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I like a guy but im shallow! What do i do?
Im 13, female...and this guy has liked me for about three years. I didnt find out that he liked me until last year. It turns out that everyone knew but me. Anyway. Ever since fourth grade (until sometime last year) had hated him. But then I went to his bebo.com page and saw that he had called me a "wannabe". I was really mad and I went off on him through and email. So we were sending emails back and forth going off on eachother then somehow we were okay with eachother...I dont really remember how...and then we started talking on aim. At first I would get annoyed when he i/med me. but then after a while I started really wanting to talk to him and...well now I look forward to talking to him. But heres the thing that kicks me in the ass...
I think hes really ugly. Hes overweight and he smells sometimes...but I really like him. Usually I wouldnt mind going out with him but...everyone at my school hates him and if I went out with him, hed probably tell all of his freinds and then everyone would know and then I would be more of an outcast as I already am. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?
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Well, first stop being as shallow, if you'd be embarrased to be seen in public with him because of what other people would think, don't waste his time (or yours)
If you really like him, to hell with reputation, go out with him.
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Oh, stop being a baby about it. I'm sorry if I'm being insensitive, but you seem like the type that can handle it. Although it's good that you should want to have someone good-looking, you have already admitted that you are shallow, and I'm sure you've heard it said a million times that looks aren't everything. If you like him, you like him; what difference should it make if anyone else likes him or not? If you are going to let all those other people's opinions affect you, then obviously, you don't deserve this guy and aren't mature enough to be dating anyone.
Don't worry, though. You're still young. You have time to get over this.
Good luck!
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