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Confused
Dear Alicia,
Hello. I'm 16 and a female. I was wondering if you could help me out...see, I'm dating this guy who I dated several times, but him and I have just grown so far apart from the first time. He thinks we are perfect together but, I don't know if I feel the same. We have fun together, but he always wants to be together, but like you, I love going out and having fun and not worrying about anything. I feel like I'm treating him bad, but, if I break up with him I won't only be losing him as boyfriend, I'll also be losing him as a great friend. I hope you can help me out...Thanks a bunch-*Confused*
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If your gut instinct is telling you that this guy just isn't right for you, then you should go with that feeling. If things were going well, you wouldn't have this doubt. It sounds like he is smothering you a little bit and maybe it is moving a bit too fast for you? You shouldn't just dump him and not tell him why. Sit him down and explain that you really like spending time with him and you like him a lot, but you want to take things slower. Explain that you would hate to ruin the friendship that you have. If he really is a friend and respects your feelings, he will understand how you feel and will try to make things better.
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To truely tell you i think if ur not happy u should break up with him and keep in touch. u don't wanna stay wit somone just so that they stay happy. u should think about ur feelingz. so if u think that it will ruin ur friendship wit him itz a chance u gotta take. and ur probally an attractive young lady so u should be able to find some one really soon. hope everything work out fa u
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If you dont feel like it's right you shouldn't be living a lie because it will only make him mad. Tell him you seriously want to be friends, that he is one of your best friends and you dont want to hurt him.
(and sorry im not alicia. har)
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