Member Since: January 18, 2013
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Last Update: January 18, 2013
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I've been best friends with this one girl for years now. I went through a lot last year with my grandmother dying and having constant anxiety attacks. She was deffinetly there for me, but I also felt I was living in her shadow for such a long time. This year, the table has turned into my favor I guess you could say by me being more of the center, getting in colleges she hasn't, and a lot more. I feel like she has checked out on our friendship and has basically stopped making effort over the past months. About three weeks ago, I pretty much checked out the friendship by not calling her and inviting her to things. For months now, I feel like when I invite her to things she just makes me feel bad for it. Either beecause it is with other people and not just us, or I am not sure what. But yet she is never making the effort to do anything with me. She never does anything really with anyone. Without me ever making the iniative, she just never tries. I think she finally realized that I am so annoyed at this point, and is either scared to make an effort, or checked out as well. I love her to death, and I want a friendship, I just felt like I am so unappreciated for such a long time. In some way it feels like a family member has died. I could make the effort like I always do and call her once again, but I just wanted for once for her to make the iniative and step it up to fix this. I don't know what to do, I feel very lost but I am not sure if I am better off without it. (link)
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Tell her that you do love her and do not want to lose her, but you do not like what she have done to you. I think one of the basic factor of friendship is sharing your feelings to each other.
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what should i give my boyfriend on his birthday? he dont like to play games or he dont like sports, he is different, what should i give him as his birthday gift? (link)
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How about sending him something you DIY, say a cute card, or a coupon book.You can include coupons for free massage from you, for listening to him whenever he needs, and also for your free companion, etc. It's quite sweet. I'm making one myself, and I get free coupon book templates from http://www.blackfridaysavingscoupons.com/valentines-day-coupon-book-template/
Hope this helps.
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