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HeY!!! I'm KaLi AnD i LoVe HeLpInG pPl b/c ThAt'S wHaT uS gOoD pPl Do!!! :P LoL, nE wAyS i'Ll HeLp YoU wItH yOuR pRoBlEmS aNd GiVe YoU tHe BeSt AdViCe I cAn GiVe So DoN't Be ShY!!! ~*~KaLi~*~

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Okay well my ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. Then he dumped me on our 9th month annerversary. I was so depressed. And to top it all off thats the day i sent out invitations to my 13th birthday party and he was invited. But anyways. I was so upset he dumped me cuz he liked another girl. I mean he never has had a chance to go out with her so far but its close. I still really like him, but im not sure if i should tell him or not bcuz he likes this other grl that he dumped me for...((which she has a boyfriend)) he tells me this grl likes him too though. Can u do that? Like someone else when ur already going out with someone? But i guess wut im trying to ask is... should i tell him i like him? cuz if he doesnt like me wouldnt he tell all his lil friends?? idk wut to do plz help me!!!

Hey!!! Ok, it sounds to me that he's not really good enough for you. I can tell you really cared about him and ya'll had a great thing. Maybe you just need to move on and find someone else. He's probably just making stuff up about this girl to make you jealous. I don't think that if she is still with her b/f then i don't think she really even likes him. I know that wasn't the best advice, but I tried... I hope I helped and everything works out for you!!! ~*~KaLi~*~

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Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??

Hey, I'm srry, but you may not like what I tell you very much. If you love both of them then you wouldn't want them to be hurt, right? If one of them finds out about the other then it'll be over with you and him (maybe even with both of them). So I have to say that you need to pick out of the guys who's better for you and then let the other one go so he can find a girl that will love him just like you loved him. I know you might not of liked my advice very much, but I did my best to try to help you. I hope everything works out. ~*~KaLi~*~

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I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you..

Hey, if you really like him and if he makes you happy then you shouldn't listen to what other people say, but if he's been a player in the past then you need to be careful. Also if you're friends are telling you this stuff, too, then you need to sit down and talk to them because they may have important things to tell you that may give you second thoughts. I hope whatever happens you're happy with and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed

Hey, if you know that you like him and want to be more than just friends tell him. Or if you're kind of shy like me then you can tell your friend to tell him for you. If you never say anything then you'll never know how he feels about you. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/***

Hey, she's still your friend and I think you care about her so just treat her the same. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??

From,
.*.BeSs.*.

Hey, if you really like him then you need to straight out tell him because it does sound like he's flirting w/ you and if you don't you'll never know how he feels about you. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
PLZ help

Hey, you should think hard about which one you'd have the most fun with and who has the best personality to match. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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so I went out witha guy who was too protective and , I broke up with him and went out with my bestfriends xboyfriend and when my x found out he gave my new boyfriend huge welps on his legs and back.....!!!!!!!!!! And he went to the docter . And my best friends made at me now and she's going out with my x , what should I do???? and soory so long

Hey, you're really in a tough situation. You need to talk to your ex and stick by your new boyfriend. You also need to talk to your best friend about what's going on. Just hang on and I'm sure things will get better. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~

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