Hi I'm Caroline. I have had a lot of problems with family and relationships....but especially friends....at my young age. Ask me anything and I'll give you my best possible answer.
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
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Age: 14
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Okay so I had unprotected sex, I know, not a good idea. However, I got my period about 2 weeks afterward for 5 days. I haven't had sex since but my period is 7 days late. I have only had my period since I was 12 (16 now) so I could just be irregular although lately I haven't been. I know I'm young, please don't hate & say something judgmental I just need your advice. (link)
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I dont think that you're pregnant, simply based on the fact that your period came. Periods can get knocked off their track when intercourse occurs so thats totally normal
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Ok so i went to a dance last night and ive had a crush on thid one guy named sam for a long long time. Since july i think. He was at the dance last night but me and him have been throuhh so much that i didnt wanna ralk to him much. Sam and i havs flirted and almost dated. Weve held hands and hugged and cuddled before. Anyways, at the dance a slow song came on and this guy named trevor who is sams best friend came over and asked me to dance. I accepted and we slow danced quite close. I felt a spark. I had always thought trevor was cute but never felt like this before. As the dance went on, sam kept making eye contact with me but never talked to me. Another slow song came on and this other guy came up to me named tyson and asked me to dance. I accepted and we were closer than trevor and i had been when we danced. Tyson has always been a good guy friend to md but again i felt a spark. After the dance, sam texted me and said he was going to ask me to dance but didnt know if he shoild. I told him i woulsve said yes. Then, tyson messaged me and said that he was hanging out with sam and sam called me hot a few times. Well,according to what i juust told u, which one do u thjnk i like? (link)
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It sounds to me like youve caught yourself in a love SQUARE! Sam seems like he likes you the most out of all of them, but trevor and tyson all did something about how they felt.There is no doubt in my mind that all three boys have major crushes on you,but it is you're decision on who to go after. My dad would say, flirt with ALL THREE OF THEM, but i say dont ask some website full of strangers. Hang out with these guys and get to know them even more. WHo knows, maybe you really dont like Sam, but just the way he treats you.
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Hey im 14 and had a thing going on with this girl..we were probably going to date.basically she kissed another guy so i broke it off.a few days later im considering taking her back because she apologised and everyone makes mistakes..not sure what to do because i cant really trust her (link)
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the best thing to do is to start fresh. Wipe the slate clean and let her back in. She obviously cares, since she came back to you, but if she does it again, you know what to do. Don't bring up the past, but let a knew relationship blossom.
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Should I wear something pretty when I see my boyfriend? If so what? Makeup? (link)
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It depends on what your doing. If your just going to school, dress the way you normally do monday-thursday, but on friday do something special. Friday would be the day that you wear a little extra makeup or a nice casual dress to school. if you are going to a party, i like to wear an outfit my boyfriend has never seen before. It will make him look at you a little more because he's trying to figure out if he's seen that cute red top on you before. Again you wan wear more makeup than normal, but dont over do it. Guys like it better when girls' makeup looks more natural. Stick with natural colors. Also, dont wear lipgloss. Guys cant stand kissing it (lol) let alone seeing it. Stick with a nice lipstick about 1-3 shades darker than your natural color.
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Okay, I met a guy some time back and we are school mates. I'm 16, female. We started off as teasing each other from time to time but now we are really good friends. My palms do not go sweaty when I see him, nor does my heart palpitate as fast as a train. Although when he was absent from school I was pretty concerned.
Is this a sign? I hope not. I need to focus on my studies. And I don't get emotional over him.
So, any advice? (link)
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Sweetheart it sounds like you really like this guy. There is a chance you could be in love with him, but also it is normal to have concerns when someone you love like family is out of school.
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My boyfriend is 15 and I just turned 13 a week ago and he's turning 16 in june well anyway I finger myself every night that I'm not busy with anything if a friend sleeps over or I sleep at a friend then I don't but my boyfriend and I have phone sex and I get dressed in front of him I do modeling btw and we've been dating for a year now but he's only watched me finger myself and I've seen him touching himself but we haven't done anything but we really want to!! I'm feeling so horny while I right this I always am :'( (link)
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I understand how you feel. when i was thirteen i was curious too, but thats all it is....just curiosity. Those feelings will pass and you will realize that sex is not necessarily the best way to go. Fingering yourself at 13 is also normal. Its another sign of curiosity. Do NOT have sex with this boy no matter how much he says he loves you. Think about what the possibilities are...you could get pregnant, or get an STD. Dont throw your life away. And before you say SHUT UP OLD LADY IM THIRTEEN AND IM ALL BIG AND BAD! im 14 years old and i felt the same way you did. I even thought of having sex with a girl just to get rid of my urges. I thought " Hey i wont get pregnant if its with a girl". also my best friend recently got pregnant. She is super worried about her college plans. She is in the eighth grade and was already being scouted by stanford for basketball. Now she is going to have to take care of a baby. Think about this and please just wait on sex
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I am 13 years old and all my friends make fun of me because ive never had my first kiss. I go out with a 14 year old and we have talked about it but were to nervous to do anything. All weve done is kiss on the cheek and thats nothing! How do i get him to kiss me? (link)
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OMG i can totally relate :) im 14and i just got my first kiss in december at a christmas party. My crush and i were at a party and the host suggested we play seven minutes in heaven. All my other friends had kissed guys so when it was my turn they all laughed and wondered who would get "the virgin lips". My best friend was drawing the numbers, so i told her that i wanted her to call out the number 8 (my crush's number). She did and the rest is history... :) he is now my boyfriend. The best way to get your first kiss is just the way i described because its not even pressured. You can kiss him, and then you two can decide whether to tell or not ( we didnt tell anyone but our best friend). But before you kiss him heres some insiders:
1. Its going to be super wet! You might even recoil a little bit, but its totally normal.
2. Dont be like me an leave your hands by your sides. Put them around his neck, waist, or in his hair if its nice and long.
3. DONT KISS AND TELL WITHOUT PERMISSION!
4. Kiss him back, but stay in synch...dont be sloppy
5. You are going to most likely wake up in the morning to the taste of his tongue...again totally normal.
I hope this helped :)
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Silly question, but I'm curious.
I currently run a pretty popular Tumblr blog. I'm constantly posting and adding pictures to my queue. It's sorta like a pretty pictures/princess/pink/cute/magic picture-type blog.
I would like to start another blog, a seasonal blog. Like I post fall pictures right now, in the fall. Winter in winter, spring in spring, etc.
But how hard is it exactly to run two succesful blogs? Assuming my seasonal blog would become succesful.
Also, is a seasonal blog a good idea? Do you think it would be succesful? (link)
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that is a great idea! You should have loads of fun with it!
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Im 13 and so depressed. I think i might be suicidal. I almost did an overdose before i went to school today. I guess that does make me suicidal. But instead of an overdose i just cut my wrist, hip, and thigh until you could barely see through all the blood. My question is do I need help? And if I do, what kind of help? I have no friends, i cant pass science or metal shop. And my drawings are getting bad. What should I do. Please help me. (link)
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Honestly, you need serious help. What you need is a therepist.
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Heres my problem, I'm just a guy, who is really social and can talk to chicks without a problem. The thing every girl I like seems to be getting hooked up. I don't to be only known as the funny guy. How do I get a girl to know I like her without being desperate and obvious? (link)
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you dont have to sound desperate and obvious. Just casually ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you or something on the lines of that. then the next week again and again the week after that.After you get closer, then you can formally ask her out and you'll have a reason to; you got to know the girl a little better!
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okay, i just realized that my boyfriend can be really controlling at points.
like earlier today, i was on the phone with him and i was on myspace too, and he asked me if i was on myspace and i told him i was and he got mad because i have a bone disease in my wrist and so it like makes it worse when i type and so he got mad and he was like you didnt tell me that you were gonna get on the computer. and he does that constantly.
and he sometimes treats me like his dog or pet or something.
like at church if i just stand there and dont follow him, he'll like yell at me and say something like get your butt over here! or why aren't u coming with me? and he'll say it with an attitude and it seems like hes the one on his period.
but i just dont know what to do about it.
should i wait a couple of days and see if it gets worse or talk to him about it??? i need help!
please and thank you. (link)
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OMG!!!! This guy is a total jerk. DO NOT HESITATE TO BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!! He also shouldnt treat you the way he does.... ESPECIALLY at church. He just needs to get over himself and the fact that you arent an animal your his girlfriend ( or if it was me, his ex-girlfriend) GOOD LUCK!!!
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its me again and me and my girlfriend mary have made it official were now running away from all the crap our parents give us and we will be able to be together . right now were at a hotel my friends brother rented . its going great and we had sex only 1 time . but is this right? help me please (link)
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It's right if it is to you. Pray to god for answers. He can show you the light & can give you answers far better than I or any other columnist can give to you follow your heart.
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I recently got out of a relationship just to find out that im pregnant and he has a girlfriend already. For some reason i cant stop txting him and i know that i need to b/c he was a dog and is not good enough for me! he has treated me 100 times worse since he found out about the baby. i just dont know how to move on! I need some advice! (link)
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You make it sound like this guy is a real jerk & he probably is. I think you should put the baby first & forget about him. Maybe as you take care of him/her you should try internet dating.
www.eharmony.com
www.zoosk.com
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Ok so theres this boy jose and i really really like him,yes he knows my feeling i told him bout them a week ago we still hang out and txt but i want to be more than friends.So i don't know what to do or how to take our "friendship" a step closer into a relationship.Any advice??
thnx in advance
TINK2359 (link)
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Just act normal, like you always are. Then maybe you should ease into it. Like say something like "I wonder what it would be like if we went out?"
I hope this helps!
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I was just wondering were dragons ever real? Ha I was just thinking about that and I just wondered because I've never heard of scientists digging up dragon bones or something ha. (link)
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They were & still are real. Ever heard of the Comodo Dragon?
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names kayla, well long story short i have been with my husband for 8 years and hes deployed right now. he will be home in 2 months though. my mama who was a best friend to me passed away this year on mothers day. well i have never been on my own i have always had my husband or a family members living with me. with that said i have recently cheated on my husband for the first time ever.i really dont have the answers to why i did what i did but i feel ugly for doing so. i share everything with this man but i dont know if i should wait to tell him when he comes home from iraq or should i tell him now? (link)
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You should tell him. It's his right to know & you won't feel guilty. If he really loves you, he'll understand & help you. If you need a companion while he's away, maybe you should get a pet, or have children, or go through the adoption process.
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What does "Don't lose someone you love over pride" mean? (link)
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It means that you should push away someone that you love for your own selfishness & ignorance.
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