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hey!ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)
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Before I start I want to tell you guys that I am 15 about to be 16 in July, and I'm a female...^^
So my two friends and I went to the mall one day, and we were shopping at Hot Topic and this 18 year old guy started talking to us. We started hanging out and we started flirting with each other. He asked for my number and I gave it to him.
And let's just say my mom wasn't happy to the fact that he was 18 and I gave him my number. I really like him, but I have this weird feeling...my mom keeps telling me that she doesn't want me going out with him (which I understand why) but I really do like him and I want to just be friends with him. My mom doesn't even want that. He calls me cute girl, beautiful, things like that, and my friend from Europe told me that her friend got raped from an 18 year old and he was doing the same things that my 18 year old is doing to me.
I asked my friends what I should do because I don't know why he even wants to be my boyfriend because A) I'm a freshmen (though i should be a 10th grader) and B) I'm 15!! What does he want with me?
I really don't know what to do because I really do like him, but I know my mom doesn't like him though she hasn't met him. I want to get my mom to let me hang out with him, and meet him, but...I don't know if hanging with him and all that is the right thing...what do you guys think?
If anyone can give me advice on what to do, or even if hanging out with him is the right think, please help...
So thanks in advance! ^^ Oh! Before I forget, he has already finished high school...XD That's all the info I think I can remember..
Mainln thing i can etll you is leave things right where they are. The fact that you say you're getting a weird feeling is a sign. Trust yourself... In general it all doesn't sound too good of a situation. Overall it doesn't sound good hun.
I would advice you to just forget this guy and move on with your life. I don't know, for some reason, even though i don't know him or anything, he just doesn't sound like good news to me... specially since you're getting that weird feeling about it all as well.
Be careful hun, because yeah, its true. Some guys out there are really just looking for their next victim, or just because of how young you are compared to him, they take advantage of that =/
Not trying to lecture you, but unfortunately its the truth.. =/
Take care..
VB
hey i thought i might ask u this question. i am in love with this guy but he already has a girlfriend, he loves me to but he still likes his girlfriend we have become very close and i know he loves me because of the way he looks at me and when smiles at me i am very confused, i dont know if to waight until he leaves his girl or move on because i wount want to waste any of my time waiting on anyone . what do u think i should do continue hoping that the love we have will over come anything ,leave him and his girlfriend alone and move on , what? ps am 16 yrs old and really in love.
Hey sweetie
I'm sorry it's taken so long to answer your question, my dear apologies.
But anyway, I trully believe that its best for you to just move on. He's with this girl and even though he may have some feelings for you, the fcat that he is still with his girlfriend speaks for itself.
I've been ion the same situation, although in my case, for a while, my crush had a crush on me as well. But we were too young and naive to realize it. As the years went by though I guess it became apparent that the feeling had been mutual, and still even through time there were always still remains of those feelings. and even though when it happened that i became his neighbor, we still flirted, and alot.... But he eventually had a girlfriend, and then another... and even with his girl rightt here, he'd throw me those melting smiles and looks that i'd go absolutely crazy for! haha! But the fact of the matter is, that if he was with this other girl, the feelings he had for her must have been stronger than for me... so, its best to move on....
soon enough you'll find that one =)
VB
hey.. its me.. the girl who loves a boy over the internet.... thanks again for the advise earlier.. since you've been through this i have another question.... how do you know when your wasting time? my closest friends who know about cody all think im wasting my time.. and i can't help to think the same way.... part of me thinks i am... but then theres a big part who pictures me and him meeting in person and really becoming something great. is there any way to know?
Hey hun,
Sorry I haven't been able to get back to you sooner... =/
And i know what yu mean. I've been through that part of it all too! haha! yeah, with my best friend. I almost even ended the friendship and whatever feelings we had in common... and got to the point that told him one night that we couldn't do this anymore... but i honestly didn't want to, but... sigh.. anyway, i did think that it would have been a mistake and waste of time to be in love with someone so far away and whatnot. I was obviously wrong. I say just give it a try if you trully have feeling for him, and they are mutual..
Give it a try, and don't listen to your friends. They mean well, but sometimes they are wrong.
Just listen to your heart =) I know it sounds cliche, but its the truth =) ...thats the only way to know... =)
VB
Hello, thank you for your advice. You ask how long did she (lara) lean her head on my shoulder. well almost the whole movie. she then sometimes didnt do for a while, then a few seconds later she will do it. she always leans on me before i told her how i felt about her. sometimes there were times that she will try to hold my hand. and last time she hold my arm and lean her head at the same time.
so i am a little confused. i was thinking about telling her that i met a guy or girl. but i dont know how to start it off. the thing is when i told her i met that guy at the party she got jealous and said "i dont know if i should be happy or pissed. i guess time will tell for the both of us" and "if you get a boyfriend we wont be close anymore"
you might be right that its a close friendship, but i have a friend that i knew for 11 years and when i or we talk about guys she never acted like Lara did.
Lara told me she was jealous of my last two boyfreinds. i ask her "do you like me more than a friend?" she then shook her head no. i dont know if that is the truth but deep down i dont think so. i told this to my guy friend Josh and he said he thinks Lara does like me more than a friend but afraid to tell me.
i just dont know what to do. i been asking questions and studying her body lagunage and searching for answers i am so trider of it. all i want is her to stop playing with my mind. i dont want to get over her but i have to. it is her trun to step up and tell me how she really feels. right?
You're definitely right.
yeah, it seems that it is something more than a friendship thing, because what i'm getting from you regarding her body language for example, sounds more like how i am with my boyfriend...
And there definitely shouldn't be any reasons for her to be pissed if you found someone. I'd get pissed when this girl would ask out my crush to our school dance for example.. haha! Yeah def sounds more than a frienship thing.
I can understand the statement about if you get a bf then you guys wouldn't be close anymore, because all in all time you'd spend with ur bf/gf would be less time you'd be with her... But thats normal. but the "I guess time will tell for the both of us"?... yeah, thats definitely out there.
It seems very possible that she does in fact have feeling for you, like you said, and she's just scared or nervous about it.
I'm sure you understand dealing with such feelings can be a little hard sometimes, and definitely confusing. But stil, she shouldn't be messing with you like that.
And as for telling her about a guy/girl you met, well since you two are friends just casually start the conversation about how you met this guy/girl, and think they're pretty nice or whatever. you know, just like a normal gals gossip thing. But right now i'm not certain if she'll actually give you a response which would clear things up, or just tell you again what she says she has.
Give me a day or so to think it over and also i'll iscus it with my partner in crime.. (haha!) and i'l let you know what we can come up with, and or a plan or something you could besides the trying to talk to her about it, which is obviously not working.. =/
But i'll let you know what you could do, because yeah, its definitely more than a friendship thing.
talk to you soon.
VB.
by the way, does she have a bf?
has she?
F/Bi/20
I like my best friend for 8 years. I told her i like her 4 months ago. she said i am fine with it but i dont feel the same way.
i try to move on, i went to a party and i meet this guy we played pool but after the party nothing happen. i told her that and she got jealous. one month later i ask her why she got jealous she kept on changing the subect. but she told me she was being over protactive. i even ask her if she likes me more than a friend. she shook her head no. but what i dont get is that we went to the movies together (as friends) and she started to lean her head on my arm. does that mean anything?
what should i do?
wow....
Thats definitely tough to decifer.
In one way, you have to consider and remember that you two are best friends. And also the amount of time that you two have been this way. I take it that you've been at least friends for eight years. And witht that, you also have to remember that with time frienship becomes more profound and one gets more and more closer witht the other. I know that when i'm with my friends we maybe hanging around and i may lean my head on her shoulder for a bit just because or because its just one of those moments that its more funny playful thing, and it can be done because you do feel comfortable enough with that person to do such things.
Also, there can as a matter of fact be jealousy between friends because of a third person.... Trust me, i've been there with my best friend. I started telling her about this guy i had hung out with and kinda liked, and she went crazy both protective and just jealous. She said that she didn't want to lose me. That i was her nessa...
Now, i'm going to tell you too that i am bisexual too. My friend, she definitely wasn't. and we just didn't like each other that way.
So it is possible that its just a frienship thing.
But... all in all, there's also the possibility that she may be experiencing a bit of curiosity about it... you know?
I'm really sorry i can't tell you its this or this clearly, but it just is definitely way too broad. Maybe try telling her about someone else, see how she reacts.... ? about either a guy or girl... see what her response is. Because seriously, the main thing thasts throwing me off, is the leaning on you on the theater. For how long..? I would say experiment with little thing, like i said above to see what she says or how she reacts...
Besides that, i'm not really sure what i could tell you =/
Best of luck!
VB
okay. I'm kinda freaking out right now.
let me start from the top...
on sunday the 21st of october, i started birth control for the first time. [[ One week ago ]] the Nuva Ring. and i'm supposed to wait for 1 week before having sex.
well last night my boyfriend stayed the night.. and well, we couldn't help ourselves. lol. and we had sex about 10 hours before it would be 7 days. so i waited 6 days and 14 hours... but we did use a condom. THEN this morning we did it again, in the heat of the moment, I just figured it would be fine. it had been 7 days. so we didn't use a condom [[ we were out of them anyway ]]
but i'm really nervous about the whole thing. If I get pregnant, it'll ruin both of our lives. we're only 17. [[ i know, 17 year olds shouldn't have sex ]] i've heard all the lectures. just please help!!
First of, calm down. =)
No matter the situation its always worse to freak out, trust me, i'm great at it.. its horrible! haha!
Anyway, I also tell you not to worry because i doubt it that you may be pregnant. Starting witht the time when you still had your period, i doubt that you did get pregnant considering that you were with your period and still had a a couple of days before ovulation happened again... and i'm also guessing that you used a condom that time as well...
And overall since you had been on the Nuva Ring for a week and also used a condom, there's double protection right there, you should be fine. and as for the next morning, i still think it should be ok.
Like the person below me said, birth control is never 100% effective... but it is 99% effective. At least you're taking that reponsability... =)
But you should be ok. To make sure you could go and try to take a pregnancy test in a couple of days.
Relax =)
Hope this helped
VB
When a guy feels you up, does he actually go inside your bra or just on the outside? And if he goes on the inside...what if your nipples get hard? Is that like not supposed to happen? Will the guys be like um....eww
Thanks in advance =P
To start let me tell you hun, guys LOVE it when a girls nipples get hard. definitely not something they go eww about! haha!
As for the actual feeling up, it can really go either way. It depends on the guy, and what he wants to do, and of course, on what you let him do. Usualy if a guy has the oportunity, he will go underneath the clothes to have a skin to skin contact/feel. But he can still just do it over them, its still sensual and erotic.... but yeah =) either way they go based on what you may let them do... haha!
Hope this helped!
VB
I have liked this guy for a couple of years, and i resently found out he likes me! but this other guy likes me too! infact, he tells me he loves me! (atleast once a day) he is sweet but he can really get on my nerves, and i met him and he started telling me he loves me before i knew about my crush liking me. but now i don't know who to pick! my crush, or the guy who (constantly) tells me he loves me! (tho he doesn't say it to my face, he just texts it) AG!!!
~confused in the game of love
I think your best bet is to go with with your crush...
obviously you have no feelings for the other guy that texts you that he loves you.... yeah, no.. haha!
Go with the guy you like and likes you back too! =)
best of luck!
VB
I'm 15 years old, female i live in Iowa. i've never liked the computer much, but for the past six months, ive been on it every night for an average of five hours and sometimes more. the reason-- i met this guy, he's 17 and he lives in california. the first time i met him, we talked for 14 hours straight. (not exagerating) he's so great.. i can talk to him about anything and i'm understood so well.. i can understand him too and he says he's never felt the way he feels when talking to me...this probably sounds creepy but it's honestly not. i really love him.. i don't know why. i just do. i know 15 is young to love and probably to young. i've never felt this way about a guy.. i look at other guys and see nothing in them, no future. i just want him. We both have these feelings and want to meet. i know it's dangerous. I've been warned about how he can be different in person or not even be what he says he is. also that he could rap/kidnap/kill me. I know all of the bad stuff that can happen yet i still want to see what could happen. I don't want to ask myself 5 years from now what could have happened if we did meet. Even through all of this, i'm scared alot. it's so hard to like someone so much who is so far away. is it wrong for me to want to meet him in person?... if not.. what should i do? >
Hey darling!
Let me start by saying that actually i've gone through what you're going through! Met this guy online, 2 yrs older than, and lived halfway across the country from me... and of course, that first night of talking it was bvious that there was this instat connection between us as we spoke endless hours into the night! haha! After that night we talked for several hours on a daily basis. and just like you say, we were able to talk to each other, and we just understood and wecould just talk and be. Acouple of months later wedecided it was time to meet.. We wanted to be together very badly. To meet in person. It was quite scary to tell you the truth. Specially snice he was older, he was the one who flew to me. I was a nervous wreck. I got the same talks about how do you know is his not this or that.. be careful... everything i'm sure you're getting. Any way though, to make long story short, in a few days we will be celebrating our 2yr annirsary together. It turned out that in person just like we did online, we clicked. And we were glad we took the decition to follow our feeling and go through what we went through.
Now the only difference is that i was 2 yrs older than you at the time.
Also, i don't know if you've talked sbout him to your parents. If they don't, it makes things a lot easier if they do know. I told my mom, and she wasa little shocked at first. But also, we became a couple before we were together in person. Mom knew about him, had talked to him and the whole deal. Which made it a lot easier when it came to arranging the meeting. As mom was the one who took me to the airport and the whole thing. Drove him to the house and or me to go pick him up at his hotel..
So obviously nothing really wrong with wanting to meet someone you have feelings for. I know i did, i absolutely loved him, and him me.. and we went from there. We were able to tell that our feelins were very true, even in person. haha!
If youhave any questions or anything you can contact me =) I'm an expert in this field! haha!
Best of luck!
VB
Yeah when it comes to parents its a little more tricky. the fact thet you're 15 makes a bit of a difference. and although he's only 2 years older than you, like my bf is and was, but older, the age difference makes it seem bigger the younger you are. So in that sence that's why parents are ery hesitant about the whole idea.
What I would suggest is give ita little bit of time. If you can, try to make it so maybe there's some kind of communication between the two....
I know it sounds crazy, lame and whatever but because of the situation is basically a necessity =/ haha trust me, if my mom hadn't felt that this guy really did love me, and had no intentions of harming me, by talking to him got to feel that his feeling for me were genuine.... lets just put it this way, she went and took me shopping for new cute clothes and whatnot specially for when we went to the airport to pick him up... haha!
But yeah, just talk to your parents about him, and let therebe an opening for talk between them. And don't push them too too hard, they'll come to their senses eventually and let you guys meet. Oh, and remind them that you wouldn't want to go alone, for them (1 or the other or whoever) that would go with you... Parents like being active in your life and mak sure you're ok... haha! duh... haha! But yeah =)
Any other questions you can email me too...
or let me know how its going! that'd be great! ..if you'd like haha! =)
"crazycurious555@aol.com"
=)
Best of luck! =)
how do you get a guy to want you more? like the expression always leaving them wanting more.
One word... Tease! haha!
It drives a guy absolutely crazy when you tease them... They desire you, want you, need you.. It turns them on so much! And just want you more and more. Can't stop thinkng of what you just said, or how you moved.. etc. =)
Good luck!
VB
I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I are still pretty young (37 and 33); we have two kids and WE HARDLY EVER HAVE SEX. Lately it's been once every three weeks. I know we are still attracted to each other and I know we are both faithful, it's just that being parents totally sucks all the energy from us. Any advice?
I can i magine That being a parent is pretty hard... I have taken care of my cousins on weeksends or perhaps just for a day sometimes and at the end of the day I'm just drained!
This is a bit of a tough situation. I would suggest trying to organize little getaways with your husband. You know just like they say you should have like a family night, i say take that idea and make it a romance ight.. That way you and your husband can be together at least once a week, be able to relax in each others arms and let the night take you away... preferrebly if the kids can stay with other family members or have little sleepovers or be babysat... Whatever works best =)
If this is not as easy to be able to do, you could try like after the kids are off to bed, maybe you and your husband can try going into the shower together.... bubble baths together.. you know? Doing little things that normally you would do, but making it a little more sensual by doing it together.. and at the same time its something that'll relax both of you...
Going along with that, you can try giving each other massages, use oils, put on a scented candel..etc. Just little things that might get you both in the mood, while also still relaxing the body even prior to an orgasm or anything. =)
Hope this helps! =) Best of luck!
VB
15-f: well ive been dating a guy for 4 months and my parents are divorced...My mom says that i cannot hangout with him outside of school unless he comes over and "has dinner with us" an she meets his parents as well. My dad told me that unless he's "putting a ring on my finger" then he doesnt have to meet him like the way my mom wants to. soo thats the only way i see him is on my dad's day's..and im not with him that much. I guess my question here is should u continue seeing him at my dads, or should he finally meet my mom...[ps]my mom and i dont get along at all.
Hey! =)
This is a bit of a rough situation, and i feel for you =/
But I personally believe that you probably should try to let your mom meet your boyfriend, no matter the relationship that you two have. It may be that you two don't get along smoetimes at all, but she is still your mom, and believe it or not, she's just trying to look out for you. She wants to be able to see the boy with whom her daughter is =) She probably is telling you that you can't see him unless.. ... ... (etc) because she doesn't want you off with someone that she doesn't know. you know? its just a way to look out for you and whatnot....
I can understand also for example what Grayson (Jordan) is saying... your mom is being a little more strict about it than your dad... but when it comes to the kids, specially girls and bfs, one always tends to be much more than the other. Plus, (i know you're going to hate this) but you are still only 15... and unfortunatelly bc of that, specially viewed through a mothers eyes, a 15yr old is still a baby, and just wants to protect her... just let her meet your bf =) what do you have to lose? if anything maybe your mom will finally be at ease and let you see him more freely =)
and back to Jordans case, well, he is at college, and is about 21 like he said.... and his gf is yet to meet his parents.. BUT what he failed to mention is that his gf's mother was a little troubled about him... and wanted to get to meet him and know him so that she'd let the two have a free open relationship and see each other whenever.... trust me, i know haha! cause i'm his gf... haha! and my mom first thing she wanted to do is meet this guy! and not until she did, did she get off our backs!
so just give it a try with her =)
otherwise, i guess do as you're doing and see him on your fathers days =) and if the relation continues, you're going to get older and then be able to do pretty much what you want =) k?
best of luck! =)
VB
my friend saw some girl on his profile on myspace
like the whole ilysfm jazz.
and i asked him why hed cheat on me.
and he said he isnt.
i dont know what to believe.
i even went on hers an she had his picture too saying how much SHE loves him.
i love him alot.
im really hurt.
i pretend to him that it was okay
[we didnt breakup]
i just pretended i was reassured.
why cant he be honest with me?
what do i do?
l:
Just because your bf has girls on his prifile doen't mean that he's cheating on you. Myspace is just a site where you can keep i touch with friends more easily, and perhaps meet new ones!
Don't be stressing about the people that are on it or not.
Consider this, do you have a myspace? If you do, don't you have male friends on it? and if you don't, don't you think that some would be?
I know that I have both guys and gals on my page...
and as fr the loving part... I love my friends! =) I tell them i love them all the time. =)
Doesn't mean i'm being with them... just means that i love them! =)
Give your bf the benefit of the doubt =)
Myspace is just for fun =) don't take it seriously =)
VB
Do guys enjoy doing second base/going up a girl's shirt/etc? Or do they do it to try and please the girl? Because I personally don't get anything out of it, so is it for the guy's sake?
awwww i'm sorry to hear you don't get anything from it.
But in general, you know how boys are, they love a girls body! they love getting a feel.. and all that.
And sometimes the girls might like the feeling...should be a mutual feeling really... But all in all, the guys difinitely love it! what can i say, boys will be boys... =/ haha
much love
VB
15/f
hi, i just turned 15 and i STILL havn't had a boyfriend, a kiss, or even a hug from a guy. I am shy around guys that i have a crush on, i'm not a mute, but i get kind of nervous. I have a lot of guy friends (who i like), but none of whom want to/will ask me out. I think i'm pretty, i have a good body, i'm nice, smart, have a sense of humor, and i am pretty easy going. Why don't i have a boyfriend?? it doesn't make sense to me. Can you explain it to me please?? (also, can u give me a few pointers on how to get a guy, that i like, to fall for me??)
Thanks!!
awww
ok. let me star by saying that just because yuo don't have boyfriend right now, is not the end of the world =)
Me? I didn't havee a boyfriend until i was 17! haha! It sounds crazy, u know. But trust me, it was worth the wait. I know it sounds cliche, but i'm serious! I've ben with the guy for over a year and a half now, and still going =)
Although of course, don't get me wrong, there were a lot of guys i kinda liked, and other that liked me... some that i kinda liked and others that wanted far away from me! haha! But just didn't click!
what i'm trying to say is, there's nothing wrong with you! Its just that the right guy hasn't come yet! =) But when he does, trust me =) you'll know =) hey, for example, after my bf and now meeting, less then two weeks later, we became a couple =)
so relax! =) that your prince sharming is soon to come =)
VB
16/f
i have found out reacently that i like girls.. but i dont really know ho to come out.. and when i do how do i get a grilfriend.. ?
Ok, to this i can definitely relate.
Actually, not too long ago i myself became to the realization that i was bisexual.
I know for a fact that this is one of the most nerveracking and cofussing things... trust me, i was.. but i turned to my best friend, to the person i knew i could talk and tell anything to... bu don't get me wrong, even talking to him was so hard! i didnt know how to bring it all out.. i had mentioned it and sort of beated around the bush... haha! But ten, one night, we got into conversation, and i told him that i believe i was a little more than just curious... And he was more than supportive =) Actually pretty much everyone that i have come out to are very supportive of it. i was nervous, didn't want o be judged or feel rejected, but not the case at all. Just go to whomever you trully feel confortable the most with. someone that you know will understand!
And about the girlfriend part, just meet new people. I actually went to true.com and other sites trying to explore and see if i could meet other girls friendships and all that. And said and done, i did meet a bunch of awesome gals =)
You just have to put yourself out there. Explore, meet, and sometimes, just go with the flow and take a little chance =)
much luck! hope i was of some help =)
VB
so i like this guy and i am pretty sure he like me blahblahblah the problem is now he knows i like him and its kind of awkward to be around him any ideas how to not make is so weird?????
Just act like you used to when around him! Act like no biggie! Because, it really isn't! =) hey, if he knows you like him, and he likes you.... make some magic!!! =D haha =) just act normal, have a litle fun with him, hey, if he know, look at it this way, know you don't have that burden on your shoulders about tellng him how you feel or him finding out.. blah blah blah.. you know? =) now you're free to flirt your heart out! =D
VB
there is this guy that i met this year. we started talking on instant messenger about a month ago. and he told me he liked me.
well that was fine. except, now he's getting really obsessive? annoying? stalkerish? he is just bothering me. and i feel bad that he likes me, but i just don't really want to talk to him anymore.
well, lately i've been sort of ignoring him, like i don't go on that instant messenger much anymore and try to avoid his eye contact as much as possible (same with talking.)
well he sent me an email about a half hour ago asking if i would like to go to the 8th grade dance with him. i am not sexually interested in this guy at ALL and i REALLY do not want to go with him.
the weird thing is, he KNEW i liked someone else before he even told me he liked me! why would anyone on earth tell their crush that they like them when they KNOW that, not only do they not like them, but they like someone else?!
anyway, do you think i should ignore the e-mail? or should i say "no" ? there are backfires to both. if i ignore the email, he will never know why i didn't respond. and if i say "no" he will be heartbroken.
in addition, he also even said once that i wouldn't go with him because i like someone else... i guess he was asking to make sure?
i really need help.
I believe you actually have it all quite figured out.
Like ou said, you coul ignore the email, but i believe that in the end would be just worse... unless you're already going with someone already, or try to find someone to with in the meantime... personaly though, I think you should email or try to talk to the guy whichever way you can. Tell him that you're really sorry but you're just going with a group of friends to the dance. That you're flattered but maybe he should try to ask someone else... And also try to get him to understand that you don't like him in that way. That you have feelings for someone else. And that you're sorry... but to you, you only see him as no more than a friend...
hope that helps =)
VB
So me and this guy that I'm talking to we cuddle a lot, but he only gives me these childish kisses. its annoying me, i want him to kiss me for real, but I'm going to let him come when the time is ready for him...i guess, what should i say for him to really kiss me, or do??? and he also works a lot like 12 hours a day, five days a week. Is that good??? he gets a lot of money, but i want more time with him, and there about to make him manager, is that going to make it worse????
ok, if you feel that he works a lot already and feel that you don't have enough time with him as it is, you're going to feel that him becoming a manager will be a little worse. I'm sure he'll have to work a bit more, and have more resposibility on his hands... but still, remember to be happy for him!
and about the kisses, i believe he's just trying to be cute... i can understand that it might be annoying, and you just want a nice big kiss... so just take the initiative! ...no, seriously, one of hose times that you two are cuddling, turn to look into his eyes, wrap your arms around him, get closer to him, and softly go for his lips..... phew! getting too caught up in the moment
let me know how it goes =)
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awwwww haha. ok, stading up? ...i guess pretty much the same..
when going for a little walk or something just look him in the eyes, holding his hand, and give him a soft little kiss on the lips. tease him a little bit too with little kisses... Use your eyes. before the kiss of course, because, you know, ohterwise that might be a little weird during... anyway, haha, use your eyes, tell him him that you love him... and go for it! =)
He might just absolutely love it! ...how's that?? =D
VB
ughhh .. idkk whats wrong .. if its me .. well i`m on my period .. O.o or if its him O.o i`m startin` to get mad at my boyfriend easily now, lik` .. sometimes he js ASSUMES things. but he plays around lik` that, he js says all these guys name lik` "tony" i dont know tony .. and i`m talkin` `bout my friend & her boyfriend problems... "gary" he`s my bestfriends boyfriend.. "chad" WTFF i DONT EVEN KNOW A CHAD. he`s my boyfriend, then why is he namin` all these guys ??? to me .. i think he plays around too much .. and i tell him, but he seems not to notice that.. and thats it hurtin` me. so i`m not sure if its him or me, i get mad about it though... please help me .. :[
hey there...
ok, i definitely have been here lol sometimes my bf gets me mad soooo easily, and with like the smallest of things. But, specially since you mentioned it, i believe i definitely has a lot to do with your period, and hormones.... and all of their crazyness...
Even though your bf may just be playing and kidding around with you though, still try to sit him down and explain to him how ur feeling. Like really make him listen and try to understand....
well, good luck! =)
hope everything gets better =)
let me know how it goes =)