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wat up Younginz i'm 16 6'1 190lbs. i play alot of sports, Football, Baseball, soccer, Basketball,and Track and Field. I'm the starting RB at venice high school. My GPA is 3.8. I love to shop, hang out wit friends, and practice fa my sport. I'm very experinced in relationshipz and sex so i'm here fa ya
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Location: Noth Port, FL
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Well i think if i like him enough that i will stick with him.. you know.. only makes sense and the thing is im not 10 min. from him im 10 min. form the city he is 10 min. himself 20 min. in all.. idk its not a big diff. but the way we see eachother now is by biking... we dont depend on our parents and im sure that we havent for along time they think it will last like that. (link)
Well i hopoe everything work out for u and him and keep in touch on how thingz r goin wit u and him. i'm glad i can help


I have a boyfriend we have been going out for 2 months here shortly and im also going to a new school (he doesnt go to my new school now) i dont know if i want to go to that school.. as.. taken.. might sound messed up i love my bf i honestly do.. but its a whole new trust level to. plus my bf is about a yr younger then me and a grade below me.. if that makes any difference in the world at all. please anybody help me out.. that would be great. and im also moving to another town which is 10 min. out of where we live.. but that doesnt make a whole lot of difference i suppose so. (link)
Its only skool i mean alot of ppl date ppl in different skoolz. u gotta learn to trust that he won't abuse that trust. i mean u can see him after skool and on tha weekend since itz 10 minz away u would be that far away. thingz may feel weird in tha begining but in tha long runn yall be happy. as for that feelin u have goin into a new skool taken itz sumnthin ur gunna have 2 think over kuz no one can make that decicion for u but urself.


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what do you do when you wake up oen morning and you suddenly realize...that you really dont love the person you thoguht you did, but you love another guy. and you dont know what to do about it? anyone got any ideas??? (link)
Follow ur heart thatz tha best thing to do but before u do make sure that it goes both wayz u don't wanna break up wit him and than have no one. u need to kno and if u don't love tha guy ur wit leave him no point in wastin both ur guyz times


ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do? (link)
I think his tryin 2 say he wantz u back but not in those wordz. he wantz u to confront him and fight for him. so thatz wat u must do. i mean i sure his not tha type 2 play wit ur mind like that nad lead u on. he wantz u back from wat u r sayin.


I'm in love with this kid..but he doesn't know who I am...and I'm really shy so it isn't helping...hoe can I get him to notice me? (link)
lol well go up 2 him and just say hi i kno ur shy but u gotta face it. or make a sitiution where one of ur friendz that kno him introduce u to. for all u kno he cold feel tha same way about u.


hey, im 14 and i haven't had my first kiss but im with this one guy and well if we do kiss i don't want to be bad at it. so does any1 know some good techniques??????? (link)
tell u tha truth u should just go for it ur first time isn't gunna be perfect unless u got that talent but it takes practice 2 get good at it. just go for and stay relax u don't wanna try and talk and bite his tongue lol so just stay calm and go for it....


about a week ago i was talking to this guy on the internet and he was asking me who i liked and i was like idk who do you like and he gave me all these clues that lead up to me then told me that it was me and then i told him that i like him. he is cute and makes me laugh (which i like) but on monday he went on this trip and my best friends bf waS there to. so of course they talked on the phone everynight then one day she told me that while they were talking he asked for my phone # but he hasn't called me yet, should i call him or just forget about him??? im am really confused (14) (link)
If u really wanna pursue dis person than i say call him wat do u have 2 lose. i mean if he say he likes u than he would love 2 hear from u. don't be afraid 2 talk 2 him.


I like this guy i'v liked for a long time but i just recentley found out my bestfriend likes him too and she too just found out that i like him she says there talking and that there so close to becomeing a couple me and him are friends and he told me that all he wants is a f*ckbuddy should i tell her that he's really not up for commetment or just let her figure it out by her self please help me.

(so confused) (link)
tell her tha truth but u gotta remember u tellin her she will think u want him for ur self so u both should confront at tha same time so she can't think u want him and just getting her outta tha way.


i have this friend who had a bf for almost a year but lets jus say,,, i dunno how it lasted that long.. anyway the broke up lyk 8 months ago and she jus is gettin outta the depressed phase and is thinking about going out with this other guy.. or should i sey boy because she is soo shallow and immiture.. anyway she flirts lyk crazy with him and he barley cares... theyve talked on the fone and stuff but he always has his other friends on the line and ignores her completely.. Ie tryed to give my advice to her and she ses that its not my business and that i shouldnt give my opinion.. she also said that he might change if they got inot a relationship..in my own opinion she is jus desperate to have a bf and i deciving herself into thinking she likes the first guy she sees... i really dont want to see her hurt again.. what can i do???
thnx (link)
well ur friend is trying 2 make up fa tha big hole missing from her. so she goes for anyone don't care 2 try and feel better. as a friend ur intitle to look for somone for her. search from some u like and u kno she will like. have them meet talk and hopefully they click and she findz somone new in him


i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :( (link)
Well i believe that if u guyz talked about than u should be able. if u guyz r separating give him a hug and go strait for it don't hesitate. i'm sure he won't move away just give it 2 him


i can't act normal around my boyfriend. i act like a bimbo and i show off. i tried to explain it to him but he doesn't really understand, my friends hate the way i act round him and so do i. i really like him, i don't wanna break up with him but i've tried to be myself but i can't. what do i do? :( (link)
Here is wat i think, i think that ur still tryin 2 get him and acting like that when u already have him means ur drawin him away. basically pretend his ur best friend no differen't from anyone else. besides that sexual partz but if u act like that than u should see that everything come natural.


how do i get one of my guy friends to like me? (link)
u can't force somone to like u but there r many tricks to gettin him to notice u. Beurself if he don't like u fa who u r than he is not worth it. try to give him lil hintz but not alot to show that ur interested in him. but be carful if u date ur friend there may be a chance it could ruin ur friendship. so think about it befor u move in


hi

im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out

wat shud i do???
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Well i don't wanna sound like a parent, but at tha age of 14 u shouldn't be thinkin about that stuff. and if u truly think ur ready for it. tha best thing to do is tell ur parents the truth. you never want to hide sumthing from them becuz when they find out it will be a worse punishment. how u be safe at wat ur doing becuz alot of things are out there.


me and my bf have been together for 3yrs 5moths and 12days. hes the best thing that ever happen to me in my entire life i mean i can talk to him about anythin i trust him with my life. only thing is recently he has been havin some family issues. theres this whole divorce thing with him parents goin on and his dad is ( excuse my lang) but hes an asshole. just a complete asshole. well his dad did some stuff to his mom and my bf is kinda hurt by that but i think he has mixed emotions. hes mad sad all that then my brothers dont make things anybetter because they act like they want to kill him ( because i have over protective bros) i want to help him out with his rents and everythin because i know he would do the same for me and i want to get my brothers off his ass.. HELP! (link)
Well all u can basically do is talk 2 him and be there for him. explain tha sitution 2 ur brother and try to get them to understand about his life and wat not. well i hope tha best for u and ur problem


My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
I don't think you should tell her wait till she has broken up or moved one u might even stop likin him. but breakin them up kuz u failed 2 tell her ur feelinz fa her. how everything works out


Dear Alicia,
Hello. I'm 16 and a female. I was wondering if you could help me out...see, I'm dating this guy who I dated several times, but him and I have just grown so far apart from the first time. He thinks we are perfect together but, I don't know if I feel the same. We have fun together, but he always wants to be together, but like you, I love going out and having fun and not worrying about anything. I feel like I'm treating him bad, but, if I break up with him I won't only be losing him as boyfriend, I'll also be losing him as a great friend. I hope you can help me out...Thanks a bunch-*Confused* (link)
To truely tell you i think if ur not happy u should break up with him and keep in touch. u don't wanna stay wit somone just so that they stay happy. u should think about ur feelingz. so if u think that it will ruin ur friendship wit him itz a chance u gotta take. and ur probally an attractive young lady so u should be able to find some one really soon. hope everything work out fa u




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