HEY EVERYONE THIS IS A PICTURE OF ME AND MY BOYFRIEND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH ANYWAYZZ IM 14 YEARS OLD I THINK I GIVE PRETTY GOOD ADVICE AND I LIKVE TO ANSWER PEOPLEz QUESTIONS!! SO ANYONE CAN ASK ME SOMETHING AND I WILL NOT THINK OF ANYONE AS DUMB OR THEY HAVE A DUMB QUESTION SAY ANNYTHING AND I WILL TRY AND GIVE U THE BEST SULOTION !!
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this is for everyone to answer.
what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?
i just wanna get some ideas. thanks. (link)
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i had my first boyfriend when i was in 4th grade so i was like 9. i had my first kiss when i was 12 or 13!!
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umm today i was talking to this guy on the phone who i like alot but someone very close to me is going out with him and well he said something to me that makes me think he likes me too but i don't know if he thought it was his girlfriend or if he likes me too and well what do you think (link)
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well if you guys are open about things just ask him what he thinks about you!
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My boyfriend is cheating on me and he is totally affensive about the whole thing i woult like to know how could you break the love of your life heart with out breaking yours thanks holla atb me (link)
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theres nothing else to do beside break up wit him you sooo deserve better!!! HEs prolly just another asshole guy lol!! i hate guys who cheat and anounce it!! weell hope i helped buhbyebuyz muah!!
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ok well i went out with this guy for almost 8 months and then we broke up and went out again but my parents really dont like him and everytime i wanted to do something with him i had to lie and i got sick of it so i dumped him. Now he keeps telling me im a pussy for not wanting to get in trouble, he says he can't be my friend either because he can't have friends that are pussys (come on how immature) and hes just being a really big dick about it! my question is should i just 4get about him or try to talk to him so we can at least stay friends? Thanks in advance! (link)
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uhnn.. if hes gunna treat you like that he needs to go you dont need a guy like that!! ok hope i helped buhbye!MUAH!!
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RESPOND TO ASAP :)
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out 1 month this tuesday. but the only thing we've done is cuddled and like 1 kiss. it was just a peck too. :( he thinks i've made out before, EVERYONE does.. maybe because i told them i have. just because i didnt want to seem like a loser. so everyone thinks ive madeout before, so my boyfriend matt is really wondering why im not making out with him. well i just, dont know what to do. when i kissed him two wednesdays ago, i just like kept my mouth half open, because i never knew like, what i should do.. so then yeah idk tonight we're going to a football game, and football games are makeout central, and i know he wants to make out with me.. and i know hes gonna start to, but i dont know what to do!
HELP. ASAP (link)
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Hehe i have a brother named matt lol anywayzz youll no what to do it just is natural i think!! Ive only made out with one guy and i new i didnt no what i was doing but everything turned out fine!! But if you dont want to do it you dont have to!!! ok hope i helped buhbye MUAH!!oh and just incase you might be going out with muh brother his name is Matthew Blackwelder heheh prolly not tho but that does sound like him with his girl friends
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how do i get the guy i like who kinda likes me too to ask me 2 homecoming if its this saturday? (link)
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Start talking to him!! omg yehh and like tell him you like him and then like try and learn things about him maybe call him umm..then mention the dance!! ok hope i helped hope you go to homecoming w/ him hehe buhbuy!! muah!!
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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong (link)
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Yehh im i dont think it is wrong but i do think its wrong if your going out and doing it im also 13/f as well and i really think its wrong for some one our age to be involved in sexual intercourse!! ok i really hope i helped buhbye*!*~MUAH*~*
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ok theres this boy in my school whos in 6th grade and im in 8th. hes really shorter then me to. i dont have a crush on him but theres just something about him and i cant get him off of my mind, what should i do? (link)
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Well just stay friends with him and if things go right you might find yourself going out with him dont worry what thers sayeither i mean my friend has been going out with this guy for almost 2 years and shes in 10th and hes in 8th and there relationship is just fine!!ok hopei helpe!!! buhbye!!*~*MUAH*~*
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is having sex before marriage a sin (link)
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Well it depends on what religon you are and what your beliefs are!! I dont really believe in sex before marrage!! Ok well hope i helped buhbye!! *~*MUAH*~*
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Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice! (link)
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Wel maybe you shouldnt go out with him!! Since your getting bored hehe!! Im also 13 and i get bored of guys really easy to!! But i did meet this one dude and i dun think i could ever get bored with him lol!! But i dun thin ur a lezbo or anything i think you just havent found the right guy yet and believe me youll find him sooner or later!! I know what your going threw the and if you need any more advice go ahead feel free to ask!! Ok well i really hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
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Welll just tell her you love her!! Tell her the reasons why you love her!! Also like ask her out somewhere were you guys can be alone and tell her how you feel about her!! Ok well i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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i broke up wit my exgirl a couple months ago but i cant stand bein away from her i want her back i feel like i cant live wit out her wut should i do? (link)
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Ask her back out and see what happens if she still likes you she should say yes!! I think its cute how you say you cant live with out her just make sure she hasnt moved on to another guy tho!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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OK my ex boyfriend calls me everyday to talk about his day. He slips in a sentence about me and him then he talks about his girlfriends. Yes that is plural. He has more than 1. He asks me to rate him on how hot he is on a scale from 1-10. I rate him a 7 and a half. He has a nice body but he's not niice to me when we date. This guy, does he still like me or not? I rate! Sorry so long. We had a relationship for 2 months before I found out he cheated on me. (link)
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Yeah i think he still likes you if he calls you and talks bout stuff!! But i think he wants to know if you still lik him and he askes you this by asking you to rate him on how hot he is!! Ok i hope i helped!! But if he askes you back out i think you should turn him down cuz once a cheater alwayz a cheater!! Ok i hope i helped if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!! *~*MUAH*~*
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I really like this guy and well I try to tell myself that I don't. I have been going out with him on and off for a few years and well everytime we go out after a while he likes another girl and he goes out with her (he's done this twice to me) and so he breaks up with me.. we are still friends and talk but it kills me and I try to tell myself I don't like him because he's sorta a "player" but I don't know what to do...?? (link)
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uhnnn.. not to be rude but you deserve better!! That means hes just breaking up wth you for some one he likes better which is dumb!!I say dont stay with him!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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There is this kid I liked since the fourth grade and now i'm 13 and he is nice and we hang out together in school and stuff. But sometimes he doesn't want anything to do with me and tells me off then he'll be nice again. No matter what I do I can't stop liking him. What should I do about liking him and about our relationship?? I'll rate high!
Signed, Confused Cutie (link)
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Itz sooo cute that you liked him that long but since you guys have been friends maybe you should stay that way cuz ussually if you guys were to break up for some reason you guys will stop talking to each other and prolly not forgive each other!! Soo stay friends and dont hurt your friend ship!! Hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!
I rate high!
Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
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Omg thats crazy that your sister would do that to you!! But i think you deserve better and once a cheater alwayz a cheat espesually if hes done it to you twice!! Your in love with him but i dun think he feels the same way about you!! Not to be mean but i think you should dump his ass you deserve so much better!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help! (link)
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Just tell him how you feel if he likes you he shouldnt think what you say to him is corny!! Just show your love for him!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three months. He lives a town away from me, but we still barely ever see each other, and for some reason he barely calls anymore. What do i do to make myself feel better about the relationship? (link)
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Well i think you should call him and talk things threw and ask him why he hasnt called lately!! Maybe you should some how go down there and visit him!! Im sure he would like that!! Well i hope i helped you out!! *~*MUAH*~*
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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Maybe you should give him another chance!! But i dont think it was right that he didnt say anything for a while!! He should of said something!! I think he really likes you tho!! Maybe you should call him back!! But i think he should of called you back first!! I hope things work out and i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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I dont think itz a problem i know alot of people who do that!! Who carez what others say about your relationship becuase hes younger!! If you really love him then stay with him!! I hope i helped!!*~*MUAH*~*
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