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I have been cursed to be born into a family of six kids, thus making me pretty much crazy. However, some good comes of this: I have a wide range of experiences, from hair catching fire to my mom barbequeing with gasoline (true story). So, I've grown quite a repertoire of knowledge, experience, and wisdom to share with the world! Oh, and I can type in complete sentences, which pretty much rocks.
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I am a female gonna be 20 next month.Me and that guy we've been together for 4 months.In the beginning it was so beautiful we were like 2 little birds but by the end of may everything change even if i call him he does'nt wanna stay on the phone with me, not only that but everything change about him.I ask him to break up he doesn't wanna,he said dat he still has the same love that he had the 1st day we have met.Do you think he got another girl or wat?Cuz I don't know wat to do
Oh, dear, red flags all over. If he can't even have a conversation with you, how can he have a relationship with you? I say leave him. He doesn't want to break up, but who cares? He can't make you stay in a relationship that you don't want or that doesn't benefit you anymore. It's your choice. Not his.
I hope everything works out for you.
Good luck!
How do you ask out a guy that you really like, and you know that he likes you. We`ve kissed and hang out alot! He has told me he likes me alot and stuff, but i don`t want to wait anymore because i want him to be mine and only mine. what should I do?
And what kind of things can i do around him to show him i like him alot / love him
Again, a very uncomplicated question.
You know he likes you. You like him. Half the work is already done! I think that just asking him out would show him that you like him just fine. So quit wasting time and just ask him!
I like this boy he always stares and smiles at me. I was in flag football and i was on his team and then this girl joined after me and later at lunch he walked up to me and said im training you for football alone then the girl said what about me and he said no way!! I have heard lots of rumors that he likes me and im starting to not like him but i still don't know if he likes me. i'm so confused does he seem to like me???
Yes, he probably likes you. But that doesn't matter. The thing that matters is...do you like him? If yes, then ask him out. If not, then do nothing. Just because he likes you doesn't mean you have to like him back. It's not really anything all that complicated.
do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them
One's gender is immaterial when considering something like that. It's a matter of being polite. When you look someone in the eye, you appear as if you really are interested, confident, and most of all, honest. It's a habit that everyone should get into because it's polite.
And as a side note, personally, I adore it when my boyfriend looks me in the eye. He has such gorgeous green eyes! But anyways. I hope you see what I mean.
How do you know when to consider someone your boyfriend or consider yourself someone's girlfriend?
In general, just because someone asks you out on a date, it doesn't mean you are boyfriend or girlfriend. It means you are going out somewhere to get to know each other, but you are allowed to date more than one person. You are official once you have decided to be exclusive with each other.
When I was 10 years old, I had a incident where a grown man stopped me next to the road and he wanted me to touch his penis. Since the age of 16 I have had a problem with giving a guy any form of foreplay. Some times I could masturbate them, but that was guys I did not really care for.
I am in a 5 month relationship now and love my boyfriend very much. I have told him what happened to me and he understands, but I want to be able to take part in foreplay with him, I just get to scared. I can also not be naked infront of him when it is not dark. I think this is all connected to my childhood. Other than that our sex life is good. Can anybody please help me? I am a 21 year old female
Oh, dear, that's very unfortunate. What happened to you as a child is completely wrong and I'm sorry that such things should happen to anyone. Just be very happy that you have such an understanding boyfriend!
I think the only way for you to really deal with this would be for you to get some therapy, either with a regular therapist or a sex therapist. If you have never dealt with this problem before now, then you need to do it right away. It will be hard, but the longer you leave this negativity in your life, the longer you are allowing it to hurt you.
Good luck!
Im 13, female...and this guy has liked me for about three years. I didnt find out that he liked me until last year. It turns out that everyone knew but me. Anyway. Ever since fourth grade (until sometime last year) had hated him. But then I went to his bebo.com page and saw that he had called me a "wannabe". I was really mad and I went off on him through and email. So we were sending emails back and forth going off on eachother then somehow we were okay with eachother...I dont really remember how...and then we started talking on aim. At first I would get annoyed when he i/med me. but then after a while I started really wanting to talk to him and...well now I look forward to talking to him. But heres the thing that kicks me in the ass...
I think hes really ugly. Hes overweight and he smells sometimes...but I really like him. Usually I wouldnt mind going out with him but...everyone at my school hates him and if I went out with him, hed probably tell all of his freinds and then everyone would know and then I would be more of an outcast as I already am. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?
Oh, stop being a baby about it. I'm sorry if I'm being insensitive, but you seem like the type that can handle it. Although it's good that you should want to have someone good-looking, you have already admitted that you are shallow, and I'm sure you've heard it said a million times that looks aren't everything. If you like him, you like him; what difference should it make if anyone else likes him or not? If you are going to let all those other people's opinions affect you, then obviously, you don't deserve this guy and aren't mature enough to be dating anyone.
Don't worry, though. You're still young. You have time to get over this.
Good luck!