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CAN YOU TAKE BACK THE LOVE WORD
we started off talking and it took me forgever to give him my number then we talked on the phone, and i got to know him really well, after knowing him for 4 months we wanted to be boyfrind girlfriend so we did i really dont know how it got started or who said it but we stared to say i love you well i really got into it and i ment it well 3 weeks ago he was talking to his friend and he asked him \"do you really love her\" well he calls me and says i dont want to say i love u any more im really upset at this point then he tells me \"i only said it because you did\"
what shoud i do ?
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maybe he just got nervous.
guys do stupid stuff just to act quick so no ne could see he was frustated.
also saying you love him too soon could be unconfortable to the other person making them think about plans their not ready for.
this is what you should do...
just lay off the topic for a while.
and keep going out
just b/c he didnt say it doesnt mean its not true.
but eventully once HE gets to know you more..
he will say "i love you"
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I am having dejavu. Brandi [ygsgirl] is ABSOLUTELY right!!
I can't tell you how happy you should be.. he is being honest.. something I couldn't do in my last relationship, and it caused the relationship to end- because I kept saying those three words.. and I didn't exactly mean it. I mean, sure I really liked her.. but it didn't seem to me that we would get married or anything- we were just going out because we both liked each other a lot, in my eyes. But when I told her one day that I didn't exactly mean it, I was just saying it because I felt I had to, I just ended the relationship. Then she went around and told everyone I used her, blah, blah, blah.
Okay.. so beside my blabbing, I think that your relationship will go much farther than mine did- because if he is willing to be honest with you, you know that you can trust him, and be honest with him, as well. Your relationship will be based on trust, not lust. Love is a word that is thrown around a lot.. and isn't meant most of the time.. like in the Snow Patrol song "Chasing Cars":
"Those three words
Are said too much
But not enough,"
Meaning that "I love you" is said a lot, but it isn't meant most of the time, as I just said.
Be glad that he's being honest with you, and hold onto this guy, because most guys aren't trustworthy and honest.
--Jack
(15/m)
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okay, so i know it hurts, but he realized that he didnt mean what he said. its sometimes easy to mistake infatuation for love. just be glad that he didnt lesser the the word. i think you should give it time and let him figure out when he truly loves you. keep your head up,m he'll come around.
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Honestly? Be grateful that he is being honest about it.
The word 'love' is just so easily thrown around. At least he doesn't want to cheapen the meaning of the word by saying it to you when he doesn't mean it.
ygs-29/f
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