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Hi. I'm IceAngel13, though you can call me Megan (my name) if you want. I like to make graphics like my picture. I write stories, poetry and lyrics and I love music, and love to sing. I love to give advice and I think I'm pretty good about it. I try to be as nice as I can when giving advice and try not to judge people. Feel free to ask me about anything, including relationships. :)

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O.k my bff Ruby,still kinda likes her ex Michael.Who i'm going out with.People are constantly trying to break us up.Making up lies and stuff.I don't hug him infront of her because she wants to fight me when I do.He always hug me and sometimes I push him off.I love him with all my heart,he makes me happy.But I do want my rep. back.So its either Michael or Ruby.If I choose Michael i'll be happy cuz i'm inlove.Or I can choose Ruby and be broken heated and miss him every secong,but still get my life and friends back.Which do I choose?Oh!I still have friends,but I hate pretending and not showing my feelings toward him when she's around its not right!What do I do?I mean I've followed my heart and its led me to him and for me to stay with him.But still its hard to choose.In this situation its one or the other.What should I do???
Love,
Sky

I know it's hard to choose, but if you approach your friend about it and tell her how you're feeling then she should understand that michael's with you now and it hurts you when she's constantly jealous of you two. but is she continues like this then just stay with your bf and forget about her. She shouldn;t be a reason for you to pull yourself apart from your bf and if she was a really good friend then she would stop and she'd understand.

hope i helped.

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I really like this guy and we went out about a month ago but i still really really like him. He is still sweet too me and he still says he love me like he say "love ya" at the end of most e-mail. We talk all the time on the computer but he never calls me. but he likes another girl in a town about 30-50 miles away from ours. He is still single and so am i.. what do i do.. should i get over him and be just friends or try when school starts? please help me. thanks so much

I would suggest to just move on and get over him, but you can still be friends. I think the reason he's e-mailing you is because he wants to still be friends. And "love ya" doesn't necessarily mean that he actually loves you. I say "love ya" and end e-mails with "love ya" with my friends all the time, and I don't romanticaly love them, just love them like brothers and sisters, and I think that's what he ment by that. So, my advice is to get over him, but stay friends, it seems that's what he wants too. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!

I would sit down with your parents and tell them what you just told us, that no matter what skin color you are, you are still a human being and skin color doesn't make a difference in any of their qualities. Tell them that this guy means a lot to you and that he's unbelievably nice to you and really cares about you. Tell that they should be more conserned with if he treats you with respectr or not, not the color of their skin, because hate to break it to them (actually love to) but white guys can be complete jerks and treat you with no respect. Stay big on the respect thing. And if it still doesn't work out, then I would date him anyway (this might be just the rebel comming out in me, but), you're parents shouldn't controll all of your choices, especialy ones that they are biast about. I personally am EXTREAMLY AGAINST racism, so I understand where you're comming from. So that's my advice, hope I helped. And I hope everything works out, because racism is a serious thing. And I hope they understand and allow you to date this guy. Best of luck!!! :)
~IceAngel13

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*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*

This is a really stupid idea, but my brain is currently dead, so this is the best I have. You could have a note thingy taped onto the front door (with his name on it) containing a map to it, if you want. Umm, is that what you wanted?

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hey you answered my question about the whole mike thing..he has talked to me all through out the whole 6 months..after we broke up hed still call now and then and most of the time when he got on the internet he would IM me! but just recently he has been telling me he wants to be with me and stuff! and it all came out of no where..so i dunno if he came to his senses and realized i am the one that cares or what! and i do love him with all of my heart and it feels like we are meant to be together..not just cause i say so its cause theres something i feel! like whenever he would hold my hand i would get butterflies in my stomach and it just made everything feel so right! im just not sure what to do! i wanna try to forget but then theres a part of me that says no dont do that cause you never know what you could be passing up! aghh its just too confusing

It's basically up to you. It could go either way, so it's really up top you, If you really have feelings for him, then go for it, but be creful, because if you guys broke it off once, itis likely not to last as long. You might want to sit down and organize our thoughts, don't let your mind get couded and really think about it. If it's ment to be then it will work out, so I say to really think about it and do what your heart tells you. I probably wasn't much help, but I did my best. Best of luck. And I hope you guys make it.
~IceAngel13

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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!

Don't bother with him anymore. If he has the nerve to not speak to you for 6 months then he's not worth your time. It's really wrong of him to leave you and then after 6 months expect you to be waiting for him. There are much better guys out there that won't play with your heart like that. Not that I have anything against him, but from what you've told me, I think you can do better then him. So my suggestion is to move on and I'm not sure if you still have feelings or not for him, from what you've told me, but you will find someone better. Best of luck, and hope I've helped.
~IceAngel13

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well theres this boy who goes to my church and he is so fine but im a afraid to ask him. and i think he likes me cause he looks at me and smiles and he likes to follow me sometimes and is name is adam and i need ur help

love ya :)
i rank high

Just ask him, I kow it's hard, but the worst part is befoe hand. Just go for it and if he says no, then at least you gave it a try. If you don't give it a shot, then you'll never know. So I say to ust go for it and ask him. Hope I've helped.
~IceAngel13

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ok so my bf n i have been going out for like 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks in advance.

You really should talk to him about it. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. And if you don't tell him, then things won't change. But if it's really upsetting you that much, then I would tell him and I'm sure he'd understand. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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I really like this guy and he likes me to considering that he's like always kissing me(I try to block them but can't) and hugging me(Hugging is okay) and grabbing my boobs(That I hate!). But he likes my best friend too and he wont chooses. see my friend is not living at home so He and I never get too see her but we talk on msn the odd time to her and This guy wont choose between us...like I don't know how this guy can like my friend she is a really BIG TIME SLUT/HORE!!!!!She's already screwed a guy and he still likes her. He really needs to choose cuz I am dieing her and Not Talking To Him Is Like Not Breathing.....It's Impossible Not To Talk To Him...I Have Known him since i was 5 and liked him since I was 7....He has nown her 9 mouths what the heck should I do:')Plz help i am really sad



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If he is bothering you by doing certain things to you then tell him to stop it. Overall, I would say to break it off with him. Don't let him toy with your heart anymore. If he's going to be that much of a jerk and not be able to choose between you two then help him along by getting yourself out of the equation. It might be hard not being around him, but he's not the only guy out there. If he's not going to appretiate you then he's not worth it. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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ok,
i have a bf and everything, and he is great to be around. but when im with my family im always frusterated, angry,etc.i love my family too, but when im with my bf, its just the best feeling..but now i can't see him anymore during the summer, cause last night, we went for a walk in the woods, and i got all scratched up, eaten by bugs, bleeding, and now my mom won't let me see him anymore, or go for a walk.
i don't no what to do,with my family, bf, and all my bruses..


help.soon

Bruses? Did he hurt you? If he hurt you then don't keep dationg him. If he hurts you then he doesn't really love you, because if he did then he would never lay a hand on you. But if he doesn't hurt you then tell your mother the truth, she'll probably understand. But once again if he is hurting you then get out of the relationship immediatally! Hope I helped, it would be great if you could clear things up, though.
~IceAngel13

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Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance..

I would suggest to press charges. That's a serious thing he did to you and threatening you afterward is worse. But if you really don't want to then, I would suggest to tell someone. You are a great person for not wanting to worry others but I'm sure they'd want to know. And you can't put everything on yourself or you're going to break down. So my advice would be to tell someone, either by pressing charges or tell someone that's close to you because this isn't something that you can just keep bottled up inside. I hope I helped.
Luv, IceAngel13

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Ok well my boyfriends sister is like doing alot of things and starting to become famous and he has to do alot of traveling with her i dont know if anyones ever heard of her but her name is Ansley Carter shes so amazing at singing country music anyways i hate it when my boyfriends away and We dont get to see or call each other and i really dont like relationship like that are long distants so do you think things will get better between us or should i just end our relationship now because i dont want it to be long distance
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OMG, creepy that is a lot like the song that came on the radio just now, it says "listen to your heart before you tell him goodbye" and that's what I advise you to do. If you love him then stay with him, your relationship will last through anything you put it against. But if you don't love him, then maybe it's not met to be, so don't push it. That's what I've got for ya. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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im 14 and i go to a highschool in plano texas ,
my case is a little bit different i suppose
my shrink diagnosed me with a mild-severe social paranoia meening i afriad everyone is always judgeing me and watching me , like im some zoo animal, even if sum1 isnt around.
iv also got mild social axiety bah like i know what that means for sure
i have "hyper-hydrosis" wich is a condition i was born with where my hands are always moist wich makes it wierd to hold hands with girls
iv liked this girl since she moved to the school, shes always been reay nice to me and iv always been nice to her, just recently iv been realy wanting to be in a relationship with this girl but i cant bring myself to ask her out in fear that she would say no in fear that i might make an attempt on my life (this is i guess social anxiety?) , i dont think she even knos i like her and she doesnt seem to even realy i know i exist sometimes
she tells me about all the guys that she likes and that realy hurts my feelings becuas im not the tallest (at 5'1" im far from it) im not the fit-est or the most handsome , i have acne and a steryotypical "Jewish Nose" wich many predjudists remind me often about.

i just cant help but feel that she wont accept my offer to start a relationship

this girl is truely beutiful in every sense of the word ,in class since i sit behind her i just stare at the back of her head and go off into "lala land"
on several times iv tried inviting her to movies or something but she always seems to have something else to do

any and all help wud be most appreciated

if u want to talk to me just chilling and stuff y AIM is forty5calpsyco

Thanks So Much

That's so cute (sorry, just had to say that). I think you should go for it. I mean, would you really want to live the rest of your life not knowing? You've already waited 3 years. Even if she says no, at least you will know and can move on. And if she says yes then that's great for you. Just ask her out (I asked this guy out once that I liked for a while and we had been friends, and he said no, but I felt better afterward. It's not as hard as it seams.) Best of luck!
~IceAngel13

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I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!

I really wouldn't tell either of them. There are other guys out there and you don't want to loose your best friend over a guy. Sorry, but best friends bf's are off limits. And I can practically garentee that your friend will over-react if you tell her or if she finds out, no matter what she's like, people tend to be protective of the ones they're dating (and I will be really surprised if she didn't overreact). Sorry if it's not what you wanna hear but you have to move on. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13

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i feel like im the only person my age that doesnt have a boyfriend. im 14/f and it feels like everyone around me is together. because all year this year ive heard oh my gosh my boyfriend this and oh my gosh my boyfriend that and i was lookin' around and everyone was like holding hands and stuff. i have a few friends who dont have bf's and we feel like we are the only ones.... IT SUCKS! is there anyway i can get a guys attention or should i just wait. is this a thing that everyone is just trying out? ITS SO SCARY ITS ANNOYING! and any guy that likes me is a nerdy guy! its gross...
PLEASE HELP I RATE 5'S IF YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD!
thanks alot

Just wait. Eventually a great guy will come you're way. You could always try talking to guys, become friends with some, you never know, every relationship has to start somewhere. And if you don't become more then friends, then hey, at least you have another friend.

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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her.

If you want to break it off, then break it off. What other people might think shouldn't determine your life. Just be really nice about it and tell her that you still want to be friends. I know it's hard to break it off, but you shouldn't avoid it, or it will make things worse. And if you really enjoy her company you can still be great friends afterward. Just because you're not dating doesn't mean you can't be friends. Hope I helped.

~IceAngel13

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