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I am a 13 year old girl. My birthday is Valentines day, I love my family, I love nature, I love Rock'n'roll, and I love the good lord Jesus Christ. P.S I'm in the pageant for future Miss N.C. :)
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Hi, i am 15 years old and a male. A year ago, i had gay sex with a friend of mine. We Kissed and i inserted my penis into his anus.It was somehow pleasant but i regretted it later when i realized what i had done. Now, I get an erection every time i think of having sex with that friend of mine and also when i see a naked man on the INTERNET.Right now i am able to resist the temptation having gay sex but i do not know how long i can resist it since being gay is both illegal in my country and i sin against God. Please someone help me!!!!!!! (link)
I'm 13 and Christian. I have many gay friends and their all awesome! I totaly support you, but if you really love a man you need to let them know. DOn't hide it because it's not who you are. If it's illegal just remember that boy loves you for you. If you want to be with him be with him no matter the curcumstance. That's true love. :)
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There is this guy I like I've been talking to for about 3 weeks now. We exchanged numbers. At first we would text everyday. He would text me all the time. Lately though we don't talk as much anymore. He doesn't call me or text me anymore but if I hit him up he responds back right away. I've asked him twice to hang out with me and he said yes but then the day of he flaked out on me. Then asked me to hang out and did the same thing. I'm confused. I dont know if hes interested or not. What do you think?
7 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. (link)
I no how you feel, I've been talking to this guy through Facebook for a while and lately he has not talked to me that much....Boy's are confusing sometimes, he obviously liked you to begin with and now it's slowly drifting away which could mean one of two things......he found somebody else to "talk" to or he's just not interested. I know this sucks.............try waiting one more day and see if he responds to you. If he don't then ask him straight up if he's "ok", and say something like "well I was just worried about you because we haven't talked lately.....That's the only way you can get the truth out of him. :)


what's the difference between french kissing and making out (link)
French Kissing is using your tongue, and making out is French kissing for a longer period of time......I asked my mom this and now she is suspicious, lol.


13/f...well, I've told y'all about how my bf wanted me to have sex with him but i didn't want too, well...i wanted to..and we did. well, it wasn't really considered sex because, i was wearing a pencil skirt...with a thong and he had on khakis..with boxers (obviously) and i took off my pencil skirt and he took off his khakis we started grinding and stuff he kissed down my stomach but..we didn't really do "stuff"...is that considered losing my virginity? and am i considered a slut? (link)
No that is not considered loosing your virginity, you actually have to 'HAVE SEX" in order for that to happen.


21/female

Okay so me and my bf broke up 2 months ago. We went about a month and a half with out speaking to each other. He texted me first just to check how I was doing and then recently he asked me to go to a concert with him. then he asked me to spend easter with him and his family. And then I spent his birthday with him and his family again. I don't know what to make of the situation. Im getting mixed signals and I don't know why he keeps inviting me around him and his family. (link)
It honestly sounds like he wants you again. He probably feels bad about the break up. One the other hand it might be because his family wants you two back together, or they just think the world of you. I understand why your getting mixed symbols, just think about those two situations.


Hi there, my friend said you gave them good advice so I wondered if you could help me?

Basically, there is the guy I really like, we get on really well - I consider him to be my best friend - but I'm afraid to tell him how I really feel as I dont want to ruin our friendship. Yet, I feel he might like me back. But then again, he might just see me as a friend. I'm not sure what to do, should I risk it and tell him how I feel, or just leave it so I dont make things awkward?
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You need to tell him in slow steps. Like you could start off by sitting next to him, then you could start txting each other. Start off slow and eventually he will tell you how he feels.

I hope this helps, Godsangel. :)


im always talking to this other guy in gym just as friends and this other guy always comes up to us and just stands. but hes kinda awkward and stiff & i hate that. but after winter break i came back in sweats and a sweatshirt & barley any makeup & my hair was in a bun & he came up to me & he's like "melissa you look beautiful" & i'm like "thank you" & hes like "well you look beautiful like always" & im like "thanks haha" & he just walked away. he talks to this one girl whose my friend & i told her what happened and shes like yeah hes a really nice guy. & she told me he had a gf but they broke up. but he told me about me being beautiful after they broke up. do you think he's just being nice or what? i mean i think hes cute but he acts stiff (idk how to explain it) & he hangs out with weird people. (link)
I think he broke up with his girlfriend for you. That kind of guy can be very clingy. I would recommend talking to him a little and getting to know him better. Who knows you might wind up being his gf.

I hope this helps, Godsangel. :)


My husband and I do not get along anymore.

We fell into our relationship very fast and we weren't careful about it. I got pregnant after 5 months together and he was pretty resentful for a while. Our daughter is 5 now and he doesn't seem to carry that resentment anymore.

That resentment led to my resenting him for his behaviour. He would party and not let me know where he was for a good year or so after I got pregnant, but he grew out of that, thankfully. Still left a me bitter though, like he was trying to hurt me disappearing for hours without a word. I still can't tell what he was up to but he would come home intoxicated.. Eventually.

Now we're in a better place than that, but I feel like he is overpowering, and I'm not the type to take that ever. For example, if I give my opinion on a subject that would turn into an arguement if my opinion was different than his. It's like he always has to be right, even when it's not about being right or wrong - it's just a discussion.

We argue over the littlest things and it turns into something huge. We basically have no patience for each other anymore and were always on the defensive. I get so irritated with him it's hard to handle. He's insecure, overbearing, arguementative, but he's also considerate(mostly),a good father, and a loving husband.

The other thing is that I had an emotional affair with a coworker, and I don't think he will ever get over it. It started out as the two of us just talking because we were having the same problems with our significant others, and turned into us havin feeling for each other. It was actually nice to talk to someone who I tought cared what I thought and listened to me rather than talk over me or not talk to me at all (I swear video games are a ruination for good men - they loose themselves in games and forget they actually have people who depend I then being there).

Obviously my husband and I both have our issues, but we don't seem to be getting anywhere. Everyday seems to blend together in petty arguements and silence.

What can I do to make this better!!?? I do love him but my patience is at a breaking point and I don't know what to do! (link)
This is all up to you sweetheart, I understand its a tough thing to deciede, but what I think you need to dois ask your daughter if she would be happy if he was out of the picture. Then you need to make the decission. Think about you and your daughters thoughts and feelings. Also is he going through alot? If so that might be why he is like that. Just explain to him calmly how you feel.

I hope this helps, Godsangel. :)


I want to no how to kill myself (link)
Dont killyourself GOD please dont kill yourself. But just wondering why do you want to kill yourself?


What should I do about my boyfriend issues?? There isn't anything wrong with my boyfriend it's just I get really shy when he is around his friends and stuff. (link)
Your only like that because you love him. Most every girl is like that when they like someone, they get shy. I think you should start easy like txting him or calling dont pressure yourself.


Hey im 14 and had a thing going on with this girl..we were probably going to date.basically she kissed another guy so i broke it off.a few days later im considering taking her back because she apologised and everyone makes mistakes..not sure what to do because i cant really trust her (link)
You know the old saying if you love something let it go if it comes back to you its yours but if it doesent it never was? In this case she came back to you so... as the old saying says shes yours. But its totally up to you.


Hi im a 13f

sry if its long!

Ok so theres this guy that ive had a crush on for about.... 4 months. He is really funny and sweet. :)
but ya he had a girl friend for a while (when i still liked him) and they FINALLY broke up because he found out she was cheating on him.

we would play around and tease each other and talk and stuff even when he had a girl friend.

but now its kinda like he is a little more nervous to talk to me. i can see out of the corner of my eye that he seems to be starring at me more. (i have all my classes except connections with him)

and today is what really got me thinking if he likes me or not...

so we went to the library in out last class today, and he said "hey shinney can i take a picture of you?" and i said "why?" ( stupid me ik, im shy soo... :\) and then he said " beacuse my mom wants to know what you look like" and then he said "you know my mom" and i was like ya and ive seen her before i think, and then i said why does she need a picture of me, if she already knows what i look like? and then when we were in line to check out our books, he came up right behind me and was like REALLY close which kinda made me uncomfortable (like i said im the shy type) and he was messing around and smelling me and my hair and all haha :)


so my question is...



does he like me?


P.S. reminder im asking guys thanks!!!!! :P

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Likes ya, totally!!!!!!


Hey, I'm 16, a Junior in High School. I've never had what has even come close to a relationship in my life. Honestly, I dont know what my problem is. Im about 6 foot and, I mean, Im slightly heavy but really its not noticeable when I have a shirt on. I dress casually but nicely, all my clothes fit me well, I don't smell, and I dont harbor disgusting habits (minus biting my nails, but thats not too terrible).

On the personality side of things, I talk to a wide variety of people. Nerdy, sporty, drama-y, and of both genders. However, I've only ever had very few close friends, and those I talk to I strictly make small talk to at school, nothing further, no texting or calling or anything.

I'm a pretty happy guy in general, I crack jokes every once in a while. I carry myself confidently, even though on the inside I'm super insecure. I make good eye contact and smile when I do it, and regularly compliment the girls I usually talk to (I have a crush on one of them).

What's my problem? I think it might be something along the lines of the fact that I might have some kind of crippling fear of rejection, which might be why I never move my relationships past casual aquiantances.

Also I'm a male. (link)
It sounds to me like you just dont want a girlfriend right now, and thats totally up to you. Theres nothing wrong with you. But listen if you like someone you should tell them before you lose your chance. :)




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