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bf help
me and my bf have been together for 3yrs 5moths and 12days. hes the best thing that ever happen to me in my entire life i mean i can talk to him about anythin i trust him with my life. only thing is recently he has been havin some family issues. theres this whole divorce thing with him parents goin on and his dad is ( excuse my lang) but hes an asshole. just a complete asshole. well his dad did some stuff to his mom and my bf is kinda hurt by that but i think he has mixed emotions. hes mad sad all that then my brothers dont make things anybetter because they act like they want to kill him ( because i have over protective bros) i want to help him out with his rents and everythin because i know he would do the same for me and i want to get my brothers off his ass.. HELP!
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Well all u can basically do is talk 2 him and be there for him. explain tha sitution 2 ur brother and try to get them to understand about his life and wat not. well i hope tha best for u and ur problem
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The best thing you can do is LISTEN. That's the most important thing in his situation right now, believe me I know. For him to have to witness his dad doing that is something hard to take, especially if he cares about his mom.You need to let your brother's in on what's going on, and actually it's none of their buisness and although they might be protective, somehow you should get the point across that they aren't apart of the relationship, this is about you and your boyfriend and the things that go on between ya'll should stay private. But basically in this situation there isn't much you can do, except listen to him and how he's feeling. You being there to listen to him and him being able to depend on you will mean more than you know to him.
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Tell your brother to also stop being assholes, tell them about his problem..tell them to stop being harsh at the worst time possible. Ask your boyfriend if hes okay with talking to his parents about hwo he feels about the divorce, let them sit down and let them hear what he has to say, if he doesn't want to, you can talk to him..let him share his feelings with you.
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