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Don't know what to do about this 18 year old guy
Before I start I want to tell you guys that I am 15 about to be 16 in July, and I'm a female...^^
So my two friends and I went to the mall one day, and we were shopping at Hot Topic and this 18 year old guy started talking to us. We started hanging out and we started flirting with each other. He asked for my number and I gave it to him.
And let's just say my mom wasn't happy to the fact that he was 18 and I gave him my number. I really like him, but I have this weird feeling...my mom keeps telling me that she doesn't want me going out with him (which I understand why) but I really do like him and I want to just be friends with him. My mom doesn't even want that. He calls me cute girl, beautiful, things like that, and my friend from Europe told me that her friend got raped from an 18 year old and he was doing the same things that my 18 year old is doing to me.
I asked my friends what I should do because I don't know why he even wants to be my boyfriend because A) I'm a freshmen (though i should be a 10th grader) and B) I'm 15!! What does he want with me?
I really don't know what to do because I really do like him, but I know my mom doesn't like him though she hasn't met him. I want to get my mom to let me hang out with him, and meet him, but...I don't know if hanging with him and all that is the right thing...what do you guys think?
If anyone can give me advice on what to do, or even if hanging out with him is the right think, please help...
So thanks in advance! ^^ Oh! Before I forget, he has already finished high school...XD That's all the info I think I can remember..
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since your getting a weird feeling then just leave it...the fact that he is 18 and your 15 (i dont care if your turning 16;nothing personal) it is bad..and im not saying he is too old cause he is just two years older, but i am saying you are a minor and he is an adult,,it is illegal, dangerous, and you should probably listen to your mom..he is probably just after one thing and he could seriously hurt you...since you are getting a weird feeling that is probably not a good sign...that might be your instincts kicking in telling you that he is harmful...i hope i helped!!
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Mainln thing i can etll you is leave things right where they are. The fact that you say you're getting a weird feeling is a sign. Trust yourself... In general it all doesn't sound too good of a situation. Overall it doesn't sound good hun.
I would advice you to just forget this guy and move on with your life. I don't know, for some reason, even though i don't know him or anything, he just doesn't sound like good news to me... specially since you're getting that weird feeling about it all as well.
Be careful hun, because yeah, its true. Some guys out there are really just looking for their next victim, or just because of how young you are compared to him, they take advantage of that =/
Not trying to lecture you, but unfortunately its the truth.. =/
Take care..
VB
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