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Hi, I'm Caitlin! I have brown hair, hazle eyes, I'm 5'6" and I LOVE my friends!!♥♥
I'm into football, soccer, dance, and volleyball. I heard about advicenators from my friend Sheridan Kayne Vaccaro (and i love her sooooo much)
I love to help people out. And I'm told i give good advice. So......

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i think me and my bf lost it but i cant realy tell see, i got mad at him yesterday and he called me saying he cant walk to school with me today...and like when we were going to out classes...he was walking me there and he say a guy and was like come on..bla bla bla..(he acts like a tough guy a lot) and i just kept walking and he didnt come after me...what did i do rong? what should i do? plz help..thanxz

~trisha~

well did you tell him u were sorry??
and if you hav then talk to him!!!
communication is one of the key points in a relationship.
dont block him out and dont have him block you out.
sucess in love takes work.

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look my sister emailed my guyfriend and said i hated him but thought he was hot! and said it was from me!!!!!!! even though thats not the way i fell!he always ignores me and won't talk to me even though i've explained a 17870 times that it was form my sis!!!! were going on hoil together and worried it's going to be weird! what can i do so thinks are back to normal!!!!

unfortuatly hun, things wont get bac to normal for awhile cause he feels weird and u cant do anything about it if you've already tried. just try to act normal and maybe ease off him for alittle bit so that way he doesnt feel pressured. and did u ever think that maybe the reason he is acting all weird now is b/c he likes u?

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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'(

oooooooooooooo ok. sry.
yeah. ok. well try to move on cause even if you REALLY like this guy, you can't wait for him forever. I know it'll be really hard but just try.

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ok well u answered my question about my bf adn how i didnt knwo if i should break up with him so i am keeping u up to date ok so we broke up adn i felt horrible he seriously told me hjow mcuh he loved me and that he didnt want to be alive but i guess i just had to do it but thanxs for all the help weiously
thanxs

you are very welcome!! :)
glad i could help.
thanks for keeping me up to date :)

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i have a boy friend who is really sweet and writes me really nice notes ad stuff like that. but i dont think he is for me when ever i am around him i love to laugh but i cant get close and i deel so uncomfortable when it gets to a point where its quite like we are going to kiss i ack out really quick. everytime i am around him i am so uncomfortable.see people would say just give it time but the thing is we have been dateing for like 6 months and we have gotten nowhere. when we are on a date i just want to go home because i am that uncomefortable i dont know if it right soo i need help? and also im afraid to break up with him becasue he likes me so much like allot and he said how he would take a bullet for me adn all this stuff im scared he will get al depressed or like kill himself serioulsly so i need help. so i have two question should this relashoship go on? and i dont know hwo t break up with him if i do?
thanxs hope you can help i will rate fives if you give good advice
thanxs

okay
well i had the same problem, he just wasn't for me.
what you need to do is break up w/ him. and he most likly won't kill himself cause most guys who say that don't. you should really just follow your heart and you should break up w/ him in person, but if you are too scared to do it that way then you should do it over the phone. all you really need to say is ",i just dont think this is really working out for me. i'm just not confortable on a date w/ you."
and thats it, you'll be SINGLE and happier.

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i like this guy. hes cute and REALLY nice. we talk online like everyday. i told him i thought he was cute and everything and my best friend told him that i liked him. he said he thought i was cute. i invited him to a party that my friend was having and he showed up. but we didnt talk too much even though we hung out by each other the whole time and let me use his cell to make calls. he didnt say much just smiled when something was funny. i was kind of shy around him too. a few days ago he said that he chickens out when he goes to talk to a girl so im wondering if he likes me too. how can i hint him into telling me?

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You should just ask him streight out ,"do you like me?," or have one of your friends ask him. When he answers, then you'll know.

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Ok i have a problem. This really great guy that i like is perfect in every way- he's smart, funny, outgoing, and nice. He also has really good hair and he plays an instrument. But, the problem is, i have never talked to him before, partly because everytime i see his smile, or his eyes, i turn bright red(or at least i feel like i am turning red) and feel inferior to how great he is. I really think we would be good for each other because we like alot of the same things. How do i get him to notice me without turning red and having problems talking to him?

Well next time you see him, try to have one of your friends with you so you feel more secure. And if you feel inferior to him, then list all the good things about you. but i bet you are a great person so you shouldn't feel less great than anyone else.
So just have one of your friends with you when you see him next and try to talk to him.

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I like this guy named Justin Emberton and I want him to like me so bad I want to kill myself because he doesn't like me what should i do Please answer

well first off, dont KILL yourself. but you can't make a person like you. So (even tho it may be REALLY hard) you just need to stay friends with him.I kno that this isn't what you wanted me to say.
Sorry.

-----caitlin-----

p.s. how do you kno that he doesn't like you??
have you asked him or are you just assuming???

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Me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel really depressed. And it feels impossible to get over him because we planned everything. Plus I have depression on top of that and he was truly the only best friend and soulmate I ever had. He was the one who broke it off because he's suddenly not ready for a relationship.

How do you get over someone for that long?
And I am homeschooled, so I can't keep very busy and I don't have too many friends to help me cope with this because I left my public school and won't be going back. I will rate, thanks.

It is always hard to get over a boyfriend. Just give it time and things will get better. And if he was your best friend then continue to talk to him, dont block him out (even tho that might be what you really want to do right now)

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I like a person named Travis now and he is younger than me....we get along fair...but not as well as i want you know i mean not to fast but i don't want to be friends all my life either. Anyway the other day trav was over at my house and we were jumping on the trampoline and he gets a rope and whips me on the legs with it...could he be flirting with me? anyway so were talking and i kick him and he jumps on top of me and starts like squising my face cheeks and stuff like he's hurting and tonight...he said you really hurt me and so i kissed my hand and put on his cheek and he just looked at me and smiled....then i took his hand put it on his mouth and put it on my cheek and he just smiled and looked at me for like 2 minutes and i said what are you looking at.....and he took a minute and said the window.."from what i told you do you think he likes me?" "do you think he's gonna be a wife beater." please tell me your advice.

you should just tell him how you feel.
(ex- how he hurts you)
glad i can help

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My boyfriend and I had a really big fight because I'm in band & he doesn't support me singing. He sayz I don't spend enough time with him when I'm always with the band and we only meet on weekendz anywayz. I broke up with him because he was being an ass about my dream & wouldn't understand how much I loved singing. So now I'm feeling really stupid cuz he loved me and I miss him. I'm starting to think he's more important than the band, but the band has alwayz been my dream for life! What should I do?
xoxo ~Sabrina~ xoxo

You shouldn't of broken up with him (even if he was being a jerk). You should of sat down talked with him and find a compromise. (like you go w/ your band during the day and him at night/or he could go to the band practises w/ you) But now if you really like and miss him you should sit down w/ hi and talk about your differences and feelings and if that works out you should see if he wants to go bck out w/ you. But if he doesnt dont feel bad, just focus on your dream.

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I used to like this guy J well he always is flirting with me and talking with me, but we're just friends but I like him! I won't tell him because he's too wrapped up into telling me all about himself and not asking how the hell i'm doing and not noticing how I feel. Then theres C he's funny and nice and stuff but he goes to a differnt school and is harder to see. It just hurts not being wanted and the only time yur wanted is when he wants to complain. I just don't think I should tell J it'll make it worse, but I just don't know what to do.

you should talk to J about how you feel about how he treats you. you should tell him that you feel that he only uses you as a person to complain to. he probally doesnt even notice that he's doing it. and you should still stay close to C but as freinds.

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so theres this guy @ skool and i REALLY lik him wed be perfect together but he doesnt no i exist and im really shy && im 2 scard 2 talk 2 him im desperately in luv w/ him we have completely difrent groops of frienz & hiz friendz dont lik me & i dont lik them && i duno what 2 do nemore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pleeeze help!!!!!!! if it helps im in grad 8

well sometimes if i'm too scared to tallk to a guy I give them a note saying what i wish i could tell them. you should try that and if he writes back then he is probally interested and now he knos that you exist.
But if that doesnt work then make a list of all the pros and cons about him. And if there are more cons then pros then he isnt worth your love, so try not to like him.

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hello... i really like this foreign student in my history class..he's a korean.. my teacher let him sit in the middle of me and my classmate so that we can help him once in a while.. the problem is... the more we see each other the more i develop my feelings for him.. i'm really trying not to like him because first, he already has a korean gf and secondly, all of the korean students in my school only have korean gfs because it's difficult for them to communicate if they will have a filipina gf. but i really really really like him.. and one more thing, i'm really flattered because i'm the only one he talks to in our room besides his korean friends. i can say that my classmates are jealous of me because most of them likes him a lot and he only talks to me and whenever i enter the class, i see him talking with his friends and when he sees me already, he'll sit beside me but only because he would borrow my notes or to ask something about our lesson..i really like this guy, my other friends told me that maybe he likes me too because we seem close with each other and because they also notice that he doesn't ask to anyone about our lesson but only to me.(i'm not the best in the class) i really hope that it's true but i don't think so. and i'm afraid that i would fall with him because 1 month to go and we'll not see each other anymore because he has different course than i have. ow please help... i don't want to be hurt...thanks...

ok

since he has a gf you need to just lay low but if the time ever comes that he is single then you can ask him out.also by that time, you and him will probally be REALLY good frineds.

----caitlin----

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