Hey guys my name is Jessica...I live in the beautiful state of South Carolina. Im 15 years old and i have a pretty normal life/good life. I have great friends (sometimes) and a great family. I've been a cheerleader since i was 3 years old. And im not one of those snotty stuck up cheerleaders like some are around here. Im a nice and caring person. I love to meet new people and help them with their problems. I may not know exactly what you need to know but i can try my best to help. Im a really fun and outgoing person. I like to speak my mind and im a very open minded honest person. You can ask me anything.
xoxoJessxoxo
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Age: 15
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I am a teenage girl with a boyfriend. What do I do if I see him with another girl? (link)
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If something like this happens then confront him about it and see what he says. Dont hold anything back let him know exactly how you feel.
Hope i helped!!
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!! (link)
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well you dont need to keep your feelings in. If i was you i would just tell him how i felt...if he still loves you then it will all work out. if yall dont work out then it just wasnt meant to be but either way it will all work out. I know how this is believe me i was in this situation a few months back...its tough but you got to be straight up and honest with him about how you feel. hope i helped!!
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okay i liked this guy now for about 2 months and he has liked me, we would talk on the phone every night and he would always tell me he loved me, but he would never ask me out and i dont get why. anyways just the other day he started bein a dick to me, not answering my phone calls, saying he'll call me back and never does. i just dont know what to do, im soo heartbroken it aint even funny i even thought about killing myself. i rate high (link)
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i think you should first calm down and stop thinking those crazy thoughts. And second i think if he is being that big of a dick then you should chill out for alittle while and he really likes you/loves you then he'll come crawling back to you in no time. hope this helps!!!
>3
*~*Jessica*~*
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At school I have liked many girls and everyone shoots me down. Mostof them tell me that I could be cool enough to go out with them if I didn't hang around with the nerds. I am not a nerd but I hang out with them because they're nicer than the popular people I could hang out with. Every time I tell A girl that they still shoot me down. What should I do? (link)
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i think that u shouldnt change for anybody. Its your choice of who u shoud hang out with but just think about it before you do it. These girls are probably not even good enough for you. but in a few years they should change and get out of that snobby stage in life. You should try to find a girl that likes you for you and not about who you hang out with. hope i helped!!
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Do you think it's necessary to know your partners past sexual experience? Would you want to know? Would it bother you? I learned from personal exp. never to ask, yet I found out how much experience my girlfriend has had accidently and when I confronted her about it she didn't deny it. Something changed with me when she admitted it. I feel really insecure about it now. I hate finding out. What would you do?? (link)
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i think that you should know your girlfriends past...but remember that this is her past and that shes with you now. The past dont matter now. Just tell her how you feel but talk to her calmly and dont yell or nothing like that and keep in mind it is her past. hope i helped!!
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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap
any suggestions on what i should do?
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Dont listen to people at your school because its none of their business but maybe you should talk to your mom and sit her down and explain how you feel about this guy. Maybe it would be a good idea for you,this guy and your mom to watch a movie together or have dinner or something so they can talk alittle bit. hope i helped!!
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hi...im 16/f
here's my problem...im dating this guy named john and hes very nice, caring, sweet...i like him very much but the only problem is that his 7 years older than me...hes 23 yrs old,is it ok if hes older than me? (link)
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Honestly i dont think its that big of a deal. It is illegal but if you're comfortable with him and you know he really cares about you then its fine. When i was only 13 years old i dated a guy that was about to be 19. Just make sure hes in it for you and not to use you. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Ok, so me and this guy were going out, and I mean everything seemed pretty good. We both loved each other, or at least I thought he loved me. But then we broke up, because he said that it felt weird, and that our love felt like we shouldnt be together now, but in the future. And he told me that he was raelly messed up in the head about this whole thing, as was I. So we broke up, and we hadnt talked for a few days, then I find out he already has a g/f and he's already had relationships with her before. So, I've been having a difficlut time letting go of him, because I really do love him, and I want him. But EVERYTHING, and I mean everything reminds me of him. And so its sorta difficult to let go, when everything reminds me of him. So what do you guys think I should do? Because right now, I am real confused about if I should let go, or just wait for him? And what are some good ways to let go of him? Like how am I supposed to do it, cus I've tried alot of ways, maybe I'm trying to let go to fast...Thanks for any help, I'll rate 5's for all answers.
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Aw. I've had this happen to me before a few times. Actually im going through that right now. I went with this guy for a few months and we broke up and we went to the same school and everything and everything was good i had finally left my ex boyfriend alone and when we broke up he went with this girl from school and come to find out he had been over her house a few times before. It still hurts and probably always will so what you should do is try to move on. You need to let him be happy but in the process you need to be happy to. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Hi, you might have seen my post before about how I didnt know how to tell my boyfriend that I dont like it when he flirts with other girls and hugs them. I told him last night online how i felt and hes like oh ok im sorry and i wont do it again. and hes like oh well its a good thing that you get jealous because then that means you love me. so today when he came in the class room to drop his bag off, he went out of the class, i kind of followed him and he was talking to someone and then when the bell rang he hugged her! and then i hear this morning that he was flirting with my good friend. I already told him how i felt. how do i tell him again without trying to sound like a freak like he cant do anything? Thanks! (link)
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You should sit down and think about this. Is this guy really worth your time? Think about it. Try to tell him again tell him it really hurts you when he does you like this and see if it helps any. And maybe give it a few days if it doesnt change then you should really consider moving on. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
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this is probably his way of flirting with you. Guys are usually mean to the girls they like.Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Okay, so I have a boyfriend. And I love him so much nobody would ever understand. Everything reminds me of him and he's always on my mind. Today he confessed that I'm all he ever thinks about no matter what he's doing. That means that he thinks about me a lot because he's always playing football or basketball or soccer or working out. My friends say I'm obbsessed, but I just can't help it. Is there anything I can do that will take my mind off of him or at least tone down my thoughts about him a bit?
Thanks so much! (link)
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No not really theres nothing you can really do. Thats how you feel and its hard to change that. Believe me i feel the same way about my b/f now and ive tried to change that but i cant. Me and my bf broke up a few times and i still couldnt change that and we're finally back together and he tells me he feels the same about me and its the best feeling in the world. Good luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
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Yea this is completely normal. I felt the same way you;re feeling a few months ago. Me and my bf broke up and he got a new gf and we was still friends but i had also moved on and really liked my new bf. Well when i found out they was together i compared myself up to her. That was a mistake that i made. Dont compare yourself to her.And this feeling you're having isnt that you still want him but you dont want him with anybody else because he was yours before he was hers. Every girl goes through this atleast once. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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OK so my best guy friend, well all my girl friends say that he likes me, and they say I like him too, which is true. But im way too scared to tell him(for reasons .. i just cant) and i wish he would just tell me ! what should i dooo?
PS-im going with him to a semi formal dance this saturday. (link)
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I understand why you're scared to tell him...i would be too because theres a possibility of rejection. Just hint around to it and if he doesnt catch on then ask him what he thinks of you to see what he says. And if he comes out and says he likes u then tell him you've liked him for______ (however long you've liked him). Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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I'm a guy and 16 years old. I was just wondering if going anywhere or doing anything is ok for a first date (my first ever). It'll be this friday. I was thinking about a movie and then some dinner. Would that be ok? I'm pretty comfortable around her, but I'm not too sure if this would be better for later dates as opposed to the first one. Any other ideas or suggestions, things to remember? Are there any guidelines or rules that I should follow as the guy? It is true - guys are much more nervous than girls when it comes to this. Thanks in advance; will rate (link)
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I think that at movie may be a bad idea. If this is you're first date and everything i would want to get to know the other better. Me and my b/f has been together over two years and our first date we went ridin around so we could talk and get to know eachother and it turned out great. You seem like a sweet guy so do what you want but i think that a movie wouldnt be that great at this point because theres not really any talking going on in the movie. If u decide to take her to a movie take her to one that you both feel comfortable in and let her have alittle say in the choice to so you know what she would like. If you take her out to eat dont take her somewhere to fancy because that may make her feel uncomfortable,take her somewhere casual. Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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