Q: Well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I still love him a lot. But he's going out with another girl. Im still crazy about him and I really want him back. Should I wait around for him or try to move on? ..Oh, and I've heard from a bunch of people that his girlfriends gonna dump him for his best friend which is really low and I wanna tell him but he'll just get mad at me and say that I'm just trying to break them up so I can get him back.. should I tell him and risk the chance of losing our friendship but keep him from getting hurt or should I not tell him and keep our friendship but have him get hurt? Thanks in advance.. Kellie

Q: I was really upset about something a guy friend (or so I thought) did to me.
Well I have a mental illness (schizophrenia) and am on a small disablility pension. I don't just sit around on my ass, I volunteer at the food bank and other places to keep me busy.
Well I went to visit my friend at his work one day. And all of a sudden, for no reason at all he starts saying the meanest things to me, like that I was living off the system and wasnt going to better my life. When I started crying and said he was being judgemental he said "you needed to hear this", in the meanest voice.
I havent been back to see him and he hasnt phoned to apologize. I even heard that he has been talking to his friends about me spazzing out.
Why he is being so mean? Do I have a right to be upset or am I overeacting? And should I even give him a second chance?

Q: me and my bf hace a weird relationship. you see we just started dating and he lives 1/2 an hour away from me. and i really like him. adn this weekend i went to a b ball game at my school against his school. he wasnt there cause he had to stay home. well my best friend, who is a guy and also like my brother was there and i gave him a back rub cause his back hurt. whenever someone wondered if we were dating i would be like hell no. adn now everyone knows that. well apartently 4 people told my bf that i was all over my "bro" but i wasnt. so we broke up. and snowball is comming ulp and he said we can go as friends still. but i want to be with him. and everyone that was at the table told him that i wasnt all over him. adn he said hell think about it. and when i went to a game to talk to him tonight. he wouldnt talk to me and i was behind him for a while. i dont know what to do. pleez help. ill rate high.

Q: ok. 15/f
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. but jwe broke up about 2 weeks ago. is there a way i can keep him as my friend but not cry myself to sleep.

Q: ok help help....im thinking about getting my boyfriend one of those dog tag things with our picture on it what else should i say thanks xoxo

Q: Hi,. Does anyone know of a web site that can help you obtain passwords of a family member that uses the same computer.? I thought there was one called big brother or something close to that, please help. need to bust him, the wife.

Q: i like this guy and we're really good friends and we used to talk all the time. i told one of my best guy-friends i liked the guy and i had him tell him how i felt. it turns out the guy i like liked me back. but a few days later, he got another girlfriend! and he doesnt even know her..they dont make that great of a couple. ever since he got a girlfriend, he hasnt talked to me at all and we used to be so close. he ignores me all the time. when i see him in the halls and i say hi to him, he ignores me and he rarely talks to me in class. its just weird that he said he liked me and now he has another girlfriend. at first when he found out i liked him, things were fine, but then he started to go out with this other girl. i just want to know whats going on and why he told my other friend he liked me and then got another girlfriend. but since we arent exactly talking much lately i dont know what to do. i dont have much time to talk to him in school anyways. i wrote him a note saying how i felt but i dont know if i want to give it to him because it could just make things worse. i havent been having the best of luck with guys lately. i dont know what to do and if i should tell him how im feeling. thanks for the help

(highschool female)

Q: is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship?

Q: I'm male, 17, and in high school.

Two of my friends, let's call them Enrique and Polly, went out for about nine months. Enrique is probably my best friend, and during this time, I became good friends with Polly as well. Recently (a few months ago or so), they broke up, and they've both gone through ups and downs, getting back together, breaking up again, dating other people, etc. Finally, it seems that they've really broken it off. I hang out with both of them a lot, but separately, because they feel awkward together. And I'm starting to get the impression that Polly likes me.

Now, the complicated part. I've had a purely physical (f-buddy) relationship with a girl I know, let's call her Edna, for the past month or so. We've made out many times and had sex once, and the tricky part is that we're both emotionally shy, and I'm not sure how she feels about me. She may want something more out of the relationship, and I'm confused as to whether she just wants an open thing going like we already have or if she would care if I dated someone else.

Unfortunately, long story short, Polly and I ended up making out. We got caught up in the moment and a lot of feelings came out, but now I'm in an unusual place. Polly feels that we need to tell Enrique. Enrique is going to be very upset when he hears this. As an added element, I'm worried about what Edna will think, since I'm not sure what she wants out of our relationship. I'm really confused as to what I should do here.

Q: Okay...well I've been dating this wonderful guy....*Mark* for 4 months now..and we haven't even made out. Yeah..sounds pathetic I know, but we cuddle and hug and you know...it's nice, but I just can't bring myself to make the first move..I'm so shy and so is he...HOW...help please

How the heck do I just know when to make out with him


Driving me nutsss

Q: I have a boyfriend and hes 2 years older than me and i know he kissed people. The problem is i never kissed anyone and i dont wanna mess up and like make a fool of myself and i dont want to tell him i never kissed before so i need help !How do you kiss?.. =/
i rate 5's

Q: Heyy!,

Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!

Q: theres this guy.. and i think he likes me. how do i turn him on?

Q: There is a formal dance coming up soon at my school. And my boyfriend already told me that he wanted me to ask him(since i'm taking him..bc he's in 11th grade and the dance is for 9 + 10). I want to ask him in a really cute/different way. Does anyone have a idea that would be really cute? Thank you so much! I rate high!!

Q: seriously!
this one annyoying guy who likes me..
keeps talking to this other guy i like!
its my life!
hes never going to have me.
hes a idiot.
iv'e been telling him to not talk to the other guy.
and he wont stop!
I HATE HIM!
and i already said yes to going to winter formal with him.
and OMG.
13female by the way.
PLEASE HELP ME.
how am i going to break up the date with the idiot.
and how am i going to let the other guy no im single and like him.
i seriously rate 5s.
i promise!
even if your advice sucks.
kthanks.

Q: Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do?

Q: What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

Q: So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do?

Q: 15/f & 16/m (both are 16)

***THIS IS LONG!!***

I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.

Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.

*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.

*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much.

Q: does anyone have or know or know where i can find any good love poems for teens?
im searching google, but i cant find ones that arent so....for older people. lol.

5's for good assistance =]

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