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Alrighty so I'm a junior (17 and a girl) in high school and I previously attended another high school for about 2 and a half years, but recently transferred into this new school. I've been in the school for about 4 months or so and haven't gotten too involved into social circles because I'm a pretty shy person... So, here comes the problem, I have this huge crush on a guy in one of my classes. I don't know too much about him, but from what I've seen he seems like a very laid-back, funny person. I noticed that we make frequent eye contact multiple times throughout the class. I try smiling at him to leave a good impression, but he usually gets flustered and walks away. Occasionally we make off-handed good-humored comments about each other (to each other) and I always find that we usually end up very close together even if we don't talk. We always end up paired up, using each other's equipment, or just general situations where we get stuck together. Now, I'm a bit helpless because I really like him but I don't have the confidence to actually start up conversations. I also have two friends (who are guys) who I'm very friendly with (physically- hugging, etc) in the class as well and I've noticed my crush always looks upset when I'm with them. What should I do? (link)
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So I think you should just talk to him! He sounds l
Like a nice guy so just let go and do it? Ask yourself
What have you got to loose? If it gies wrong then hey you
Tried! I tried to get with a person once and it didn't go to
Plan, but im glad I tried to talk to them! It's worth a shot!
Your royal blondness xxxx
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How do I get a guy to want me more? He used to text often before and now its very minimal so I politely reply but how do I get his attention like I did 3 weeks ago? (link)
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Maybe you've been putting to much effot into getting his attention . I'm assuming you were just being yourself before? If so then be yourself again. Ir if you feel confident enough ask this guy what's going on? Maybe he's wondering how to get your attention and has lost confidence for some reason. If he has stopped texting you as much for no reason then ask yourself is he worth it. If the answer is no then just forget him.if the arnswer is yes maybe your opening text but be a funny one liner or even a chat up line if your brave! Maybe talk to him more in real life and see what happens... I hope I helped! Good luck X
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Well ok, i'm best friends with a boy and a girl they have never met and now i'm dating him too but i have been told i have to choose one or the other and i can't. The girl is like a sisterto me and the boy is everything i wanted what can i do? i'm stuck plz help :( xx (link)
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Maybe if you talk to both of them and tell them how much both of them mean to you then they will agree just to be civil for your sake. If they both care about you as much as you think they do they should agree. Because boyfriends and friends are equally important sometimes. Best of luck xx :)
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I'm a 13 yet old girl, and I want to try flirting very subtly but still have it sound cute or something with another girl. Last night I sent her a pic of a really adorable seal and said "this seal is so cute!!! It reminds me of you! ;)" but I can't think of any other ones. Can somebody please give me some options? Thank you!! :) (link)
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It's not easy flirting with people subtly but here's a few pointers... Firstly if you see this person in real life and u want to talk to them ask to borrow something ( rubber, ruler etc) and say you look the capable sort. Or if you make eye contact look them in the eye fir about two seconds and then look down . Online wise always say something interesting . For example don't start the convo With wuu2 start it with something funny that happened in your day. As they say a way to a mans heart is not his stomach but his sense of humour! I hope I helped and GOOD LUCK!!!! :)
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***IF YOU SAY, "IM SURE YOUR FINE." GO AWAY.***
So, I'm 13 & get taunted a lot about my small butt and boobs. Although everyone knows me, like someone says my name and their like yeah I know her and I'm friends with pretty much everyone. My friends in my class (boys) say why do you wear a bra and stuff like that, we all laugh then go onto another subject and and it's just a joke. I know it, they know it, we all do. But it's true. I want to get a bigger butt & pair of boobs and my guess for the boobs is massage it for two weeks then see if theirs any progress and I think it'll work. Then for the butt I am going to lay on my tummy, and push my legs up so my butt will be recieving the work out rather than my thighs or anything.
And might I add I weigh 105 where as my average weight for my height and age is 117. So that's some of the problem, but I enjoy being carried due to my lack of weight and being envyed by so many girls for my body. My ex [who is like a brother to me and he is my world. He looks out for me and we're best friends. Only friends but he's nice] said to my friend allure while I was doing something, that if I had a better < notice meaning all I have to do is improve> body then I'd be hot! I know , I know. "I'm sure your fine." I am fine. Really, but in highschool next year I at least want to be up to level with the other girls and have a big butt and at least B sized boobs! That's all I want!
Lastly is Makeup. I want really dark lashes that is like clumpy but so clumpy that they look real thick and spider-leg-y. Haha. I just want really nice thick eyelashes. This girl is my role model and she has really dark eyelashes and of course it's makeup, but I don't care. And I want them dark and people say just buy volumizer and it doesn't work. I was told use the L.A. Kind mascara and I looked for it but couldn't find it.
Thanks in advanced and sorry it was so terribly long. (link)
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I understand where u r coming from .. For the mascara thing search online I'm sure you will find it. But fir the boobs and but thing there are some things that you have overlooked . You are still not developed completely yet so you might get a bigger but and boobs. Also if it stays like that your weight will always be admired and envied by other girls and as you get older the size of your boobs and butt won't matter anymore because boys will like them! Good luck I hope I helped ! :)
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and the boy is 14 years old. I've dated him before and he was really really sweet but he is on the chubby side, I usually don't date chubby boys. My friends said that he was talking about how he was going to ask me out this Friday but idk. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he's like the big brother I've never had. Should I go out with him? (link)
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I think if you have alot of things to think about . Firstly is that fact he's chubby a real problem fir you. If don't think he's attractive then don't go out with him it wouldnt be fair. Seciny if you don't want to ruin your friendship then don't either. But if u think he us attractive and you do like him and you do think if things went wrong your friendship could hold uo then go for it!!!!! Good luck :)
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I am 13 years old and all my friends make fun of me because ive never had my first kiss. I go out with a 14 year old and we have talked about it but were to nervous to do anything. All weve done is kiss on the cheek and thats nothing! How do i get him to kiss me? (link)
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Firstly dont rush yourself until you are defiantly ready for it. Once you think you are talk to him about it and tell him how much it means to you that he kisses you. If he still won't maybe reconsider your whole relationship. Good luck
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So I'm a girl and don't talk to any guys.
Recently I was in a group interview and noticed how the other girls spoke to the guys with ease. I thought it was because they knew each other-but they didn't!
Its just idk i just think whenever I talk to a guy they'll just presume I like them like that. How do you talk to guys because this isn't healthy! (link)
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Try talking to a guy that is a friend of one of your friends and just start with small talk . Maybe about the friend or school/ work or even a shared interest . Slowly he will introduce you to his friends and then you will have lots of male friends . If you don't want to be flirtly Judt talk how you would to a girl friend. Good luck!
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