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i have this friend who had a bf for almost a year but lets jus say,,, i dunno how it lasted that long.. anyway the broke up lyk 8 months ago and she jus is gettin outta the depressed phase and is thinking about going out with this other guy.. or should i sey boy because she is soo shallow and immiture.. anyway she flirts lyk crazy with him and he barley cares... theyve talked on the fone and stuff but he always has his other friends on the line and ignores her completely.. Ie tryed to give my advice to her and she ses that its not my business and that i shouldnt give my opinion.. she also said that he might change if they got inot a relationship..in my own opinion she is jus desperate to have a bf and i deciving herself into thinking she likes the first guy she sees... i really dont want to see her hurt again.. what can i do???
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well ur friend is trying 2 make up fa tha big hole missing from her. so she goes for anyone don't care 2 try and feel better. as a friend ur intitle to look for somone for her. search from some u like and u kno she will like. have them meet talk and hopefully they click and she findz somone new in him
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All I have tell you is to sit your friend down and tell her 'to wake up and smell the cofee' . The cofee is that he seems to have no interest in her and if he doesn't have any interest in her now, (mainly acting like a jerk) how does she ever expect him to have any interest in her when thery're supposedly in a relationship . Also mention the possibility to her that he might be a jerk and turn her down and make her look and feel bad about herself . This brings low esteem and you will come to doubt yourself . Also tell her that she doesn't need a man just to be there for her because , most importantly , she has you there as a friend . If she doesn't listen , than it'll be another hard lesson of life hopefully well learned . Don't be the type that says, " I TOLD YOU SO" . Be the type of friend that says ," HE WASN'T, IS , AND NEVER WILL BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR A PERSON LIKE YOU " . Please rate my advice whatever you want to . O.K. BY .
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i was in same kinda situation and like i jsut wouldn't listen to anyone or anything and so what happened was is that i went ahead and went out with the girl and when that happened my friends just washed there hands of me
they didn't do anything they would like still talk to me and stuff but they would always aviod the subject of her not matter what it tookand if they saw me with her they would just pretend they didn't know me at all
finally i got really sick of it and couldn't stand spending all my time with her because i didn't have any friends so i relized that my friends were more important then her so i dumped her and talked to my friends about it and they agreed that i did the right thing and everything has been fine ever since then
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Talk to her about this tell her ur sorry if u hurt her feelings but u just dont want to see her get hurt im sure she'll understand help her introduce to other guys someone that will actully appertate thier relainship
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Well babe there's not much you can do. If the guy ignores her then you should show her that somehow. You've already talked to her and tried to get her to listen and she wouldn't. The only thing you can do now is tell her that you've gave her your opinon and for her not to be suprised that it won't get far. Just let her know that she can do better, be with someone who actually gives their time to her and that she could have such a more meaningful relationship... but i mean, the guy doesn't seem like he's going to ask her out really. It seems like he's just using her for when he's bored and has nothing to do. Does she realize that?
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