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advice

Hey
My boy friend moved out of my school district.
I don`t know what to do because i don`t see him anymore.
But i still love him very much.
I miss him but i can`t see him because i can`t ride my bike to his house and it really sucks!
please tell me what to do.

Shannie

Aww hun im sorry..cant you see him on weekends? or like have your parents drive you to his house or vice versa! try talking online or talking on the phone a lot..i know long distance relationships are really hard..but im sure you guys can get thru it!

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ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!!

Aww hun..dont worry about it!! i mean some girls dont get their first kiss until they are 16! Im sure you are gorgeous..and you just have to be confident in yourself..i mean guys think confidence is super sexy..and if you walk around with your head held high..smiling..and just being your beautiful self..it will catch a guys attention!

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Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?

if you have not witnessed a situation like this..just let him pour his heart out to you and just try your best to answer his questions and listen to what he is saying. He just needs a friend to listen and talk to and a shoulder to cry on, and thats all you have to be

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can someone tell me why guys are so into boobs? i mean, i always hear boys saying"well i dumped her because she is soooooooooooo flat!" what do middle school kids need to be worrying about that stuff? and why do boys even need to worry about it?

because bois r shallow!! they think they will be cool or something if they go out with a girl with a huge pair of jugs!

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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

maybe you could just be like..ur a really great friend and i dont want to lose you like that..so thats why i dont like you more than a friend

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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help!

i think that you just expected ur guy friend to dwell on the fact that you said no..but instead he moved on very quickly..and no its not selfish! so its alright

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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!

u shouldnt care what other ppl think hun!!if you love ur bf and ur bf loves you..then you shouldnt worry about it! its nobody elses business ne ways!

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I like this boy.And he likes me to.we talk and flirt.I only see him like 4 times a week.but anyway when i dont see him it drive me crazy and all i think about it him. i dont got his number so i cant call him..buh what i wanna know it how can this stop driving me crazy. when i dont see him? What should i do?

im not sure if there is something that you can do..because u obviously like him a lot!! but maybe you could just try to stop spending as much time with him!

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ok this mite seem complicating. I always hang out wit my older sis and her friend. Well theres this boy that my sisters friend knos n theyve known eachother for awhile. Well i like boy now and ma sis and her friend always try to ignore him wen he wants to hang out i wanna hang out wit him b/c i like him and they dont kno that.What should i do!? and how can i figure out if the guy likes me or not w.o askin him? he always looks at me n smiles n stuff but i dunno if hes jus b friendly or if he likes me?..xo`help!

just ask him! or have ur sis or ur sis's friend ask him!! but to let you know..ppl can smile at each other and be friendly..but then again..they could be flirtatious too!! =)

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ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx

well i think you should atleast give him a chance cuz everyone deserves a chance! *hope i helped*

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My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.

Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?

**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!**

aww im sry! i no its gonna b really hard and it isnt gonna b the same but you guys can write..call..and talk on the internet and if u r really in love u will find a way to make it work!*hope i helped*

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ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do??????

this may sound stupid but try practicing in the mirrior! try thinking of..suave..things to say that wont make the girls thik that ur a jerk! *hope i helped*

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ok theres this guy that i think that likes me alot... i think hez really sweet and id go out with him sept... my friends all think hes really ugly and theyd probally think if i went out with him that im just desperate!! n im not!! well my best friends in his class and told him that i thought he wuz really ugly and then my other friend that wuz in the same class i wuz walking home with her one day and she said that i tured him gay!! lol. i kno i didnt. lol. hez not gay but i dk wut to do leave him alone be his friend wut? i dk!! n im not gunna just go out with him u kno wut i mean!! lol. peace out!!

dont listen to anybody but urself..those gurls r just jealous that u have a guy that is sweet and cute!! listen to wut ur brain and heart says..not ur friends! *hope i helped*

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i dated this guy last year and i didnt realize how much i cared about him untill we broke up...he cheated on me tho but i still love him and care about him a year later..and we talk but its like once a month because he has a girlfriend now and i dont know if i should try to move on even tho i dont want to or if i should try talking to him about it which ive been trying to do but he wont do anything behind his gfs back or even see any girl with out her being there...idk what to do i still care bout him so much and i want to tell him in person but i cant get him to meet me for like 20 min with out his girl friend there

call him up! his gf cant b on the fone with u and him..that would b just weird! lol but ne ways call him up and tell him that ur feelings just havent gone away..or if u dont want to do that..maybe u might have to try to move on..even tho it is hard..*hope i helped*

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How do i know if a guy likes me?? i dont like asking guys if they like me because i think that is rude, but if i do ask them and they say no then it is embarrassing. So how do u find out if a guy likes me, without asking them??

just like their body language..if they always look at you..are touchy feely..if they like to spend a lotta time with u..if they talk about u a lot..there are tons of ways! *hope i helped*

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Ok, I like this guy. He is a very good friend of mine, and i trust him with anythin. well, He likes me too, and he admits it. if wea chillen togetha hell gimme a kiss.. or he'll hold my hand or hug me, He does it infront of our friends too. but idk wut we are to eachotha. we dont have the title of b/f and g/f but id liek to be more than jsut friends, even tho he is 3 years older than me, it doesnt bother me. ive known him for some time now and i have feelings for him liek ive neva had for anyone before. what do i do?

i think that you should talk to him about it..beacuse you both seem kinda clueless on wut u r together..you guys sound like you are bf and gf! even tho u guys may have not of made it official yet! *hope i helped*

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one time my cousin and i went to the beach in florida, and we stayed in the condo. next to ours, there were two guys. so one day they walked up to us and just asked our names. and then they walked away and started laughing. and everytime we walked by their condo they like yelled at us and invited us to their pool and stuff. is that flirting or are they making fun of us???

flirting! even tho they laughed after they heard ur names i bet they were still flirting! *hope i helped*

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how do u no if a guy really likes u?

they flirt with you..and they are always around..and idk there are just little things that guys do that make you feel special and show that they like u *hope i helped*

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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex?

to me yea but tahts just me! lol *hope i helped*

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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM!

tell you dad that! be like..dad so and so (his name) is a really great guy! and if you could just listen to him you would realize that! and i wouldnt be going out with him if he wasnt a really great guy! and you said you wanted to see me happy..well i AM happy! so you should be happy for me too *hope i helped*

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