Gender: Female
Location: Athens, GA
Age: 15
AIM: EmyKit00
Member Since: May 31, 2004
Answers: 17
Last Update: June 1, 2004
Visitors: 854
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My penis is about 7 inches long when I'm hard, but it looks kind of like an anteaters nose, is this normal? (link)
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I don't answer bullshit questions.
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My best friend is being emotionally abused by her boyfriend. My firends and i can all see this, but we don't know how to make her understand what he is doing to her. He is controling and says things that make her feel degrated. She cries all the time but he has convinced her that he's the good guy and shes they reason they're unhappy... how can we help her? we know this isn't normal! (link)
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You need to talk to her and let her know that she is a wonderful person. Compliment her constantly and boost her confidence. Also, let her know that she deserves better. NO GIRL deserves to be treated that way. Tell her that if she is crying over things he is saying to her, then he is NOT worth being in a relationship with. I don't know what else you should do really, but I hope I helped!
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I really like this girl but shes older than me and in a long relationship. I'm not sure how to approach her about how I feel b/c i know she loves this other guy a lot. I'm so confused what do I do?
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Well, since she loves the other guy a lot, I recommend NOT mentioning that you like her. It will only confuse her. You have to realize that since she is already in a relationship, you cannot be with her right now. Maybe in the future, but not now. I am sorry, but it's the truth. Try and get over her. Good luck.
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what happens when you suck at life emy? :-D!!!!
--jen (link)
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You don't suck at life. Nobody does. Keep a smile on your face and remember that I love you more than life itself and many others do too. You are the most amazing, beautiful, caring girl that I know. I love you Jenny. Stay strong.
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I really like this guy, and i know he has some feelings for me also, but he won't make a commitment because he doens't want to be tied down. I have given up alot for him emotionally. Is it worth it to just wait around or should i just move on, is this normal high school guy behavior... or is he just leading me on? (link)
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Well, since you both like each other yall can definetely date...no strings attached! If you like him a lot then I say give it time! Eventually, he will want a serious relationship. A lot of people in high school do not want a serious relationship because they just want to enjoy their high school years without the sidekick girlfriend always being jealous and what not. Don't keep dwelling on him though if he doesn't come to his senses soon. I'm sure you are a wonderful girl and there are plenty of guys out there!! Good luck! xoxo
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i have a friend who is dating an ugly girl. everyone thinks shes ugly, hes just in denile. What should i do? (link)
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It shouldn't matter what you or other people think. It's what he thinks. If he thinks she's beautiful so be it! It's not your girlfriend, so why does it matter? Besides, looks aren't what count...it's personality. Much love.
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i am addicted to the computer. what do i do?? (link)
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Well, many people are these days! It isn't a problem unless if affects your social life. If you cancel plans with your friends to play games on the computer, or talk to that person you met in a chatroom, you are TOO ADDICTED. I spend a lot of time on the computer, too..it's a fun place!
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im addicted to boys.. what should i do?im 14 years old.. all i think about is having sex with guys help me (link)
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This is pretty normal. It shouldn't be a problem! Just don't act upon it, you are too young!
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I just bought a new bathing suit. It fits me really well and I love it. The problem is that if I am cold or shivery at all, my nipples kinda show up. They show normally when I'm not cold but not as much. What can I do to stop this or make it less obvious? (link)
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Even though you may love the bathing suit, I think you may need to buy a new one. If you are uncomfortable then DON'T WEAR IT! There are many bathing suits that have padding that are not only meant to make your boobs look big (like many think!) but also to prevent your nipples from showing through!
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Are you supposed to wear underwear while playing volleyball in spandex? (link)
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I have played volleyball for 6 seasons. I ALWAYS wear undies while playing. I would feel very uncomfortable without them. I wore a thong once, and that was such a bad decision. The spandex actually went up into my butt and you could TOTALLY tell that I was wearing a thong!! I suggest just plain ol jane cotton undies..you're not gunna try and imrpess anyone! Hehe, have fun playing! It's a wonderful sport! =0)
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If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity? (link)
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NO!! Absolutely NOT! You have no lost your virginity until you have sexual intercourse (when the penis enters the vagina.) Cyber sex is totally safe--I don't recommend it because I think it's kind of silly =0P But it is much safer than sex!! Hope this helped!
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i know its ok to not be happy all the time...but what about all the time. I'd hate to say depressed but its coming to that. People look at you funny if you say you have a mental propblem and i cant stand psyco-analasis doctors. I dont like to ask for advice either but what the hell is going to hurt now? Just kinda lost on what to do.. (link)
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Well, at least you realize that you do have somewhat of a problem. Trust me, you are not 'abnormal'. Many people, actually MAJORITY of Americans become depressed/extremely sad at one point in their lives. I would suggest telling someone close to you. I know you say you hate psyco-alasis doctors, but if you visit a physcologist weekly, I promise you it will help. They aren't like physciatrists. They basically let you spill your heart out and say what's on your mind. It's always nice to talk out your feelings. Trust me, I've been through the same stage as you are in right now. I visit a physcologist every week! And it's really comforting to know someones there always if you need them. They won't just bullshit you..as long as you get a good one. If you EVER start to think of suicide TELL SOMEONE and get IMMEDIATE help. God bless you.
Oh and also, diet, excerise and healthy eating can REALLY help! STAY ACTIVE!
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OK, this is THE MOST EMBARRASSING QUESTION I HAVE EVER ASKED on Advicenators, but I need to ask it, sooooo... here goes...
I'm 14 and my breasts aren't really small, but they're pointy! It's so embarassing - even when I wear bras they still stick out all pointy, and I wondered if it was normal? Please help!! (link)
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This is COMPLETELY normal. You are only 14..you have plenty of time to grow. If it is really bothering you, then I suggest buying a padded bra. It will help even out your "point breasts". BUT, I really doubt anyone is noticing but you!! People don't look as closely as you think. ;-)
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i find myself too emotional, crying at every cute or even vaughly sad thing i see. I CRIED AT THE END OF VEGGIE TALES (the one that talks about not to be selfish) WHEN THE LITTLE ASPARAGUS CAME BACK FROM THE WAR!!!! how do i STOP this madness? this is affecting the friendships i have because i don't want them to know of my over emotional-ness. so i stay away from them. i've tried to hold my tears back but it doesn't seem to work! i've tried converting my sadness (if i'm crying because its sad) to anger or even happiness but i DOESNT WORK. how do i stop the endless flow of stupid stupid tears???? (link)
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You shouldn't be ashamed. That is a characteristic of who you are. If your friends don't appreciate that..then they aren't even worth your time! Do not convert your tears to anger..it is much safer to be crying then to be fighting. one piece of advice-stay active, excerise, and eat healthy..that always helps to keep a smile on my face!
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hi, i have a prob! well my bf and i have been together for 2 years and in the beginning it was great but now, he like DOESNT TALK at all. its pissing me off cuz whenever we talk its always about me and stuff and when i ask him whats up he just says like 'oh nothing' or 'oh today sucked' and when i ask why hes like 'oh its ok its not important' and im like wtf? haha and when i try to steer the conversation to him he always just brings it back to talking about me and its getting annoying cuz he never opens up to me and i tell him like what i eat for breakfast! haha and he cant even tell me about his day. and then when we talk online it takes him like 5 min to respond to what i say so im getting the feeling im boring him or he has someone better to talk to =[ what should i do? i dont wanna break up cuz i know he can talk haha sorry if this question is stupid but thanks for reading it =]
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wow! 2 years is a long time. i would tell him exactly what you just told me. if he doesn't have anything to say about it, then be like, "listen, this is really getting on my last nerves and i can't take this anymore" and state that you are not enjoying yalls relationship anymore. there is obviously something bothering you, and if he is not willing to open up then im afraid it might be over. =o( the key in any relationship is COMMUNICATION and TRUST and that is not what he is showing. good luck, hun!!
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I am so in love with this girl named Emily. She is blonde, beautiful, and very fun to be around. I love her more than anything in the world. I know she is the one for me :)
-D.M. (link)
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Drew you are crazy!! =O) By the way, that's not a question you silly goose!
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how do i break up with my girlfriend of 7 months who i like but dont love. she wont even tell her parents that we go out even thoug its been 7 MONTHS> i dont want ot hurt her feelings and i dont want us to not be friends any more.
p.s. SHES REALLLLY SENSITIVE. she cried once because i told her that she needed to talk to her parents about me, and because i was angry. (link)
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this is a tough situation. from past experiences, it is going to be hard to be friends with her after the relationship...especially since it's been 7 months. if you do not want to be with her, then you have to break up. but what doesnt make sense to me is that you say you do like her...so why break up? but if you do decide to break up, just tell her the truth, that always is best. the truth does hurt sometimes, and it is going to hurt her..but she will eventually get over it. i know its going to hurt her feelings, but if you are miserable with the relationship then it has got to end!! good luck!!!
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