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hi, we have been together for a 3 and half years now. we love each other and we live together. he's a single father and he has a kid with his ex girlfriend. it's just that sometimes when i hint him to buying me a ring or does he see me marrying me in the future he always replies by saying, ''u never know'' or he just changes the subject with a smile, which i don't understand. i'm thinking now, he's not that serious about me even though he says he loves me and sees us in the future. so, guys if a guys changes a subject, what exactly does he thinking? thanks (link)
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Ok. Apparently he dosen't want to talk about the marriage subject yet if he keeps on avoiding the question. Most men are scared to get married because its more effort. And most think it just complicates your relationship. When they think about marriage they think forever with a person. They might don't want to admit that they're scared, but dnt keep pestering him with the subject... It might get him annoyed and probably ends up becoming into an argument.. So every now or then try to bring it up, but not occassionally.. Give him time to think a little more (: also, Be PATIENT !
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So my current boyfriend is the best boyfriend I have ever had. He treats me like I am his princess and I could never ask for anyone better. but because my ex boyfriend treated me so badly i.e. cheated on me many times, hit me once, made me feel worthless and that no one wants me and just horrible things that i've gotten over and feel better about myself because i know he just did all that to manipulate me to keep me with him. and that's why i kept going back to him, because he was so good at manipulating me. and we've been broken up for a while and i have my new amazing boyfriend that my best friend set me up with. but just because of that past relationship. i'm just a little on edge that it will happen again. i am able to hold it in and think about it most of the time and talk about it if i really think its something to worry about, but he still talks to his ex girlfriends who he was both with for 2 years each. its nothing inappropriate but just from past experience it gets me worried. i just really need advice (link)
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My advice to you is to talk to him. He can't read your mind, the only way for him to understand is for you to communicate with him. Tell him how you feel about the situation an maybe he can help assure you that the things in your previous relationship won't happen in this one. (:
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Long story short...
Been dating a guy since September. Made it "official" the beginning of this month. After a few beers tonight, we were in his bed and he told me he loved me. I know it wasn't to get laid because that happened before we were even dating. So i'm thinking it was mostly because of the alcohol tonight. I did say it back, i think i messed up there because I do like him a lot but not on that level. I am about to sound dumb as hell for asking this but What could I say to apologize for not meaning it? (link)
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Well I disagree with the person who gave the advice to not say anything. I believe that you should tell him the truth because if he finds out later that you really didn't mean it, its going to hurt him more. To put in better terms, say if yall switch positions and you was in his shoes.... Wouldn't want to know that he didn't mean it instead of being lied to...?? If you really want that relationship to work, being honest with him and yourself is one of the key points to make your relationship sucessfull. (:
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what do you do if your best friends steals your crush what do you do or tell her ???? (link)
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Well , i would tell my bestfriend how i feel about the situation and how i feel about him .. And hope she understands .
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so today i was talking to my ex and he started telling me he loved me and things and i didnt no what to do so i said u2 and i have a bf so he thinks im goin to break up with my bf for him but im not goin to and i dont wanna be mean to him because hes really sweet and i care about him alot but i just dont know what to do (link)
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My advice for you is to tell him how you feel about him and that your not going to break up with your bf to go with . Because whether or not he's going to figure out anyways . But , it's up to you to tell your bf about this .. It may be best for you not to , but , maybe it is for him . Think about his feelings too . But , i think you should hurry up and tell your ex , before it's too late ..
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so i used to work with this guy who is 2 years older than me, and we got along really well. he dated a girl for 2 years and i thought they were going to get married, but they broke it off last summer. she was super gorgeous and i'm not haha. well i've been helping him with some church stuff and we got to see each other (we both quit our jobs in september of last year). so we asked me to lunch and we just talked about life and stuff no big deal. but he paid for my lunch, he also talked about this girl that wanted to spend one-on-one time with him, he said he didn't spend alone time with girls -yet he was with me? he told me, "you're different i've known you!" and then later tht night he posted a status "it came out a little country, but it was right on the money" he has never posted a song lyric in a status lol. i know that's looking far into it, but i need help. i'm crazy about this boy, but does it seem like he likes me? i'm not even as pretty as his last girl, she was drop dead gorgeous!! (link)
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Well my advice for you is to , spend more time with him and see how he reacts from spending more time with you and see how it goes from there . Andd maybe he dosen't see his ex-girlfriend as drop dead gorgeous , maybe just in your eye's ?? (:
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21 female. Nick 18
So I have known Nick forever. We just haven't always been close the whole time. Well recently we started hanging out more. But just this last week I was up at my cousins cabin and Nick's family cabin is right down the street (my aunt and uncle are good friends with nicks dad and step mom) and me and Nick were together all the time. He even slept with me every night.
I am starting to fall for him. I know he likes me cause he tells me. He's the sweetest guy and hes not like any other guy. He respects me and treats me like a princess. He doesn't try to hook up with me, he only cuddled with me all night when we slept together. He holds my hand and hugs me tight and reminds me of how beautiful he thinks I am every day.
The only thing that is holding me back from dating him is that he's 3 years younger than me. I just feel so weird and sort of like an idiot for going for a guy 3 yrs younger than me. I'm scared of what people will say or think -even my family. What do you guys think? Should this hold me back from dating him? Does it seem wrong?
Any advice is welcomed!:) (link)
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I personally think you should go out with him.. Like i always hear "Age is nothing but an number" If he makes you feel special and treats you right that all should matters .. And your family and friends should not be mad or any thing about this because like i said all that should matter is that he treats you right and you really like him and stuff . And it should'nt matter what people think it's not like their the one who wants to date him and it's your love life not theirs . (:
P.S. I hope you choose to go out with him he sounds like a really great guy i will be sad for you if you choose not to go with him, not every girl gets a guy like this .. Trust Me ! (: Good Luck !
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There's this guy I know, he's a year older than me, but we're going into the same grade (I'm twelve, he's almost thirteen). I'm going to get this out right now: I have a HUGE crush on him. Last year, he always paid me special attention, like making sure I was the first to sign his yearbook and sitting down next to me or near me every day in class. I'm really shy and unpopular ( I am what most would call a genius with a high IQ), and there's this other popular girl who likes him too. What can I do next year so we can be more than friends? Thank you :) I'll feel a lot better when I get a reply. (link)
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Well , When iWas 12 i had a crush on a boy and he was also was an year older than me and we was in the same grade and lets say i was in the same situation you in to tell you the truth i really had ah BIG CRUSH on him and some how he found out.. But soon he started ignoreing me and stuff and i started to think it was too late to tell him how i felt about him.. And that folowing year he asked me out ! (: iWas like oh my gosh ... So , my advice for you is be your self around don't act any diffrent or try to be popular because another girl that is popular like him .. Tell him how you feel about him before it's too late like i thought it was for me ... (:
P.S. Good Luck ! (:
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My boyfriend and i have been together since 2mths..
i love him alot..he is gud 2 me and says he is serious wid me 2..
whenever we meet he is nice to me but once daily life routine starts he stops texting me..
i really gt annoyed wid his behaviour..
and everytime he has a excuse ever ready with him..
what you think should i cope up with him cuz i love him or move on without him? (link)
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To be honest i dont think you should break up with him .. I think you should have a conversation about it and tell him how you feel about and say when he have something and involves him stop texting you just tell him to text you that he haves to go or something .. And that should handle the situation (:
Love, Neice(: P.S. Hope everything goes well ! (:
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well i broke up with this guy for another guy that i had liked for 2 yrs and now i feel like i messed it up the one guys name is caleb and i really really like him but i think he hates me now i was textn him the other day and tld him how i felt about the sittuation n he was like well ive been through it and itll get better trust me and i dont think it will i think i just lost the guy im inlove with can someone please help me asap ..
~alysaaaa (link)
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Ohkayy. iThink you might be over reacting bhut in a good way kind of.. But back to your question.. well , if he tells you that it will get better i don't think he hates i think he's trying to help the situation. My advice is to calm down and look over the situation and jus forget it and talk to the boy you like or the one you want back and tell him how you feels and see if that helps...
Love,Neice (: P.S. Hope everything goes well. ! (:
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Is it legal for a 15 year old to date or have sex with an 18 year old in the state of Florida? (link)
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yes it is
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I like this boy but am scared to tell him that i like him to his face...so i have decided to slip love notes into his locker until valentines day then tell him that i was the one who wrote them...Is this a good idea? Does anyone think it is cute and that he would like this? Thnx in advance!!14/F (link)
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um in my eyes kinda but not really but the best thing to do is jus ask sum 1does he lik u and stuff stead of making a fool of your cause he might dont like you but its a chance you got to make but every thing is up 2 you but i think the best thang to do is jus ask him or tell 1 of your friends to ask him though like i said stead of just waiting on valintines day and he ends up not liking you
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For sometime now, I have been talking with someone online, and we just met for the first time in person...we had a really great time that night, and he even kissed me and we slept in the same bed together...but in the morning, he would kind of snub all affection I would try to give him, like he didn't want to be touched in any way...until the next night came, and then we would be kissing again...I have been in a situation before where I mistook genuine feelings that could lead to a real relationship for just wanting sex and nothing more, and I am terrified that it may be happening again...am I just being paranoid and nit-picky about myself, or was I giving too much affection too soon? And if I am (which I actually think I was giving too much) then what should I do to let him know that I didn't mean to be clingy? (link)
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ok so this is what you need to do the next time you see him give him a slightly kiss just let him chase after you ok now if yall sleep together you do the same thing he did to you but dont be to quick just ease off a little and be the first one to go to sleep well just pretend
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okay, so this year i ride the bus with this kid, peter right? and he's always like tickling me and touching me and playing with my hair and we're friends and stuff, but i don't know him that well at all so i wouldn't know if he's just a flirty guy or whatever. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior. no, that doesn't bother me, but that's the reason i can't tell if he's just a flirty guy or not. we talk about everything on the bus. and i like having guy friends, so i always talk about my guy friends and funny stories from when people texted me that night. apparently he thought i had a boyfriend because i was doing a "group" dress up kind of thing for halloween right... and with a guy. i really like him, i flirt back, but he still doesn't text me. and if i text HIM sometimes he doesn't text back. it's so stupid!
anyways, last week he asked me this question: "okay hypothetic question. what if you really really like this girl, and she likes you. but she has a boyfriend? and she's a junior." and of course i totally thought he was talking about someone ELSE, not me. so of course, knowing my luck, and how jealous i was, i gave him this advice "if she's older than you, she probably just wants to hookup or maybe her boyfriend isn't paying attention to her or whatever?" and so that was that. he let it be. the next day he ignored me. the next day, he flirted with me again. the next day, this kid i sit next to on the bus, chris was like "so courtney... how's your boyfriend" and i was like..."i don't have one..." and then i could hear chris and peter having this conversation:
chris-"i thought she did"
peter-"she told me that" (i never did.)
later on that same day i asked chris why he thought i did, and chris said that peter told him that i said i had a boyfriend which is NOT true.
so, what do i do?
thanks in advance (link)
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i would just go up to peter and say y did you think i had a boyfriend and i never told you that and later that nite txt him wat do i do if i lik this boy and and he is a sophmore and say that you think that he likes you 2 but for sure and c if he txts bac
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My bf of 4 years told me to take a break about three days ago...i dont understand why he would ask me that bcoz he was the one who messed up..we constanly aruged becoz his girl friends from school kept texting him, and it really bothered me alot..i even cried and told him that i dont appreciate them texting you and he seemed to not do anything about it...so we got into this really deep arugement about the girls texting him....n now he wants a break..i dont understand why he would want to take a break instead of trying to change and work things out for me....He thinks that since we been together for long and wanna get married in the future that its ok for him to take advantage of me and do wat he wants bcoz imma always be with him..idk what to do.....im just really mad that he taking a break with me... (link)
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if he wants to take a break he dont really like you so you can do better than him and you is rite he do not appreticate you and he is just taking advantage of you and there is many boy in the world that is better than that JERK!!!!!!
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alriqht well theres this boy haha. we've hung out in a group of people once or twice.. i know he thinks im cute but he thinks alot of girls are cute..(hes a flirt) i havent kissed him even though i want too. he deffinitly doesnt like me but i know he wants too hook up & shyt. hes not a player though because hes had long relationships before. problem is his best friend LIKES ME. therefore if we do hang out in a group like nothing could happen for that reason anyways. so how do i become "girlfriend" material and not just a cute hook up buddie? =( (link)
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just ask one of your freinds to see if he likes you or not and if he do like you just make him jealous by going out with his freind and that will make him go crazy about you then if he dont like you make him jealous anyways for fun
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Hi guys. 17 f
So im new at my job and so is this guy. We met first becuase we had a lunch break together, but then my time changed and now I work in the morning and he works at night. So I get to see him like 2 minutes before I leave when he comes in. And we can't stop and talk becuase he needs to go to his job. Well anyway I had an idea that I should ask him to borrow his phone just to make convo with him. He's really sweet, and nice. He's super nice to me and I don't know if he's into me. Becuase we barely see eachother and never have time to talk. If I tell him about my feelings maybe he will be creeped out becuase we've only spoken like 3 times and he like smiles at me wen he sees me. But that's all. I just saw him right now going into the job and I yelles his name and said hi. And he turned around and asked me if I was doing working and I said yes and he smiled and said bye. I really wish we could talk more but I can't tell him that. He might think im weird or something. Btw we work at CVS and he's 20 im 17 soon 18. Okay thanks soo much. Btw I like him a lot. But I think he's clueless. (link)
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just tell somebody who works the night shif to ask the man do he likes u and the person will tell you if he lkes u or not
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I have a huge problem! My parents will never accept my boyfriend because he's not Mexican (like me). Actually none of my family approves (cousins annts ect.)! The only person who has accepted it is my older sister and my family is mad at her for it even. I'm afraid this will tear me away from my family,
Is he ever worth that? I'm 15, he's 16, and we've been together for 3 months. I don't LOVE him but I like him a lot. Should I just break up with him because I heard family comes first and I don't want my family to break up because of this! (link)
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well actually its your choice but i think a guy is not worth for your family so i think you should brake up with him because nobody can replace your family but somebody can replace your boyfriend but talk to your family and tell them its not right to judge somebody of there skin and tell them how u feel
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so i'm 15/f and i've been dating a 16 year old guy for over 4 months now. I've never felt this way about anyone, and I love him more than anything. But recently my mom and stepdad have been dissing him.. today we were supposed to hang out, but my mom said i couldn't because of a lame excuse,, then 20 minutes later i asked her if i could go to my friends house, and she was like yeah sure, thats fine. she's been acting like this for a while now, and every time i'm on the phone with him, she gets aggravated and wants me to get off..i'm afraid this will drive us apart, and i don't want to lose him...me and my mom aren't very close and don't usually discuss my relationships, she says i'm too young, but iknow i'm not. I love him.. What shoudl i do? (link)
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well just talk to your mom and say your not too young because your a teenager and thats what moms and daugters do talk about the daughter relationships so tell her u bet she had a boy friend and just tell her how you fell
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