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14/f
RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"
I was like mortified..
I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him? (link)
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awh, well, maybe he thought your brother was jokeing or something?
But, just act normall & if he talks to you about it then tell him if you want him to know, or if you don't want him to know, a little white lie never hurt anyone
hope I helped & good luck!
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My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14? (link)
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Well, it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, just what the 2 of you think about this.
If your friends don't like it & start calling you bad things & spreading rumors about you, then are they really your friends?
Your mom will love you no matter what, & she does probolly know whats best for you (& yes, it's true, I had to learn that probolly the hardest way possible)
But, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, if you love him, & he loves you, then, thats all that matters.
If there is love, no matter the age diffrence, then you really can't stop the love just cos of the age? you'll still feel the same about someone
& 14 isn't too young to fall in-love, I fell in-love for the 1st time when I was 14. & I still love her.
So, I hope things work out, & I hope I helped.
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What if my best friends are having a fight over love? It's not even that big of a deal, it's just problems in their life that restrict them. How can I get them to resolve their problems and get back together? (link)
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theres not much that you can actuly do other then talk them through it & help them out
& as for their realationship, time will help them if the problems get resolved
think of it this way...
do 1 thing at a time, solve 1 problem at a time
& over time the problems will decrese
& at the sametime their realationship will get better
so, it may not seem like your doing 2 things at once, but you really are
& its for their good
hope I helped
& good luck!
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Okay so I really really REALLY like this guy and I've liked him for about 3 months or more which is actually a very long time for me because i tend to be somewhat flighty when it comes to boys. And this guy happens to like me, but he also happens to my best friends ex boyfriend! I'm afraid that she'll get mad if I go out with him. Some people think that I should just go out with him and not worry about my friend because she might get mad, but she'll get over it eventually. What do you think?
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well, I think you should ask your best friend. I'm sure she wouldn't mind. But if she does, your best friend is more important than this guy, & you'll find someone else.
hope I helped
-Cameron
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hi people
I really like this boy!!! and i think he likes me back cause he is always looking at me and stuff well so i was going to the mall one day and he was there to and i was sitting on a bench and than he comes and sits right next to me! well i allready had a big fight with my friends and i was in a bad mood so he (max) was like:
max: hi
me: hi
max: how are ya?
me: i dont know
max: you dont know how you are?
me: thats what im saying..................
well and than he asked me a lot of questions like: so are you in love with robert i hear that you'r going out with him (which is not true) and are you good in school......blablabla
well then he asked: soo wanna be my friend?
and i was like: dont know...
and i was very mean to him after that and i dont know why and i really hate me and today some other boy came to me in school and said: lisa i have to tell you from robert that he loves you and max heard that and said yeah i love you 2 i wanted to be your friend but you were so mean to me!
well thats the story AND PLEEAAASE GIVE ME ADVICE i really like him and how can i appologise and not seem silly??? so please give me advice
THANKS
P.S. you can also write me at corinne_neger@yahoo.de i would be pleased (link)
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well... you can just talk to him & say your really sorry about what happened at the mall & why you were in a bad mood, & he should understand
hope I helped, & good luck
-Cameron
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ok, my fiance is 22 and he went to a therapist hte other day. he has a lot of mental problems (he was raped as a young boy) and thigns that other girls have done to him, he is scared will happen again. well the therapist diagnosed him with Bypolar type 2, parnoia, and depression. i don't know how to handle them or to help him out with them. i understand the depresseion, because i myself have lived with depression for a long time. so if anyone can tell me any ways i can help him out or things i can do to take care of him. becuase i love him alot and i want to help out. also could you describe these 3 things to me so that i can get a better grasp on them? thank you! (link)
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well, I have alot of issues to, I have a ton of depression problems, from my family really fucking me up, I dated a lesbain who I really cared for & that really caused a ton of problems, & now I'm afraid to commit again
to help him out, which I really wish someone would at least try for me, & so its good he has someone who will
you just need to comfort him anytime hes down, & be with him all the time, cos being with you sould make him happy, & that always help cos he wont have these problems as often if hes happy & hes with you cos he cares about you
you could also talk to him about getting on some depression medicne, it really helps, I'm 14 & I'm on some, & it helps, but it takes a while to find the right amount of the right stuff, so give it time, but its worth it
I hope I helped, & I hope things work out
-Cameron
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i am old fashioned and my bf wants to kiss every period n the day and i am starting to get tired of it because first of all everytime we kiss he gets his spit on my lips which is really gross so i want to go back to being friend but how do i tell him with out hurting his feelings
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ew... gross...
well, if you want to just become friends, then tell him, or you could just find something to fight about, & then break-up with him then, & say that you just want to be friends, he should understand
I hope I helped
-Cameron
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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it. (link)
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well, I'm straight, but I dated a bi girl, who is now (well, we really think she is) a lesbian, & so I know a little about this
you should find out if hes like that too, but if hes not, then you need to becarefull cos if he dosen't want to be around gays or bis, then I don't think you should say anything
but I don't think you sould worry to much, most people go through this in there life (I think its 97%), so its not uncommon, but you might be gay or bi, you wont know untill later on probolly
& I think you should get a friend, who is a girl, & is close to you, & you can trust her, & tell her about your feelings, cos guys might take it the wrong way, but if hes truly a good friend, he wont care, & he'll stay your friend, & maybe it wont bother him, but that dosen't mean that hes that way to
I really hope I helped & hope things work out
-Cameron
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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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well, if you really like him you should stay with him, but if you don't then there are other guys out there, John & Nick seem to like you, I don't think its wrong, the last girlfriend I had we had boring phone conversations... but now that were friends they are more interesting, so maby your both just nervous
hope I helped
-Cameron
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What do you guys look for in a girl? (like, personality and looks wise) (link)
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ummm... physically...
I like, dirt-blondes, around 5'1" or 5'2" or even just 5', weight about 100 lbs., normally skinny, but athletic works too, & green eyes... I don't know why, but I just love green eyes on a girl...
personality...
very sweet, funny, good sence of humor, not to clingy (a little is nice though, just to know you care), pretty happy, can cheer me up when something goes wrong, & dosen't care what other people think of her
hope I helped
-Cameron
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How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him? (link)
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awww, you could write him a song, or give him a mixed tape or CD with love songs on it
Ice Cream by Sarah McLachlan is a good 1, you could sing that to him, its an easy song, just look it up on google
Push by Sarah McLachlan is another good 1, its about her husband, its alot harder to do, but you could try & sing that to him, look it up on google or singingfish.com
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Ummmmmm ok this is really weird. I have had these strange dreams for about a week about my friend Nick. The only problem is its like in my dream we are going out. I used to only see him as a friend but now I think I am starting to like him because of all these dreams. What should I do? What do these dreams mean? (link)
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Dreams don't speak to you in saying that, they show you waht you want metaphorically, like I had a dream... I killed myself over someone I loved & its the whole Gloomy Sunday thing (Gloomy Sunday is a song about a woman who's lover died & then she kills herself & then she wakes up & says "my heart is telling you how much I wanted you") & so this meant that I was willing to die for her
so I think you might like him, or you might not, it might be trying to tell you something else that your not seeing, but I think it is that you do like him
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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I meet this guy on monday that i really think is hott. But my cousin, alyssa likes him also. I asked him and he said yes, but that was on monday night. He hasn't called me back yet. What should i do? Should i call him back, or would that make me seem desprate, in which i don't want to do. Im only 14, AND FEMALE.
I Need Help!!!!
Sincerly
*Elmo* (link)
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yeah, call him, but it wouldn't matter about Alyssa, she might get mad, but since your family, she'll get over it & forgive you
so just call the guy back, you wont sound despret, you'd sound despret if you waited a day & then called him, but since its almost a week, then call him, it wont hurt
I hope for the best for you two
-Cameron
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Why do people like romantic themes in stories? It's not that I don't, I'm just curious, what do people find attractive about love stories? (link)
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well, if your with a boyfriend/girlfriend & you see a romantic movie then its just something that they like to think about, like "I hope our lives turn out like that" or something, & its just what a lot of people like to do with there boyfriend/girlfriend is go to a movie & so if your seeing a romantic movie that makes it better
hope I helped
-Cameron
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i know this might sound kind of stupid, but what do you do to get certain guys to notice you? please help! (link)
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well... it depends on the guy
some like to be friends 1st & then they notice you, so work if your just nice to them, some by just even talking to him, & some by dressing slutty...
so try & find out what kind of guy he is & then go do somethings that might intrest him & might make him attracked to you
your best bet is to be friends with him, that'll build a foundashion & then you'll know what hes into & you can work your way up from there
thats all I can really say, & I really hope I helped & good luck!
-Cameron
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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all? (link)
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well, when my girlfriend's dad died, she was in Quebeck & I ws is Dallas, so I couldn't do anything, but she wanted a space, but her & I broke up, but theres other reasons, but I sent her a card
the only thing I can say is comfort her & let her come to you when shes ready, & thats all you can really do
hope I helped
-Cameron
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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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wow... ok, long & confusing story...
alls I can say is that your just going to have to wait & see, I don't know if he'll end up with Melissa or if he'll end up with you, I'm very sorry about this, but its 1 of those things where you have to wait & see
alls you can really do now is talk to him, just be as close to him as you can be, & get him to come over as soon as possibul & you 2 can talk this out, thats all that you can do
I'm very sorry & I hope things work out
-Cameron
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My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
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ha ha, yeah... most of my friends who have boyfriends, boyfriends get mad at me when I talk with my friends. Just tell him that your just friends with these people & to back off, or make a white lie & say "hes gay, don't tell him i told you though" or "he has a girlfriend" or something, that always works... ofcorse... if hes not gay & it gets to him that you said that... he might get mad or upset. So becarefull, but only if you have to make a white lie
& I'm straight so I know about the whole jellisy thing
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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What are the tell tale signs that some one is cheating on you?
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-says the wrong name when there talking to you
-dosen't have enough time for you
-acts fake when your around
-forgetting to say "I Love You"
-dosen't call
-wont look into your eyes when talking to you
-avoids you
-has there friends hit on you (so it covers them up)
thats about all I can think of at 12:30 at night
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.
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well... my girlfriend & I live a very long distance, about an houer away. I very realy get to see her (our stupid friends wont let us see eachother untill THEY have time).
but do what me & Sarah are trying to do (yeah, my girlfriend's name is Sarah also... very ironic), her & I are just trying things out & hopeing that they work, & if things don't work, then her & I will break up. But were trying to make things work, so they should to, it never hurts to try!
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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