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First kiss
I am 13 years old and all my friends make fun of me because ive never had my first kiss. I go out with a 14 year old and we have talked about it but were to nervous to do anything. All weve done is kiss on the cheek and thats nothing! How do i get him to kiss me?
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Firstly dont rush yourself until you are defiantly ready for it. Once you think you are talk to him about it and tell him how much it means to you that he kisses you. If he still won't maybe reconsider your whole relationship. Good luck
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OMG i can totally relate :) im 14and i just got my first kiss in december at a christmas party. My crush and i were at a party and the host suggested we play seven minutes in heaven. All my other friends had kissed guys so when it was my turn they all laughed and wondered who would get "the virgin lips". My best friend was drawing the numbers, so i told her that i wanted her to call out the number 8 (my crush's number). She did and the rest is history... :) he is now my boyfriend. The best way to get your first kiss is just the way i described because its not even pressured. You can kiss him, and then you two can decide whether to tell or not ( we didnt tell anyone but our best friend). But before you kiss him heres some insiders:
1. Its going to be super wet! You might even recoil a little bit, but its totally normal.
2. Dont be like me an leave your hands by your sides. Put them around his neck, waist, or in his hair if its nice and long.
3. DONT KISS AND TELL WITHOUT PERMISSION!
4. Kiss him back, but stay in synch...dont be sloppy
5. You are going to most likely wake up in the morning to the taste of his tongue...again totally normal.
I hope this helped :)
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You shouldn't feel the need to kiss your boyfriend because your friends say so. You should live your relationship the way you want too.
But if you really do want to have your first kiss with your boyfriend, then you make the first move. You don't always have to rely on the guy to make all the decisions.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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It sounds like you're responding to peer pressure, wish is a foolish thing to do.
You need to make sure you're ready before you do it because it only happens once.
Also, obviously the friends you have have matured very early for their age, but I know of people my age (17) who havn't had their first kiss yet-so don't feel pressurised. It happens when it happens, and as long as you relax it'll be fine.
But yeh don't do it to please you're friends because theres no point with being friends with people like that but also you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons.
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hun, first, dont listen to them. second, you wait until you are ready for your first kiss, silly as it seems, but some people actually think of it as a BIG deal.
if, and only if, you are both ready, then make sure its a quiet and relaxed atmosphere, and you are both comfortable. look at them, try and hold their gaze for a few seconds. then just lean in and gently kiss them on the lips.hold it for a few seconds, then pull back. if you want to, go for another one, and hold it for longer.
much love xx
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