Question Posted Wednesday January 30 2013, 10:04 pm
***IF YOU SAY, "IM SURE YOUR FINE." GO AWAY.***
So, I'm 13 & get taunted a lot about my small butt and boobs. Although everyone knows me, like someone says my name and their like yeah I know her and I'm friends with pretty much everyone. My friends in my class (boys) say why do you wear a bra and stuff like that, we all laugh then go onto another subject and and it's just a joke. I know it, they know it, we all do. But it's true. I want to get a bigger butt & pair of boobs and my guess for the boobs is massage it for two weeks then see if theirs any progress and I think it'll work. Then for the butt I am going to lay on my tummy, and push my legs up so my butt will be recieving the work out rather than my thighs or anything.
And might I add I weigh 105 where as my average weight for my height and age is 117. So that's some of the problem, but I enjoy being carried due to my lack of weight and being envyed by so many girls for my body. My ex [who is like a brother to me and he is my world. He looks out for me and we're best friends. Only friends but he's nice] said to my friend allure while I was doing something, that if I had a better < notice meaning all I have to do is improve> body then I'd be hot! I know , I know. "I'm sure your fine." I am fine. Really, but in highschool next year I at least want to be up to level with the other girls and have a big butt and at least B sized boobs! That's all I want!
Lastly is Makeup. I want really dark lashes that is like clumpy but so clumpy that they look real thick and spider-leg-y. Haha. I just want really nice thick eyelashes. This girl is my role model and she has really dark eyelashes and of course it's makeup, but I don't care. And I want them dark and people say just buy volumizer and it doesn't work. I was told use the L.A. Kind mascara and I looked for it but couldn't find it.
Thanks in advanced and sorry it was so terribly long. <:)
And I get how it feels too!
Lets start with the butt. I'm a really slim girl-and I was wondering whether you like me have a high metabolism? If so, you need to be eating lots of high calorie healthy food like dairy products , nuts and things to help gain weight.
The bum I find is the easiest place to start because you can see results quicker. I do squats and really push myself. I also do lunges and step ups, a full plies with a straight back. This really works the butt muscles and if you're persistant results will be seen in no time.
No on to the breats. These are trickier-and are only really likely to get bigger during pregnancy. but there are things you can do to encourage them, such as chest exercises, that bild the muscle below where the breasts are, thus making them appear larger.
Finally onto the mascara. Now then, most girls wear fake eyelashes to get that spider effect look. You can get quality ones that are easy to apply and will be easy to apply.
Hope this helps. Ultimatly to get larger breasts or butt you need to gain weight. Remember to warm up before you do any kind of exercise,and to wear appropriate clothing and things.
adviceman49 answered Thursday January 31 2013, 10:58 am: As for the make-up one of the women advisors will have to help you with that.
As for the other things your wrote about. I'm not going to say you normal or abnormal. Your only 13 and yes while some of your friends may have developed faster than you, you will eventually catch up to them.
You may be at the beginning of puberty and have at the very least 5 more years to go through. Your body will continue to change and develop over that time. You will have whatever size breasts you are suppose to have. Your butt will develop, hopeful, in proportion to your body. The exercise you want to do will not develop your butt they way you want it will add muscle mass. Which will also add wight as muscle is heavier than fat.
I do not know where you found the idea of massaging you breast area to improve growth. Fact is other than surgical enhancement their is no known method that will improve the growth or size of your breasts. They will grow as they are meant to grow as dictated by your genes and hormones while you go through puberty.
I am not making light of your concerns as they are valid concerns. These concerns though should be addressed with you mom and your dad since your genes come from both of them. You need to find out if either parent has a history of late bloomers anywhere in the family. This would include sister and, cousins. You may have to go back a few generations to find out. This more than anything will give you some insight as to what and when to expect things.
There is and old joke that I will paraphrase a bit. The punch line is a little different than this but basically, you will get what you get when you get them. You cannot rush mother nature. When you are 18 and puberty is just about over then you can consider surgical enhancement if you want.
My advice is to relax for now and take a wait and see attitude for the next 5 years. I'm positive you will turn out to have a body to envy your friends. My sister was a late bloomer and she caused a lot of guys heart break once she finally developed. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Blondebella1 answered Thursday January 31 2013, 1:55 am: I understand where u r coming from .. For the mascara thing search online I'm sure you will find it. But fir the boobs and but thing there are some things that you have overlooked . You are still not developed completely yet so you might get a bigger but and boobs. Also if it stays like that your weight will always be admired and envied by other girls and as you get older the size of your boobs and butt won't matter anymore because boys will like them! Good luck I hope I helped ! :) [ Blondebella1's advice column | Ask Blondebella1 A Question ]
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