[Name * Kayla]
[Age * 12 Almost 13]
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okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
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Well if he does this stuff with you and he has a girlfriend what happens when you guys go out and he does it with another girl? I would tell him how you feel and if he really likes you the way he says he does he would go out with you. Hope I helped a bit!
-Kayla
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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You should probably tell him to call you. If he loves you he'll understand.
-Kayla
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help (link)
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Kiss her! Maybe shes too shy to kiss you, if she likes it you guys can do it more. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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Whenever i meet a new guy we always end up being pretty good friends. we get close and i feel so comfortable around them. this constantly happens and i can never get a boyfriend. what should i do? (link)
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Just tell them how you feel.
-Kayla
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i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
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I think you should tell him to dump his girlfriend if he really liked you. But then again if he cheated on his girlfriend who says he wouldn't cheat on you? Hope I helped.
-Kayla
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it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me.. (link)
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You should probably be outgoing, but not to open and scare boys off. You should also try talking to more boys and even flirt a little. I hope I helped!
-Kayla
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how do you rate other peoples columns? if you tell me and i understand it i will rate....5's!! xox Emily
((i just picked a random catergory)) (link)
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When you get an answer back from someone there will be numbers 1-5. You click one of those numbers depending on how good there answer was, 1 being the worst, 5 being the best. You can also write things like "Thanks for the advice" and such. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old? (link)
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Well if you truly love him no. But then again, hes 4 years younger and not as mature.
-Kayla
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My boyfriend acts like he*s two different people, When we're on the phone, he's funny and happy and lovable, then when we see each other he's moody and we get into arguements! I don't know whats wrong with him, he just acts so weird! Can you help me?? I'd really appreciate it! Thx! x0 (link)
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You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. He'll understand, if not, you weren't meant to be.
-Kayla
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I have crush on this fine guy...lol...and he never seems t really notice me...and we used 2 be friends in 6th grade...so he knows me, but we havnt talked for 2 years and i feel sad...What should i do? (link)
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You should probably start up a conversation with him. Become friends again and then tell him how you feel.
-Kayla
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i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.
*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
*so confused (link)
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You should tell your friend how you feel, if shes a good friend she'll understand and most likely tell your crush good things about you.
-Kayla
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its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?
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Yes, I've felt the same way, its probably something that happens naturally. Just talk to him about it, tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same.
-Kayla
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so i had sex with my boyfriend and stuff .. anyways .. a day or two after we did ithe got really sick .. and then he got rushed into the ER .. they said it was either std .. or UTI .. and i was the first person hed done it with .. and .. but i'm checked.. then he told me that like .. he could've gotten it from like .. lumberjack days .. idk something with a dumpster .. he didn't exactly tell me the whole story.. but ..the doctor said that it was probably something to do with the dumpster .. because of all the germs and stuff .. but now, he doesn't wanna hang out with me. He says he still loves me and likes me and stuff .. but he's not gunna do anything with me anymore. He thinks i'm diseased .. what should i do!? (link)
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Your boyfriend is probably nerveous about the whole situation but if he doesn't want to do anything with you and thinks your diseased you should dump him. If he truly loved you he wouldn't be afraid to do stuff with you and would care more about you. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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If I were you I wouldn't do anything with him. If he only like you for that I'd dump him and move on, hope I helped!
-Kayla
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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You should talk to your dad and tell him you really like this kid and would like it if he stopped saying stuff about him.
-Kayla
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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It depends, if your ready and have find the right person it shouldn't be but you always have that chance of becoming pregnant at a young age so you may want to wait.
-Kayla
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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I think you should wait until you've found the right guy and are ready to do things like that. Don't be afraid though, the right guy should like you for who you are.
-Kayla
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Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable?? (link)
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You should just be yourself. If he likes you for your bra size don't even waste your time, find someone else. If he only likes you for your bra size hes a jerk, he should like you for your personality only. As for the bra thing, you should just try extra padded bras or something like that. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
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You should just tell him you don't have feelings for him and would like it if he just left you to your own buisness, he should understand.
-Kayla
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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You have to accept the fact that thats how she wants to be. But if you feel this is hurting her you should show her how bad it is to smoke and to be doing those things and what can happen if she continues to do it. Hopefully she will listen to you and stop what shes doing before she gets hurt.
-Kayla
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