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there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help! (link)
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Well, there's a very simple explanation for this. The 9th grader is a little too old for you at this point, that wouldn't turn out well. And it's painfully obvious to me, and I would think it would be to anybody, why your boyfriend is offended when his girlfriend tells him that she likes some other guy. You really just shouldn't tell your boyfriend that, and if it's true, then break up with him, that's just messed up. It would also make sense for your friends to take it weird, because it is. So, in answer, no this isn't normal. This is very abnormal. It's pretty twisted to do what you're doing.
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I've been dating this guy for 8 months and He's wonderful, the best thing that has ever happened to me. but i think he is having second thoughts, it really breaks my heart. i almost feel like theres competition. I need help getting over it, If things get worse i might not be able to handle it. I love him with all my heart, i almost feel like he wants to see other people. Any advice you can give would be very helpful.
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You just have to trust in your man. If he loves you, then he's not having second thoughts and he doesn't want to see other people. If he really loves you, then you don't have anything to worry about. Everybody has doubts, I'm sure he even has them, just hang in there and it'll all be ok.
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how do i get my man to have sex more then once in a day? (link)
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I really don't see any reason why you may be having trouble getting him to. If it's a physical limitation, as opposed to a lack of desire, then try viagra, it seems to be pretty popular for that sort of thing.
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Problem with answering "Why do you like me?";
I'm terrible with words. I must be terrible... I don't know how to put it into words that well.
I don't want to say something like
I like you because you're interesting... dot dot dot.
Then she'll be like only because of that? etc.
I really love my girlfriend but she keeps assuming that I'll go for another. She's like no other girl I've known, I highly doubt I would go for another.
Have any ideas that could help me think on how to word my response on that?
I think it wouldn't be a good idea to ask someone to type out.
And I know. If I was a good boyfriend I'd know how to answer this. I want my response to be perfect. Apparently I am not a good boyfriend or close to being perfect. (link)
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Man, I'm in the same boat as you, fortunately, I've discovered the secret to answering all the questions.
First off, clear and to the point, there's no 'perfect' or 'best' or most of the time even a 'right' answer(I'm sure if any women answer this, they'll contradict me, but just trust me). For some reason, about every girl you will ever be with will just have the most intense love for difficult, rhetorical questions. I've actually been asked "Would you still be with me if I had no arms."
The solution: Hope that your gf is smart enough to know her questions are trick questions, and know that you're a guy and you're gonna say something stupid occasionally(or not-so-occasionally). Also, for your answer, just be the sweet guy who can answer a question like that. Bring to mind every tiny thing you like about her. Her preferance for bright colors, the sparkles in her hair, the dorky things she does; the more specific and the more personal, the better. After you've spend sufficient time(no telling how long that is) telling her every little thing you love about her, she might be satisfied, she might be very happy, she might say "That's it?"
Sorry man, this is really a war that us men can't win. The ladies have us pinned in the corner with no way out.
Good luck.
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
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It could either be that they are avoiding the potential pain of looking at their ex, as has already been said, or it could be that they are just throwing around the word 'love.' Unfortunately, people don't seem to have much respect for the word anymore, just like they don't have respect for anything else.
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Okay, first of all, 18f. Second, some background - there's this guy who had been confusing me, teasing me, making fun of me, and being kind of a (good-natured) asshole to me for about two months. Somewhere along the way, I developed a crush on him...weird, I know. He's different, though. Guys aren't usually able to confuse me like he did. He's intelligent and interesting. That's like, exactly what I need in a guy.
Thing is, he kissed me the other day, and completely gave away the fact that he liked me the night before when we were hanging out...so I didn't exactly push him away.
So I like him, he likes me. That's a big problem for me. I got out of a fairly long term thing in like mid-October, and pretty much decided single was the way to go for me. I've always been kind of a loner and I've felt trapped in relationships before. I didn't like that feeling. I'm almost afraid to end up in anything complicated like a relationship with him 'cause - for one thing - I dont want to lose the friendship if it ends badly. I don't want to feel stuck, or tied down right now, at all. That's totally not what I need.
However, it's a mutual crush. I mean, what better grounds for a relationship?
I just don't know what to do, because I want to be with him but I'm afraid of that trapped feeling, and all that. I don't want to go back on my word to myself (I said I'd stay out of relationships for a long time because I was sick of the complexities and the confusion and drama they always ensue), but if that's the case, why do I want to be with him?
Argh.
My first instinct is to run away from my feelings/from him, but consciously I don't want to do that. AHH. I guess I wanna know what you guys think I should do.
Please lay off the chatspeak/all-caps. Both of those are extremely obnoxious. If I have to read your answer more than once to understand it, you're not getting a five.
Thanks =) (link)
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We all hate that feeling, and I'm sure most of us have felt it at some point, but unfortunately, the only way to completely avoid feelings like that is not to date. I would say that since you both like each other, you should take a chance. However, it would be a good idea to give it a little bit of time first, and take things slow. It's possible that this relationship will turn out bad, but the chance is worth it if the relationship is good. And about losing the friendship if it doesn't work out, an intelligent man won't push you out of his life if you're still being the same person you were before.
Hope I helped.
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Okay, my boyfriends name is Michael, and we've been dating now for almost 2 months. I haven't even hugged him yet! We've cuddled & held hands, but I've never actually gone up and gave him a hug. And I've never done anything with him after that. Today I hugged one of my really good guy friends, and Michael found out about it, and now he's all pissed @ me because I've done more with my best guy friend, then I have with him, supposebly. I don't want him to hate me, but he just signed off of AIM & I'm seriously SAD! He said we can't be together if I don't quit flirting with my best friend. ): Please help!
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Well, I can understand his anger at the fact that yall don't hug but you hugged your friend. However, I don't think that you should have to stop hugging your friend. You need to hug your boyfriend though, and maybe just for a little while don't hug your friend, just explain to your friend that michael didn't like the whole thing and that you need to let him cool down. After you and michael are hugging and holding hands, and cuddling, and whatever else, it wont bother him so much that you're so close to your friend. If he's not ok with it after that, then he's likely to be overcontrolling and maybe even obsessive, which is a whole new bad deal.
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Okay here it goes it may be a long one this time..
For starters I'm a 18/f I have been dating this guy he is 22 for 5 1/2 months. On my birthday he asked me to marry him. I said yes. Well that next week when we got home we got into a little argument which is normal and he said u know what i never even fell in love with u. Right when he said that my heart broke. I was totally in love with this guy you know ? Okay so then the next day he loves me again..hes like playing games with me. Well then i get a phone call from this guy i have known since march and had a total crush on well hes looking for a serious relationship and he is like totally falling for me. But i dunno what to do. Should i stay with the guy and fuss and have him play games with me or get to know this other guy ? I so need help !!!! (link)
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You're probably not going to like hearing this, but I don't think you're ready for marriage. Just the fact that you had to ask that question shows that you're not ready for the long-term commitment of marriage. I hope you'll listen, and I hope I helped.
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does anyone know how to pratice a kiss?? dont say with your hand. or it will come naturally! is there any other ways??
Thanks
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A good friend that you can trust, preferably of the opposite sex. lol Funny, but not completely a joke.
There's really nothing else like a kiss. Thus, there's only one way to practice it.
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hi,
i m priya,i m only 18 yrs old(f)
i m in luv with someone,& i want to know that he really luv me or not,if he doesn't luv me so how can i flirt with him Plz give me some advice & steps for flirting with him,& how can i forget him so early,& my affair is running with 1yr continuously,he don't talk me for dating even i m always say him that for meeting with me.he never incurred expense on me.
thanks
bye
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I'm sorry, if you want me to answer anything at all, you're going to have to rewrite your question using grammar, correct spelling, and sentences that make sense.
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what do you think of meeting people off the internet...
im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..
bad or good idea?
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Very bad idea. Very very bad idea. Before you meet in person, spend much more time getting to know him. Talk to his friends, talk to his siblings, talk to his parents, talk on the phone, get pictures(multiple), get undeniable proof that he is exactly who he says he is before you even consider meeting him in person.
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There's this guy I like.. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's got a girlfriend but he'll say I'm cute and pretty and everything. He'll even slap my butt and put his hands on my waist. When I talk to him I don't really know what to say. What are some things that I can say to him that are really flirty and sort of get the point to him that I like him? (link)
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Well, he's definitely flirting with you, and all you really have to do is be cute and happy and playful.
However, I'm going to ask for for men everywhere, please don't flirt with guys that are already attached. It's hard enough for some guys to STOP looking for girls, it's near impossible for them to deny one when they come looking for him. Unless if you want to break up their relationship, and have to deal with that, then I would suggest waiting until the relationship has taken its course.
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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.
About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.
The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.
How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will? (link)
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All you should have to do is tell him. I know that sounds like it won't help any, but if you let him know, then he'll be full aware that it really bothers you when he's late. If he understands this and still is late all the time, then you have bigger problems.
Once again, I know this sounds like it won't help any, but I have problems being on time too, and my girlfriend never said anything, but when she did, I got the message and realized I had to start getting ready earlier.
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Do you have any suggestions on how to reward a guy for being sweet? 16/f/tx (link)
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Verbally or physically, whichever you are comfortable with. Thank him, hug him, kiss him. It all works.
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Are there any suggestions on how I should tell my parents i'm bisexual? I've wanted to for a while but didn't know how to bring it up. I have a girlfriend named Madison too. 16/F (link)
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At this age, I don't see any real reason to tell them, especially since you're bi. If you get to a more definite age, and you're getting serious with another female, then you might want to tell them, but at this point, I don't think it'd be the best idea.
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Okay.. I have kissed guys before, but not made out before. How do you make out with someone? I know a lot of people will say "it comes naturally", but that doesn't really help me out.. lol.. like what do you do with your tounge?? It confuses me..
Any help is appreciated. Thanks!! (link)
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Making out is just an extended period of kissing. There are a thousand different techniques or ways of doing it, but to be simple, I'd just say massage his tongue with yours. That's really all there is to the kissing. Aside from that, just run your fingers through his hair if you can, or put your hand on his arm, or run your hands along his back or anything else to show him that you're into it. Hope I helped.
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how can you tell if your bi or a lesbian? please dont say you just know, but I think girls would be fun to you know, be with. Im against all that stuff, but I was just wondering because Im confused. I like guys too though, is it because well, im not dating and I just want someone to love. I decided not to date for awhile, could that be the reason im suddenly attracted to chicks? (link)
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If you're attracted to females, you're either lesbian or bi, if you're attracted to men you're either straight or bi, if you're attracted to both, you're bi.
I don't think that the fact that you've decided not to date for a while could be the cause of you having sexual interests in other women.
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15/f
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months. 2 out of the 2 months we have been going out he has been grounded.(grades he && he doesnt try to bring them up) i really like him but its not working out what do i do. i like him so much but we only get to see each other at school and i like him so mucb but the fact we never get to see each otehr out side of school is hard what should i do break up? stick with him? or take a break. i dont want things to be awkward between us at school uhh i hate high school
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Tell him exactly what you just said. Tell him that you really like him, but that if he doesn't at least try to get his grades up, then it's over.
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15/sophmore/female.
I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.
My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.
did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.
What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?
any advice is welcome.
if you need more info, just ask for it. thank you.
-Kelsey- (link)
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You have a territorial boyfriend, that's all there is to it. I'm this same way, so I think I can tell you that it's gonna be really difficult for him to stop being jealous, but he should be able to supress it enough that it's not a problem in the relationship.
It doesn't matter if you consider him like your brother, that doesn't remove him from being a threat to your boyfriend. Your boyfriend probably knows that he's been friends with a girl before who considered him to be 'like her brother', but he liked her anyway. He just sees it as you two are really close and that makes him a problem.
What this really comes down to is if he can trust you. If he can't trust you, he's never going to be able to handle you having guy friends or even being around other guys when he's not there. If he can trust you though, then he should be able to let you go off and do your own thing, even if you're going to be around that guy, and not worry much.
You did not do a single thing wrong. You should be allowed to have close guy friends, you should be allowed to hug guys, you should be allowed to talk to guys. If he's jealous about that, then he just needs to tough it out.
About what you can do about it, there's not too terribly much. Just stress to him how much he means to you, that you're more attracted to him and you enjoy his company more than any other guys. You just have to make him realize that you would never cheat on him or leave him for some other guy. You just need to talk to him, tell him how you really feel, get him to tell you how he really feels, and the two of you work it out together.
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How can I be sweeter or a better girlfriend? (link)
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That's an incredibly broad question. Your asking this question shows that you're already a good girlfriend, so you deserve a good boyfriend. Your boyfriend should be your own personal hero, and if he's not, then things aren't as good as you deserve. For a broad question, you get a broad answer. If you want to be a sweeter girlfriend, then make it obvious that he's your hero. Stress the point. If he doesn't think he's your hero, make him believe it. Even if he does know he's your hero, show him how much it means to you. If you want more specific advice, you'll have to give a more specific question.
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