friends for 3 years and have recently admitted we like each other, but he's usually not very vocal about his feelings and i thought i could get things out of him with this girl. "the girl" tells him things about "her guy" and they give each other advice. anyway, he just told "this girl" that he is no longer interested in me, he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore and doesn't see me as anymore than a good friend. He said I wasn't "too bad looking" but not his type of person.
Well the thing is, I told him a few weeks ago I wanted to wait till school was over ( a few months) till we went out, because i'm in year 12 and this year is very important. he was cool with waiting. But last week we made out for like 3 hours and my feelings for him grew more intense and a few days ago i told him i'd go out with him which he was really happy about. He was planning to ask me out in person. I haven't seen him at school since then (He's had exams) but now I found this out. I'm in tears because I thought he really liked me and we'd get together. Then this happens.

i know it was wrong to create this girl to get things out of him, especially because I don't like what I found out. I just don't know what to do now. I don't know whether I should admit to inventing the girl online, so I can ask him about what he told "her" There's a chance he might not have meant it.. but I don't know. I don't know what's happened in the last few days thats changed his feelings.
what should I do? Sorry this is so long. Thanks for your time.

well i think that you should tell him about the "girl" and ask him if what he sad to her was true. he led you on and then he told her he didnt liek you so i would ask him for the truth.
hope i helped=]

xOxkris

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Hey. Well yeah, theres this boy and I liked him for a very, very long time now. He finally broke up with his girl friend, but he still doesn't like me. Every time one of my friends ask he says I don't know. Just today one of my ex boyfriends, my first love, told me that he liked me again. We were talking for a while. I don't know what to do. When he told me he liked me I had butterflys and felt like we were starting over again. I don't know if I should wait longer, because I already waited about 3 months for this first boy, or if I should go back out with my first love. Please help.

well if you think the boy you have been waiting for for 3months is gonna give you a chance go for him. but i would move on if you dont think he will give you a chance. give your first love a chance again..if it doesnt work out or oyu think you still like the other boy break up with him and just tell him that everything is different now hope i helped.

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I work with this really great girl that I didn't initially have feelings for, but as I've come to know her, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not good at picking up girl's signals, but it looks to me like she flirts with me a lot. Laughs at my jokes, smiles a lot, I'll catch her staring every now and again, but I've misread these signals before.
Plus she's got this boyfriend who's kind of clingy, emotional, neurotic and all this. They've been going out for awhile and live together, but they won't anymore starting this fall. He'll be in another city and she has said that they don't have near the chemistry they did earlier(I guess that can be said for everyone though) and that she hadn't broken up with him yet because of the way he might take it.
So I guess the question's pretty obvious. Do I take the chance and tell her that I truly care about her and potentially ruin the friendship, which is very strong? Or do I say nothing now, take no chances, and wait until the fall when they're not living together? Or just quit being a dumbass about it and move on, which is probably what will end up happening in the end anyway? Thank you for your time.

i think you shouldnt get involved yet because you dont want to ruiny our friendship with her i think that you should wait until the fall and then tell her how you truly feel about her.

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what are the wyas you could pick a wegie without going down to your butt and pickin 'em? and like what would you do infront of your crush if you had one?

id say say you have to liek go to the bathroom and then pick it while your in there or somehting

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alrighty here is my story...

theres this guy i like at school-he likes me back and has asked me to go out to see a movie friday night(and my friend wants to talk to him about asking me to my our 8th grade dance)--i hear though, that he is dating a freshman+hes got "in a relationship" on his myspace...what do i do..i really really like this guy?!?!?!

-doctorkay-

well have your friend talk to him about asking you to the dance then go with him and then ask him after about having a relationship with someone else or if he likes you...

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ok all i've asked a q b4 (have a look to see the background to theis q) i have a new b/f- yay go me! but we've only been together a month, i realy like him and i think he likes me back. i'm still scared of commitment and i still get scared when he touches me. and i pull away every time he makes a move. he thinks i don't like him back. how do i tell him bout my rape and what i feel like without making him run away?

well just tell him all about it if he really likes you he will lay off and understand your problem and why your soo scared.

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My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck.

yess i think that you should talk to him about it tell him everything you really feel about him.... tell him that you can jsut be his friend becaue wehn you look at him alls you wanna do is be with him hope i helped!!

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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..

telll him how you feel. tell him that you know that you made the biggest mistake and you know he prolly wont tak you back but just ask him. tell him that you hate how you were best freinds and now you guys dont even look at each other tell him you miss everything that you ever hada dn that you sorry for everything. i hope i helpedddd

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Well, i told the guy that i like, well, for you readers out there, that have allready read the others, then you will probably get this more!
Well, i told him that i loved him, because we have become pretty close and i have known him for like 12 years, but we have been talking so ya!
The thing is that i was trying to get him to stay, because he was moving today, so i left a message last night telling him, and then told him today, but he didnt get the message, so by the time that i had told him, he had allready been off, but he did say "you to," well, at least i think that he was replying to me on that, because after i told him, we started on another subject, then out of the blue, he said you to, so ya!

Hev
PS: I miss him allready and it has onle been like 24 hors, wow!

well idk this really isnt a question but im sorry. call him talk to him more tell him everyhting how you feel hope i helped youuu

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well everytime i get a haircut and i get it blow dried it's always sooo pretty and soft and shiny!!! how do they do that??? cause everytime i do it it is shiny and soft and pretty but i know it could be better than that so how can i do that??? i have special shampoo and conditinor but that dosnt work that good though..
what should i do??

ask the people who gave you the haircut how they made it so shiny and soft

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i want 2 go 2 the farewell dance with this guy but how do i make him notice me?

well talk to him make him see that your available and want him to notice you tell him how you feel about him!

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