I used to like this guy J well he always is flirting with me and talking with me, but we're just friends but I like him! I won't tell him because he's too wrapped up into telling me all about himself and not asking how the hell i'm doing and not noticing how I feel. Then theres C he's funny and nice and stuff but he goes to a differnt school and is harder to see. It just hurts not being wanted and the only time yur wanted is when he wants to complain. I just don't think I should tell J it'll make it worse, but I just don't know what to do.
Sherry answered Friday April 14 2006, 1:26 am: So if J is too wrapped up in himself, I think he woulden't be a good boyfriend just because he complains and doesn't really care about your feelings. Try to see C (haha) more, and get to know him. If you end up liking C you can probably make it work if both of you meet up at the movies or after school or something. I say go for C, he seems like the right choice..if you dont end up liking C maybe you should tell J you like him? Maybe he'll change? Hopefully I helped! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday April 14 2006, 1:25 am: From what I hear about these guys, maybe you should ditch them both.
If you see someone who might only care about themselves, that probably how it'll be if you have a relationship with him.
And if you date someone you can't really see, it may not go so well because you may not know what he's doing at his school to other girls.
If you aren't feeling very wanted or welcomed around these guys, then maybe you don't need to choose.
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