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Would he respond back o me if he wasn't interested?
There is this guy I like I've been talking to for about 3 weeks now. We exchanged numbers. At first we would text everyday. He would text me all the time. Lately though we don't talk as much anymore. He doesn't call me or text me anymore but if I hit him up he responds back right away. I've asked him twice to hang out with me and he said yes but then the day of he flaked out on me. Then asked me to hang out and did the same thing. I'm confused. I dont know if hes interested or not. What do you think?
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A lot of guys are really interested in the beginning and will text you a lot. But then later they really don't care for texting and they slowly lose interest.
So since he's not texting anymore, he's probably losing interest. You can try again and see if he wants to hang out and maybe have him choose a day that is good for him. If he keeps flaking and doesn't ask you to hang out again, then he's probably not interested.
Since he still does respond back right away, he's still probably at least a little bit interested.
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I no how you feel, I've been talking to this guy through Facebook for a while and lately he has not talked to me that much....Boy's are confusing sometimes, he obviously liked you to begin with and now it's slowly drifting away which could mean one of two things......he found somebody else to "talk" to or he's just not interested. I know this sucks.............try waiting one more day and see if he responds to you. If he don't then ask him straight up if he's "ok", and say something like "well I was just worried about you because we haven't talked lately.....That's the only way you can get the truth out of him. :)
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I was going to say that initially a guy will text when he is interested but long term, most guys dont like or enjoy typing so texting, FB, or some other typing venue is not going to interest such a guy. Have you ever talked on the phone?
But then you say he has set dates and you did and he flaked out on all? It could be that he isn't really that interested. Or it could be that he is in a relationship but is looking to a girl to keep stringing along on the sideline in case his current relationship goes south, in which case it means he isn't focusing any energy into making it work in the first place and you dont want a guy like that.
Or some guys who are committed in a relationship prefer female friends over male friends and see nothing wrong in chatting with females outside of their relationship. And truly there is nothing wrong with that as long as his other lady knows that about him, that she is his girl and the others are just friends. If you are looking for someone to date and it is this difficult getting together, it could simply be fate keeping you apart. My current husband asked a lady out, traded phone numbers and they kept making dates but half the time she had to cancel and half the time something came up for him. No matter how hard they tried they could not get together tho they were truly interested. A few months later he met me on a dating site. and about 3 months later we were married. The angels knew we were supposed to be together and worked as hard as they could to prevent him getting together with a woman who probably would have been a very nice gal. But he would have settled for less than what his heart really desired. So based on that last piece, I cannot say that he is or isn't interested. Just give it a little more time and if the same happens, then tell him, Hey John, it looks like the fates are keeping us apart so i am not going to even try anymore. I am really looking for someone to date and have a relationship with so thanks for the interest but it has to stop here. That way you are not accusing him of anything and are cutting it off. If he contacts you by text after that, ignore him. No, it's not rude to ignore him if you explained ahead of time that this was final...no contact. Its rude of him to continue to bug you. Good luck dear.
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