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FROM:does this mean something
Hello, thank you for your advice. You ask how long did she (lara) lean her head on my shoulder. well almost the whole movie. she then sometimes didnt do for a while, then a few seconds later she will do it. she always leans on me before i told her how i felt about her. sometimes there were times that she will try to hold my hand. and last time she hold my arm and lean her head at the same time.
so i am a little confused. i was thinking about telling her that i met a guy or girl. but i dont know how to start it off. the thing is when i told her i met that guy at the party she got jealous and said "i dont know if i should be happy or pissed. i guess time will tell for the both of us" and "if you get a boyfriend we wont be close anymore"
you might be right that its a close friendship, but i have a friend that i knew for 11 years and when i or we talk about guys she never acted like Lara did.
Lara told me she was jealous of my last two boyfreinds. i ask her "do you like me more than a friend?" she then shook her head no. i dont know if that is the truth but deep down i dont think so. i told this to my guy friend Josh and he said he thinks Lara does like me more than a friend but afraid to tell me.
i just dont know what to do. i been asking questions and studying her body lagunage and searching for answers i am so trider of it. all i want is her to stop playing with my mind. i dont want to get over her but i have to. it is her trun to step up and tell me how she really feels. right?
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You're definitely right.
yeah, it seems that it is something more than a friendship thing, because what i'm getting from you regarding her body language for example, sounds more like how i am with my boyfriend...
And there definitely shouldn't be any reasons for her to be pissed if you found someone. I'd get pissed when this girl would ask out my crush to our school dance for example.. haha! Yeah def sounds more than a frienship thing.
I can understand the statement about if you get a bf then you guys wouldn't be close anymore, because all in all time you'd spend with ur bf/gf would be less time you'd be with her... But thats normal. but the "I guess time will tell for the both of us"?... yeah, thats definitely out there.
It seems very possible that she does in fact have feeling for you, like you said, and she's just scared or nervous about it.
I'm sure you understand dealing with such feelings can be a little hard sometimes, and definitely confusing. But stil, she shouldn't be messing with you like that.
And as for telling her about a guy/girl you met, well since you two are friends just casually start the conversation about how you met this guy/girl, and think they're pretty nice or whatever. you know, just like a normal gals gossip thing. But right now i'm not certain if she'll actually give you a response which would clear things up, or just tell you again what she says she has.
Give me a day or so to think it over and also i'll iscus it with my partner in crime.. (haha!) and i'l let you know what we can come up with, and or a plan or something you could besides the trying to talk to her about it, which is obviously not working.. =/
But i'll let you know what you could do, because yeah, its definitely more than a friendship thing.
talk to you soon.
VB.
by the way, does she have a bf?
has she?
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