i can't act normal around my boyfriend. i act like a bimbo and i show off. i tried to explain it to him but he doesn't really understand, my friends hate the way i act round him and so do i. i really like him, i don't wanna break up with him but i've tried to be myself but i can't. what do i do? :(
xbodyxcandyx answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 1:41 pm: It sounds to me like your boyfriend loves you the way you are. He sees you as perfect, and that is why he doesn't really show interest in you changing yourself. Being real is the best you could ever give to anyone. Never try to be fake. Your friends might not like how you act around him, but as long as you're not hurting your friends and you're having fun with him, there is nothing wrong with acting a little hyper at times. If you really wanna calm yourself down just do active things...like, play one on one basketball with your boyfriend or go out and go for a walk or something. Just be *you* Hope this helped! [ xbodyxcandyx's advice column | Ask xbodyxcandyx A Question ]
HouseCall3 answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 10:15 am: Here is wat i think, i think that ur still tryin 2 get him and acting like that when u already have him means ur drawin him away. basically pretend his ur best friend no differen't from anyone else. besides that sexual partz but if u act like that than u should see that everything come natural. [ HouseCall3's advice column | Ask HouseCall3 A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 6:10 am: Well that probably means you just like him alot...Don't break up with him definatly. If you like him then this is just the beginning of a wonderful relationship where you feel all those butterflys and don't know how to act around him, it's completly normal for the first few months of being with him. You're going to get uncontrollable feeelings around him and act completly different. just talk with him one on one and become closer with him, so you'll feel more comfortable around him... [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
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