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hey im taryn.i would love to help with whatever is bothering you.just give me a message and i will totally answer it the best i can!
ive had a lot of experiences with many mistakes,but in them; i have learned important lessons in which i use to help you guys avoid.
~i hope i help~
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months and two weeks ago i broke up with him because for the last 2 months he has been so mean to me it's ridiculous. well turns out he was so hurt from me breaking up with him he didnt talk to me for a week and i tried so hard to talk to him but he just said mean things to me. fast foward to tonight, we finally worked things out and i told him while we were broken up i kissed another guy thinking that he would appreciate my honesty but i just got screamed at for that. We are finally going back out but it has to be a huge secret because his parents dont want us together. so today he snuck over my friends and we were drinking and i told him not to drink too much sine he had to go home and he had 8 beers and was really tipsy and kept annoying me to have sex with him and like i finally gave in because he gets mad when I dont so i did but he could tell i wasnt into it [ i wasnt wet] so he got pissed off and flipped at me, but he was drunk but still. then he started screaming at me for kissing another guy eventhough he said he was over it and he broke up with me over it and whenever i say he hurt me he always goes "well you kissed that guy" and before he left he said dont listent o me im drunk i love you i promise ill call you tonight. and i said pleasse call it'll break my heart if you dont and he never called. this isnt the first time he's done this to me, he doesnt have a cell fone either and he has work tomorrow and i cant call his house ever. now the guy that i kissed really likes me and hes sweet but hes kind of not my type but hes hot and popular and an amazing football player, i just dont knw what to do please help me out!
i think your ex boyfriend isnt the one for you if he keeps screaming at you and forcing you to do stuff. its hard to tell if a guy is telling the ruth or not when he's drunk...personally i would go with the guy you kissed because maybe then he would treat you better and be a little nicer to you.
ok so my boyfriend steven and i have bene going out for like EVER off and on and were young and we dont really know what love is, but im pretty sure i love him so at school.. he TOTALLY passes right by me and never talks to me and like ignores me.. he never talks to me first but then when i talk to other guys he blows shit.. idk what to do and so i was talking to this guy named will and steven is like screaming at me, im like the most jealous person in the world and i told steven like that if we werent going to talk then dont talk to other girls around me bc ill just get mad and now.. ugh he is talking to girls and getting mad at me when i talk to other guuys i want to lose him!! i just need to have like good things to say to him, that will really hit him hard. thanks sooo much!
he's doing this because he is as jealous as you are...
just say this: if you can talk to other girls,i can talk to other guys.you stop; ill stop easy as that.
Me and this boy like each other. we never admitted it to each otehr but we know we do. we have like a thing. and were going to be walking together to the park tomoroww and i want to hookup with him and im sure he wnats to hookup with me, but.... i dont know how to and im really nervous. i know im ready cuz im not young! im 15! but i dont wanna look stupid !
Help? Appricate ANYTHING!
Love --
when you get to the park...ask him if he wants to go to your house to like hang out,he says yes and probably the easiest thing to do is sit on the couch to watch tv.but sit closer than normal and when he looks at you look in his eyes and kiss em. since he likes you too,he would have no problem with this and continue with kissing you more
Give me some tips on getting a boyfirend or knowing if a guy likes me? How do i get a guys attention? I need help!!
guys love a girl who be's themselves
are very open with others(not too open)
very simple(no drama)
and they will kill for a girl who laughs and smiles to show a sense of humor
hey im a guy 13 . i know this emo girl shes not that emo she just dresses like one, shes quite normal. shes really hot and has loads of friends...she was going to smake out my best friend until he backed out. now I talk to her alot. I talked to her about music for about an hour and every song I said she liked it or liked it alot.. she said she didnt know I had such good music taste. then she asked me who was the hottest girl in her school. I didnt say her... then we started talking about strange stuff.......like what find hot in a girl what she finds hot in a man....I want to know if shes interested in me.. she called me a loser kind of joking.....she doesnt act interested in me when my best friend is around. when hes around she acts alot less immature and strange. she thought i would like rave music. she also set me up with another girl one (of her friends)....I said I wanted to go out with this other girl and she said she was a complete loser and I shouldnt go out with her and shes hated by everyone BTW Im not in her school but I used to be she wasnt there then....I think she cant make up her mind whether she likes me or not? how can I tell if she likes me? now we dont really talk... we dont get the chance.... when im hanging out with my friends and her friends we dont talk to each other much... but when im with her with like one or two other people she will say small things like someone else said ive grown etc.... but she comes across as not being shy at all, and shes got loads of guys to choose from.
girls try to act like they dont like anyone, but flirt anyway.
its complicated but thats how it is.
try giving her subtle hints if you will on liking her.
maybe she will get the courage tosayshe likes you back
(but dont pressure her in front of her friends)
we started off talking and it took me forgever to give him my number then we talked on the phone, and i got to know him really well, after knowing him for 4 months we wanted to be boyfrind girlfriend so we did i really dont know how it got started or who said it but we stared to say i love you well i really got into it and i ment it well 3 weeks ago he was talking to his friend and he asked him \"do you really love her\" well he calls me and says i dont want to say i love u any more im really upset at this point then he tells me \"i only said it because you did\"
what shoud i do ?
maybe he just got nervous.
guys do stupid stuff just to act quick so no ne could see he was frustated.
also saying you love him too soon could be unconfortable to the other person making them think about plans their not ready for.
this is what you should do...
just lay off the topic for a while.
and keep going out
just b/c he didnt say it doesnt mean its not true.
but eventully once HE gets to know you more..
he will say "i love you"
My boyfriend's dad is in the hospital & it seems to be something serious. He's been there for days and I've been trying to help and talk to him. He tells me not to worry and to focus on myself, not him. We've barely talked the last coupld of days. I feel really bad & I love him more than anything, so of course I want to be there for him. Does he just need space right now?
well he can just wanna seem like its no big deal so it wont scare you.
or he just wants to be the "man" and try not to show emotion.
well ima not sure, so just try when you ask him "what wrong" or "is there anything i can do to help" and he says "nothing" again..
just say u love him and then follow it up with a sincere hug
How can you tell by a hint, if guy wants to kiss you or not? Anything??? Any clues specifically, if you are a guy you may defintely answer this one:)
guys move closer to you and start doing something with their hands.
Why is everything so complicated when you are 14 I mean there's really nothing that makes sense anymore!
the best way to explain it is because your a teenager.
and basically drama happens whether you like it or not.
im 15 and im still overwhelmed by the crap people are doing and expecting from me.
its hard i know, just hang in there and try to stay away from the bad kids
All of the other girls I know are always just SO happy and smiling all the time no matter what, it's like nothing could ever upset them.
I, however, am always frowning and mad/depressed looking and I can't help it. I just never feel happy. I have never been truly happy and whenever I do smile it's fake unless I'm laughing at something.
And the happy little perky ones are the ones who attract the most boys. Isn't it true that men are attracted to happy women?
I want to know how to be all happy and perky and cheerful and pleasant all the time. I've tried thinking happy thoughts but it just doesn't work. I only think about things that make me pissed, because my life is filled with them, and things about myself that I hate (plenty of those too).
please just answer.
well some boys do like sad girls...
but if want to be happy.
try not thinkingn about the bad stuff and focus on a new hobby.
you only are depressed when you find time to sit around.
go out and do something(with friends)
hey again i love hiom alot so i really need good tipz
how should i dress
wat should i say plaese give me the best then best advice u have
get a life
all the coverup stuff i get stays on for like an hour and then wears off
does anyone know of a good coverup/foundation that stays on for a really long time
because i got this 24$ stuff from ulta and it only stayed on for a while the first day i wore it
and now it stays on for like an hour
sooo help!
try foundation mousse.
its like a thickish cream you blend wherever and it totally works
the background: about 6 months ago my boyfriend kissed another girl at a party. he said he was really sorry and didnt want to lose me, so i gave him another chance. but since then he has continuted to flirt with her. whenever shes around he pretty much ignores me and acts like an idiot showing off in front of her. i've told him like a bazillion times how bad this makes me feel, and he always promises not to do it again, but he keeps doing it. i know he likes her even though he insists he doesnt.
well the other night we were at a party and he did the same thing. so i broke up with him. he cried on the phone till 3 in the morning, begging me to take him back, swearing that he doesnt like her, that he only loves me. in the last couple days hes brought me flowers, presents, sent me love songs on my phone, and posted bulletins saying how much he loves me and that he doesnt like that girl. and everytime he comes over or calls, hes crying. his friends say he hasnt slept in like 3 days.
i really really love him - weve been going out for almost 3 years and hes like my best friend. i really want to go back out with him, but im afraid if i do, he'll just keep doing the same thing. plus i dont want a boyfriend who likes someone else. but i just dont get it! it seems so obvious that he likes her, so why doesnt he just go out with her now that hes free? (she likes him and he knows it). should i take the way hes acting as a sign that he really loves me? should i take him back? or will he just keep doing the same thing?
you have given him way too many chances. ima sorry but u gotta give him the altimatum...
say you can have her or me and if its me, you cant flirt with her at all.
let him decide( hopefully its you)
? like in an everyday situation like school or over the phone or on aim
you can say heyy whats up?
then carry on about something you saw her doing today and ask her what that was all about.
and that could springboard you into a differant topic between you guys.
*just remember to be yourself when your talking to her*
okay so i am 16/f. I currently have a friend that i hook up with sometimes. I was wondering, since we both like eachother, what is a really cute/hot/sexy thing i can do when we are kissing?it would be great to get answers from guys, but anything would be fine. thanks!
ima srry ima not a guy...
but you can try putting some tongue in there if you havent started to already. then maybe like while your kissing, "feel" him(i know that sounds gross)but if he is like 16 or older, he'll like that
okay well really what i'm trying to say is that i still like my ex boyfriend alot and i heard he still "kinda" likes me. and i want to "get him jealous" if thats what you want to call it. really what i'm asking is how can i make myself look like "breath taking" if you will. or " eye catching".
i'll give you the low down. i'm a 13 year old girl. im about 5'3ish with short brown hair. its about sholder length. brown eyes, and i'm pretty skinny, about average. how should i do my hair, what color make up annd what not? i can pretty much do anything with my hair. i usually straighten it. sometimes i scrunch it. and what color eye shadow if any? what kind of shirt? low cut, full tshirt? quarter sleeved/low cut? i have mostly cloths from hollister and some from abrecrombie and american eagle, so. i just really want to catch his attention and make him pretty much jealous of anyone siiting near me if thats possible. sorry this is so long. tahnks in advnace!
well it looks like you have another situation i had a while ago...
to get him jealous, you first need to flirt with him in any way you first won him over just to get him interested. then once you think he's almost there...try talkin a lil bit more to other guys in front of him.
good luck = )
well this may sound kinda stupid, but i'm 15/m and i've only ever had one girlfriend and that ended badly about 2 months ago because i found out she was pretty much lying about her whole personality and was just a total slut behind my back, so yea....well i've recently been a lot more outgoing with meeting girls and such since i had such a bad experience w/ her, but i've gotten rejected *or told by friends that she's going to reject me* 2 times already, and the 3rd will probably be soon because i'm gonna ask her out but her best friend says she doesn't like me...so can anyone give me any advice on finding the right girl? my best friend has been in an amazing relationship for 3 months now and i want something like that...something where my girl will actually call me and want to talk to me *my last never called me- she made me call her instead...only time she ever called was to break up w/ me* so yea...and i don't want any "be yourself" shit because that's all i ever do and it never seems to work...do i talk to much or what? i don't know what im doing wrong...
the best way to find any1 for that matter is to be yourself,so when a girl 'sees' you, its for you and not someone u try to be.and eventully you will steal that one girls heart trust me
i need to do something. my life is going down the drain i need to self harm. i cant cut myself, it hurts too mcuh and i cant puke;. i dont want to hear that self-harm isnt the way. i dont care. does anyone out there self harm anyother way? any ideas?? it will make me feel better.
well first of all, why harm yourself you you have nothing to do with the problem,its just all in your head, its not my fault keep telling yourself.
im telling you this, because i have the same problem and i dont want you to get hurt.
but in worst case you still wanna hurt yourself, try something less harmful by putting a rubberband around your wrist and snapping it against your arm really hard.
good luck
i have a weird problem: my boyfriend is jealous of me. for example, i'm in honors classes and get really good grades, and hes always like "you're so smart and im so stupid!". if i win an award or accomplish something, he never says congratulations or good job, he just pouts. or if i do something with my girlfriends, he acts all left out, even tho its just girls. also, he spent all year convincing me to try out for cheerleading, and then when i made it, i got a lot of attention, and that made him mad. the weird thing is, he's really funny and popular and athletic and lots of girls like him, so it doesnt seem like he'd have any reason to be jealous of me. i love him so much but this is putting a real strain on our relationship! why does he act that way??
believe it or not, its because he loves you.
try confronting him,then spendsome extra time with him.and make him feel special when he does something cool
okeyyyy. so i have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends, but he just had his one year anniversary with his girlfriend. and i know they're serious and whatnot, but he still said that if things went badly with them, he'd deffinitely go out with me. and that made me really happy, and i reallyreally like him. i have so much fun when i'm with him. and basically, he had me at hello.
and there's this other boy, single, cute, i have fun with him, starttttting to like him, but he's not like the other guy. i know i'd have a better chance with this guy, but still, i'm not sure what i should do.
i'm not sure if i should wait around for the guy who i really really like.
or take my chances with the other guy?
well if the you originally liked is still taken....
then instead of waiting, go with the other guy.
plus,guys go crazy over a girl they cant have