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Okay. Me and my best friend(male) have been best friends for two years. I've liked him on and off for the past two years as well. He's a very wonderful person and eveytime I tell him how I really feel about him, he tells me the same old story until recently he said I got him thinkin. But the problem is is that I hooked him up with my friend, I have a BIG JEALOUSY issue. And I hate to be around them when their together and everything because I would give the world to be with him and he knows it... but also, there's this other guy I like, but he's really really shy and he knows I like him but it seems like he dosen't have anything to say when I talk to him, but he likes me too, but now I am kinda trapped between the both of them. What should I do to get to my crush???? (link)
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HEY!!
well you kno what that shy guy might be extreamly scard and not know what to say you should bring up things like how you hate/like school... forget about the other guy i mean if he is goin out with your friend and then dumps her and gose to you it seems like your kinda a fall back gurl.. hope i helped
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I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know? (link)
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HEY!
well its hard to say but you know your young and theres probley someone else out there for you not to be rude!! but you never really kno he could be!!!
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im 15. in year 11. there's this boy. i REALLY like him, but i don't think he even knows i exist. whenever im around him i can't even speak to him, i juts get all embarrassed. i really want him to at least acknowledge my existance, but i don't know how! like i said, i can't even speak in front of him! any advice? i really need help! (link)
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HEY!!
well that happens to the best of us!!! i hate talkin to guys b.c im afraid i will say the wrong thing... but what i do is when im walking down the hall and i see him i either wave or say hi or maybe just a nice smile!! or if i see some one talking to him that i know, i go over there and stand with them and maybe sometimes add to the convostaion like a "i Know" or "thats soo funny " you should try it!.. you can get over being shy just be creative!!!!! hope i helped
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What is the right way to tell someone that you dont like them? (link)
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you could say your not the right person for me.... you could say hey, your a great friend and i dont want to ruin that!!.... Just try dont to be rude thats the worst!!
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okay this is my first year at a public school and sence the first day i have noticed there is this really pretty guy there that i have been wanting to talk to but never have come to find out hes one of my friends cousins and they came over to my friends house last weekend and me and him got to meet we all just hung out for a while the next day him and his friends came back over to my friends house again and me and him were cudaling and stuff later that nite we made out from what i have heard from about 2 people he has a girlfriend but he hasn't said anything to me about it yet so i really dont know what to do because he told me i should go to my friends house this friday so me and him can hang out i mean i really like this guy so should i just stop flirting w/ him sence people have told me they "THINK" he has a girlfriend or what please help i rate well! (link)
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hmm well you dont know for sure you should just ask him if he has a gurl friend.. and if you dont want to ask him just keep likeing him until you hear it from him or you see her!!! hope i helped
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well theres this boy i liked scence last year and i told him straight up and know hes been flirting and punching me in my arm like i use to did when i liked him hes probbly returning the favor but i catch him looking juss staring at me and he always says somthing to me like last year he was all flirting with me and he was like he gonna miss me and he wanted a hug and a pic of me but i was mad at him b/c he waisted my last picture on the floor and i wanted a pic of me and him only :) so i juss gave him a hug before we left for summer then i was mad b/c i didnt give him a real hug and i didnt see em on the last day :(( does he like me or what (link)
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well its really hard to tell if a guy likes you there imposible.. he shouldent be mad that probley his way of flirting to....
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theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
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HEY!!!
LOL read all of these other peoples anwsers lol they are sayin " Go up to him and tell him you like him still " well in case they dident kno its really hard to just walk up to some one and start a convostation!! so what you need to do is to sit by him on the bus and say like " long time no talk " or make something up like "omg ___________" ya kno??
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked even if you dident like my advice out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____
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ok i like this boy adam, and i think he likes me too but im not sure. i ask him who he likes and he won't tell me. but its a sticky situation because one of my best friends likes him too, thats how i got to know adam. she wanted me to hook them up, and then i fell for him. i cant tell her i like him because i dont want to hurt her. she wont get mad, shes not like that, but she wll be hurt. so my question is, how do i find out if he likes me, and should i tell my friend or should i just move on from him? (link)
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HEY!!!
Well if your worried about your friend being mad just do this ...! TELL HER TO TELL YOU WHO SHE LIKES AND THAT YOU WILL TELL HER AND IF SHE SAYS THE GUY YOU LIKE THEN JUST SAY SOMEONE ELSE BUT IF SHE SAYS ANOTHER GUY TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE THIS GUY...! but dont ask the guy first b.c he might like you and if he dose and you kno your friend likes him he might ask you out and that would be kinda difficult b.c you would be between them... okay!!!!!!
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____
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Ok hi well there r these 4 guys i really like and all of them like me back i just dont know which one i shud choose. The first guy lets say his name is ray, i met over the summer and we really clicked. WE both really really like eachother but he lives 4 hours away. The second guy, well say his name is sam, lives ten minutes away and is really hot and would do nething for me and loves me so much but he sleeps around so i dunno how long it wud last. The 3rd guy i really like and he likes me back and we r really close friends but he wont make a move! The forth guy just moved here and lives three houses down from me and is now goin out w/ my friend cuz my other friends pressured him into it but he dusnt even like her he likes me and i like him back. I really wanna choose one of them but i cant decide so please help me!!!!!! (link)
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HEY!!!
wow for guys whooo hoo lol ne ways lets see
the frist guy lives to far away so dont got out with him its no use
the second guy sounds like a playa and ya kno all he probley wants is your body hun so dont go out with him
The third guy sounds extreamly nice b.c he wont make a move and he sounds like he just wants to wait witch is VERY good in a guy
and the Forth guy cant stand up for him self by not saying he dosent want to got out with that other gurl...
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____
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theres this guy i like.. we tlk like were goin out like baby .. u kno? well he kinda has a rep like tha kinda guy that uses grls i guess? i kno he hasnt had a gf in alongggg time cuz he doesnt ask a grl unless he rele wants to b with em.. other than that he juss has hook ups.. he seid he was goin ask me out buh i dont kno what ot think.. will he play me or will he actually commit? .. i asked him if he juss wanted to come to have sex with me.. cuz i kno he trys to buhh i never do anything with him cuz i dont want him to see me as a ho cuz im not! and tha only way id do anything with him is if im his gf .. andd i told him that buh i guess now hes thinkin im not interested in him at all cuz of it.. i dunt know! (link)
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wow!! hehe well dont go out with him if hes easy like i told some one before * GUYS ARE JUST HORNEY* they dont really love you they love your body.. just think about it.. i dont like to see ppl get hurt but go out with him and if he dumps you for not doing "stuff" then you wont get a bad name like hoe or something OKAY!! just try it!**
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
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well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?! (link)
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WHOA... ONE THING TO REMEMBER...* most guess are horney hehe * dont got out with him just b.c you think he likes you but really he just wants your body and stuff so dont give in i kno its hard at least wait until you guys go out for awhile...
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
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Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots (link)
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1.My idea of being punk is.. well DONT DO IT im tellin ya its not a bad thing but dont change for him...
2. He probley dosent JUST go for punk gurls those are probley the only ones that like him also hehe but in sure if he likes you enough to go out with you he ask you out just be your self....
3. Try as hard as you want its probley not gonna hurt anything!!
Hope i helped!!!!!!
Jeska!!!
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Hey okay wow he deffinity sounds like he dosent kno what he wants, witch can hurt you... but not just you his ex. gurl friend 2 dont go back to him he just wants a fall back gurl let him fall on his ass then see what he dose.. hope i helped babe see ya lata!!
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On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :( (link)
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hey! okay i think you should just be up front and ask him.. also if hes only done it once you probley dont want to worry.. i mean stuff comes up he could of gotten grounded ya kno i hope i helped
JESKA*
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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv* (link)
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*** GUYS NEVER CHANGE *** well theres an understatement... ne ways dont go back to him it seems like you and him arnt really sure about what you want.. but im sure if he is the one that he will wait (to not have sex) if he is really nice other wise keep your opitions open you never kno who really likes you....
JeSSiiHaLL
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